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Pleasures of Hotwifeing or Not
September 06 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Now that it's in front if you, and if it stays regular, you might start seeing your wife get a stronger emotional connection with her lover, and that might cause you to feel left out and very jealous. It could turn from being something hot that you and your wife share via a strong love for each other which makes you feel as if you are sharing these experiences together, to feeling as if your are the 3rd wheel and left out emotionally - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with coops , it could get abit tricky . I don't mind seeing my wife get fucked by someone else , but on a regular basis by the same bloke ,id start to get worried . But then again ,theres lots of couples that have permanent lovers , and it seems to work for them . Just beware I guess. a while back my wife fucked a couple while I was at work , I knew about it of course , and had no problem with it , I like seeing her have fun. But the guy part of the couple became attached and started txting her daily . It became really weird , he got pissed off when she didn't reply etc . It kind of freaked my wife out abit . Now im very careful who we let into our sex life, it was a good lesson for both of us. JUst beware
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RHP User
12 years ago
You said your relaxed, does that mean you feel no jealousy now or is something else satisfying a need? Hotwifing is a tamer version of cuckholding which is based around the Husband being humiliated by his wifes blatent infedelitities and actions and his sexuality is controlled by her. Some people enjoy this, everyone has kinks and this is another. Maybe do a bit of research, talk with your girl and work out what it is that gets you both off in a way you both enjoy, keep communication going, it's important for your relationship and self awareness. We are always talking about what we are doing and set guidelines that grow and change as we do. I have more than one lover and prefer my lovers to have others so there is less chance of anyone developing romantic notions. My husband reads all of my txts etc, so he always gets to share in the anticipation with me and feels included. Sex is frequent in the lead up to my going out to play and nearly always straight after. When a lover comes to play we have already discussed the level of Hubby's involvement, will he be tied? Watch only or watch and jump in when he can't resist anymore? Humiliation is only used when playing and isn't sprung unawares on lovers either. If either of us don't feel comfortable with a guy or a situation then it's a no go. The point is to know what you both get out of it, enjoy it and nurture your own relationship as well.Instead of asking how you should feel, look for the reasons of those feelings and work out with your girl what your going to do about them and have fun doing it, if it feels good and doesn't hurt anyone (unless that's the kink ;) enjoy!Coops, you'll only feel like a third wheel if you allow it to happen! Sometimes the jealousy is part of the attraction, part of the humiliation that some Cucks enjoy. I thought you were a dirty fucker? You've gone all nilla on this one!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have never met a guy for the first time with out hubby and every time I play wether hubby is with me or not we always discuss everything that happened and what is said ect ( well what I can remember sometimes it can blur in the excitement ) that is half the fun as it always lead to more fun with hubby - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have never met a guy for the first time with out hubby and every time I play wether hubby is with me or not we always discuss everything that happened and what is said ect ( well what I can remember sometimes it can blur in the excitement ) that is half the fun as it always lead to more fun with hubby - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Haha not at all... I live the cuck fetish. I'm married, I encourage my wife to fuck anyone. She wants... I have even told my best mate that we involve other guys and trying to get him on board!!! Just giving this dude the heads up incase his wife falls in live and he wonders where it all went wrong... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok, I take it back, your a dirty fucker....Best mate, been there, was fun, ended up here looking for more Yeah, I'm hearing you on the heads up, it's why we have rules and keep in touch with how we are both feeling. It'd be pretty fucked up to lose a relationship through something that's supposed to be fun and a little added extra.
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RHP User
12 years ago
How would your girl feel if things were reversed?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tickled_kink' How would your girl feel if things were reversed? Eye for an eye and the whole world goes blind. Why does the issue of it being reversed come into it?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't know that I could that but hey as long as your both happy and comfortable
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RHP User
12 years ago
This is something all couples go through at some point.. I regularly play with couples and each couple dynamic is unique, there is no text book method to deal with these situations... At the end of the day, all activities should be for the sake of bettering/ adding spice to your relationship.. May be you are not comfortable with that being in your presence.. May be it's time for you to think about a regular female lover for yourself.. No matter how passionate the sex is with third parties, please don't lose sight of that emotional exclusiveness between the two you. Best of luck to you.....
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
Quoting 'tickled_kink'How would your girl feel if things were reversed? I think the issue the OP is facing is having the fantasy grounded into a reality which however hot may not live up to the vitality a fantasy can provide, and not one that really needs to question where his girlfriend would sit if he had a girl on the side, who then came over and the evening resulted in a hot FMF.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Admittedly.... I haven't read all of the previous replies... .... but I have to assume you spoke with your lady BEFORE she brought the guy to your home, and that she sought your permission. So you now have a choice..... to accept it, or not. Either way, communicating your point of view with her is essential. DG
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madotara69
12 years ago
It is pretty clear that we have expressed enjoying the company with another man, though if either of us chose to seek the company with others separately, then we would need to question what went wrong.But that is just us.Mado Tara xx
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Mister_Miss
12 years ago
Thanks for all your feedback, it certainly has got some mixed reactions, we did go into this after discussing all the advantages and disadvantages, and we are both happy with the outcome. Sharing your partner with an exclusive lover, or a series of lovers, like at a sex party, we have chosen the first option, and my girl enjoys the the ability to reach different levels of sexual excitement with one other guy. When she returns,she fully informs me of everything they have done, and especially anything that has excited her, sometimes different lovers, bring our different feelings.
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Playful2looking
12 years ago
i had a read of your profile. In your sex interests it says you would MMF bi. would you like her to share him with you? maybe then you would feel less like the third wheel if thats how you maybe feeling.I guess I agree with rock n mix do this hot wife thing together and make it all about both of you. There is always the risk that the lovers could fall in love. but by the sound of it you guys have already set out bounderies. only you guys can tell. I like watching my wife having sex with other people but we share its done together. i dont think we could take seperate lovers and go on dates unless there were strong bounderies.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It would leave one person left with one eye....have you seen Se7en? :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
I really appreciate hearing other people's experiences to get a wide ranging view of the many aspects of our lifestyle... I love to hear that you are both getting off on your way of living the lifestyle!
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RHP User
12 years ago
This topic is as simplistic as it can get. You just want to see your lovely happy. And you will allow anything and do just as much to achieve it. I am humbled due to your care and consideration for each other. You like it like this and no one can stand in your way. Keep doing what your doing, because this works for you. :)
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Mister_Miss
12 years ago
It has been very interesting getting a lot of different ideas on our choice to share our sex life.
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