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Possible to find an ongoing partner in the scene ?

January 05 2018

Hi all, I was wondering if anyone has met or believes they can meet an ongoing partner in this lifestyle 'scene' vs. once off or a couple of play dates ? I've played off and on in the scene for a few years now and find myself coming back into it as your 'normal' everyday person that you may meet while out / at a bar / club etc. isn't accustomed to bringing others into the mix. Typically this is done after years of being in a relationship to 'spice things up'. It's not something you bring up on a second or even third date ! Keen to hear any success stories. I do look after myself and don't have troubles in meeting someone but I'm now looking to start something more meaningful based on honesty and trust from the beginning ! Give me faith peeps - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    There’s no chance of meeting people on here for anything more than a fuck .... My experiences are different however :) Lol @ the last bit of this op....based on honesty and trust from the beginning.....lol as opposed to all the others that have only included honesty after the fact eh?? Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I’m in exactly the same position OP It would be really nice to connect with someone who on the same sexual wave length, so that both parties can be open and honest, explore and fulfill each other’s fantasies. I have met a couple of sexy couples who have this and hope that it’s possible one day for me too ... I live in hope 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    8 years ago

    I know what you mean. I met my twin flame from this site, 4+ yrs ago. I wasn't looking, just on my own spiritual path. 😊 Ms Foxy

  • Taby_DK

    Taby_DK

    8 years ago

    Yes this can totally happen! Mr and I met on Red Hot Pie 6 years ago as singles and we have been swinging together ever since. When we first met I had a lot more experience in the scene (Ive been on RHP since I was 19) than he did, as he'd only been to one swingers party and played with one couple before we got together. But we decided to attend a swingers party together (before we offically started dating) to see if we could actually 'do' it and the rest is history! lol I definitely think you can meet like-minded people on RHP and turn it into something more long term, but one thing I have noticed is you do need to have a special kind of relationship with really good communication and no jealousy/insecurities if you want to start swinging as a couple from the start, rather than after you have been married x amount of years etc. Neither of us could ever go back to having a monogamous relationship again as we both love the scene too much. :D Taby xx

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    8 years ago

    It won’t happen to me, because I am not into any swingers scene, nor multipartners scene, and I hate anal sex to death! 😶 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ended up in a relationship for 2 years on a similar site to this one ! I've met a couple of on going fwb on here but I know have a new lady friend not looking but I told one of my fwb my situation but she lost it as she wanted something more from me the other fwb is a cuckold couple situation her hubby just loves me doing her in front of him but I ended that too.. I still have them on kik I could always go back if my relationship doesn't work out

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Edit the 2 years relationship ended early September 2017 I joined this few months after !!it was very slow at firstthen it started picking up sometime 2 to 3 play meets a week I know that's not much tho but met the regular fwb on here about 2months ago, we would meet once to twice a week as we live pretty far from each other ,wish we could of met more at the time as she always kept up with my staminawe once did a 5 hours session went through a whole box of condom that night she always wanted me to stay the nightbut I wasn't looking for that at the time

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    But everyone seems to be attached lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hi Sexy_Vivacious, isn't it great being with couples that have this all sorted and are so comfortable in what they have - you can tell the difference. Good to hear I'm not the only one. Bad to hear you haven't been able to find this yet. YET being the key word, hopefully out there for you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hey Taby That's great to hear there are examples out there it can happen....and still together which is great Agree completely around the jealously part and communication being the key Thanks for sharing