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Popular RHPers
March 16 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
I dont know if it makes you more popular or just more real. I think if you post or comment other users know you are an active profile and are probably more inclined to check you out. Just my thoughts on it. x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Posting on the forum does help a bit. I do get more traffic to my profile page but that does not translate to actual meets. That could just be me though. Should a verified profile be enough to say you are real ticklish?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with xxticklishxx. Being in the Forums makes me more 3 dimensional . There's lots of Profiles and they're all essentially the same . The Forums give me a voice and a brain that aren't necessarily conveyed by my Pics & Profile blurb. Has it made me more successful with meeting people ? Well I get plenty of interest but my location is what holds me back. Not many RHP peeps around here... Definately being a Forumite gives me an edge though (damn , now the Secret's out). GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Unsure if "Popular" is the right word for me as I see it being proactive to learn and be educated. I expose myself, maybe a little venerable at times posting but hey...I am a real human being that writes down my thoughts and writes from my heart.. I sure do get a lot of lovely emails from unknowns and people who are posters, regarding my comments which is really nice and thoughtful as they have gone out of their way to be kind......as well as that I get a lot of lookers checking out my profile...which is ok too. Many who come to the Forums I assume they do too.. As for meeting people..yes I have and chosen very wisely, as the people I've met are exactly who and what they're profile states and are real. Actually will be meeting some regular posters from Brisbane in the upcoming week for "Meet and Greet" and can't wait. :-) Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think the web chat rooms have that affect, moreso than the forums.
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RHP User
13 years ago
who ever knows which is the right one ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Being unpopular on the forums? :-0 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I made friends through the forum. And as ticklish said when you post most people who read the forum know you are real and not a fake profile and a bit about how you think. Overall its not a bad place to find like minded people. Also yes, many have checked my profile after a post, but not everybody who looks at my profile will contacted me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Putting your thoughts and personality out there in a space where interested people can get more of an insight to your personality is a plus. Unless you're a jerk, I guess...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Who is really "popular"? Forums are such a small part of the whole RHP experience. Like Lil bit angelic says the chat rooms on my minds eye are the more "real" people. They (well some, and generally the ones that get attention )arnt afraid to face up on cam, and are good value. In here its just an opinion or sometimes "ass vice" , not a conversational tone at all. Just because as well say like 5 people in a thread say. "yes such and such i like your posts" etc..to me doesn't equate to being popular. Most forum peeps say they are hear for forums not hook ups anyways. Also being a prolific poster is just that nothing special and perhaps a tad annoying but to me that's it. I dare say mister green its because of your looks then your forum posts, don't get me wrong your posts are good too lol. I have seen (but not in a while) delicious couple Brisbane posts. Now i bet you she'd be popular. For her funny witty posts? Maybe. For her hot hot pics in her profile ? Ohhhhh you betcha!!! I'd put money on that! PS sorry for lack of caps or Typos. Am on my Ph.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'zu7bcv'Posting on the forum does help a bit. I do get more traffic to my profile page but that does not translate to actual meets. That could just be me though. Should a verified profile be enough to say you are real ticklish? I just think you get more insight into someones personality from the forums. And like Superfox I have found the forums very educational
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Litonya'I made friends through the forum. And as ticklish said when you post most people who read the forum know you are real and not a fake profile and a bit about how you think. Overall its not a bad place to find like minded people.Also yes, many have checked my profile after a post, but not everybody who looks at my profile will contacted me. For male hook ups no Most the men I am intimate with have never read the forums. the men I have met of the forums I have not had sex with. I think that the men I meet have enough friends, and just want to get laid. I keep in contact with my forum friends, see them when I can or ring them now and again. I do get a lot of work via the forums, same thing people realise I am real and there is a lot of trust that goes into taking peoples intimate photgrahps. So they get the feel of who I am to a degree on the forums.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If we consider how much money goes into advertising each day.. both to make, and to use... we come to one of two conclusions 1) They must be MAD 2) Advertising works. "Chicken Treat" I HATE and LOATHE the advertising campaign they use, and since I FIRST saw it, have refused to even enter their outlets since. "Antz Pantz" and the "Anteater" Ads... ??? Honestly?? I WOULD only wear Antz Pantz... If I could *grins* - So... we advertise ourselves on our Profile... (one hit?) (Membership option Speaks LOUDLY) - We join the "Chat rooms" Some like us.. some don't and same in reverse. I have met a couple of people this way... and one or two are GREAT friends in the outside world years later - We READ the forums..and start to develop a perception of individuals... Some we may have thought were ok.. suddenly are shallow and nasty - We Contribute to the forums.. and it is here we are rather scrutinized - and therefore judged. The good thing about the forums is that we can build a profile on various people, which makes them attractive, OR repulsive to us - often, we find ourselves attracted to the persona of a contributing member, WAAAY outside of our profile listed range of "Persons of interest" "Seeking........." Yaaada Yaaada..
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RHP User
13 years ago
You are right using EITHER/BOTH words in the context of the Forums.. *smiles* ef·fect 1. something that is produced by an agency or cause; result; consequence: Exposure to the sun had the effect of toughening his skin. 2. power to produce results; efficacy; force; validity; influence: His protest had no effect. 3. the state of being operative or functional; operation or execution; accomplishment or fulfillment: to bring a plan into effect. 4. a mental or emotional impression produced, as by a painting or a speech. 5. meaning or sense; purpose or intention: She disapproved of the proposal and wrote to that effect. -------------------------------------------------- af·fect1. to act on; produce an effect or change in: Cold weather affected the crops. 2. to impress the mind or move the feelings of: The music affected him deeply. 3. (of pain, disease, etc.) to attack or lay hold of.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I find the chat rooms too fast and difficult to converse with. Perhaps I am slow... I have made a few friends on the forums. Not met anyone yet but that is just my circumstance. I wish I knew about this when I was younger and living in Sydney's inner west. But then again, I had loads of girlfriends back then anyways. - Posted from rhpmobile
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GezWouldGo
13 years ago
As we speak there are currently 926 women online. Of those only eighteen do i recognise as ever having posted in any forum. Put simply the forums account for less than .2% of RHP users. You do the math.
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LemonDance
13 years ago
I'm definitely not a "popular" forum poster so am often surprised when I meet a guy from RHP and he comments on one of my posts, or says something like "oh I liked your comment on the forums"... I'd always thought is was only a few out of the many who read & post on the forums, but more so I'm finding there is a lot more silent readers than I'd imagined.This will be the 10th year since reading my first RHP forum post.... I've been a silent reader for most of those years. Over the years I've made many good, long lasting friendships from people I've met on RHP... but not one through forums!Lem :o)
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RHP User
13 years ago
The forums are entertaining and made up of all different sorts of people.. I've been on the roller coaster where one moment Im popular' then slide down to the other side then back up again. I've had the sweetest contacts with those who catch onto the fact I mostly post with tounge in cheek, and the worse from those who dont.Popularity is a individual thing. Away from here I dont have any problem ' thats far more important to me . But in saying that' there are some posters in here I admire more than others.. thats life is'nt it ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
We read a reply on a thread here and we immediately added the poster to our " never go there" list so as Messolonghi said, it works both ways.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Does being an active voice in the forums increase contact?Absolutely.... the amount of mail Ive received in response to comments Ive made in the forums would be ten X compared to the emails Ive chosen to send to select members.What happens after that initial contact..... is up to me, her...... and us.Admittedly, roughly 1/3 of the mail I receive is from angry penis profiles telling me to piss off and that I have no idea.... but hey, the other 2/3 arent listening to that 1/3.DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with mistergreen, it makes you more three dimensional, I know I like reading the forums, and have looked at profiles of people who's comments I have read 😄- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I wouldn't know the difference. Not sure if I'm popular, but since I mostly get positive responses and messages, I think I am liked. I've had a few men comment on the fact that they were meeting THE Ms Devious, but I'm positive it has worked against me as well. Either way, I've met a lot of great people on here, some forum posters and some not, and I'm not complaining.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The only friends I had here were because of my forum posts..Popularity is subjective. I'm a "liberal" (in the global sense) so some people here are annoyed by me, some not..
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would probably say prolific more than popular ;) And yes, advertising works.
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RHP User
13 years ago
and they are awesome people. I chat with others on the phone and through messages. I'm more likely to meet people who post on the forums because I feel more comfortable that they're real. I post on the forums to share my opinions, views and experiences in the hopes that anyone who wants to contact me already has some idea of what I'm like and if they're attracted to me. Oh .... ok .... I'm also a shameless exhibitionist ... Not sure if it gets me more attention though, I don't really get that many messages anyway. 'Popular' is such a loaded word (gives me heebie geebie memories of my girls high school bitch fest years) but I know what you mean Mrs Peachy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Participatory is the extent of my aspirations (no disrespect, but the term "reg" gives me those same heebie jeebies). I'm rarely the one to sit quietly in the corner, and it turns out the same is true online... another exhibitionist here - albeit a self-conscious one. The forums mean for me an opportunity for... - entertainment, obviously. - understanding, as I try out ideas and listen to others. - observation, of people I'd like to know. - display, of my own self to same. I think the numbers do stack up, but I like to operate a pretty narrow funnel. And the people I'd like to meet means meet and get to know, not necessarily more (which is code for "shag the ass off"). I'm also surprised by the number of people who "know me" from here but aren't posters. It also explains all the WA hits on my profile, perhaps... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I did start a reply last night but something urgent came up that claimed all of my attention (tha sounds better than it should lol), so I saved what I'd written but think I will come back later with a brief version in reply. Yes the word popular is not all that popular lol and I understand that. Thanks especially to those of you that got what I meant by it. My apologies to anyone who objected to it, I realise it wan't the best word to use though it has made for a good part of the topic and I've appreciated hearing everyone's comments on that!Peachy
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RHP User
13 years ago
is probably the word I would use to describe my participation here.I am feeling a little ambivalent about the forums atm.I am with Paintme,the popular word is not one I relate to. Has participating in the forums brought me more attention and sex,noooo quite the opposite. Have I made friends here, yes absolutely.But I still feel like Alice falling down the rabbit hole
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have received so many messages complimenting me on my Forum Posts/Threads! Others have messaged me for thanking me for not being judgemental (mainly married people) and have been asked alot of advice in messages as well! It is always nice to receive a compliment! I have met quite a few people from the Forums...been to drinks nights organised on here to a lunch with just a few Forums folks! The only abuse I get is in here...never have I got a nasty message come through my inbox! . Never met anyone from the Forums for sex! I also go in the Chatrooms alot and only ever met up with 2 guys for sex from there and both were very disappointing! Never again! And I am with Angelic...Chatrooms is better as the chat is free flowing and true personaliites come out more than on here where you can read back what you say and amend anything you think might sound bad even if you do mean to really say it before hitting "Post your Comment! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
this is my last post.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'this is my last post. Changing your name again, hm?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Freya disappeared as I said that! I take it all back!
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RHP User
13 years ago
*Walks off in tears*
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' this is my last post. Why? Where are you going??
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RHP User
13 years ago
She is a strong woman....a fantastic poster...admired by many. Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'PoonWouldGo' As we speak there are currently 926 women online. Of those only eighteen do i recognise as ever having posted in any forum. Put simply the forums account for less than .2% of RHP users. You do the math. Me do the math? But you already did! It's .2% :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' this is my last post. What's up? Come back!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes, yes, yes. I've met excellent people in person I'd never have met otherwise. I've had conversations with many more. It's also chewed through some time and boredom, back when I had a little of both. (Not so much these days!)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks to everyone who posted on the idea of forumites and whether being a prolific poster gets you any... that was the crux of the question I wanted answered, you guys are so easily distracted lol. The main gist I've gotten is that participating in the forum can make a difference but not necessarily in a sexual way and it can actually have a negative rather than a positive influence. The main thing though is that people make friends, lasting friends. Thank you for your individual expressions of attitude which is what makes this place, they have been educational and entertaining as well. Poon, I do love stats lol but gotta bear in mind that a huge percentage of RHPeers rarely post, if ever, which skews the stats! LemonDance's post points that out quite well. I've had similar experiences as described by LemonDance too. I would still hold the same waryness for any profile including verified profiles whether I had contact with through the forums or not, too many people find their way around things and posters who were very well known in the past have been found to be as untrustworthy as anyone else not known in the forums. It's a lot easier to have a reputation damaged through the forums too when word of mouth is taken as gospel rather than people taking the time to form their own judgements. Appearances are not always what they seem. Too many judgements made with minmal facts.A fascinating world this one, I've often had discussions with forumites I've met that RHP is merely a microcosm of the real world. Sex is far more applauded than popular opinion outside might suggest, have to remember that sex sells!!!Peachy
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