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Pregnancy and swinging
March 11 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
but for me, pregnancy is a very spesh time. A time for a couple to bond and share and its not something that I would be comfortable with (swinging) if I was pregnant. But that's just me and I do believe this is a very individual choice. Reckon a few days after bub is born, swinging will be the last thing on your minds, so maybe one has to make the most of your free time now, if that's your thing.
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Andremmo
10 years ago
Personally, I found my wife awesomely attractive during her pregnancies. Combined with her heightened libido it was a very happy time. I also find other pregnant ladies attractive too but no more so than when they aren't pregnant with radiant faces, swollen boobies and sensitive nipples. We weren't swinging back then but I am pretty sure I wouldn't have wanted to share her during this time. There is a precious life in there that you need to protect and nurture. So I agree wholeheartedly with your point of view. But if you were going to play anyway, I would be all over her like a fat boy with an icecream.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mostly its probably because the guys are hoping to have natural sex without the risk of pregnancy We put a pregnancy pic up a few years ago when wife was pregnant,more of a social experiment but here are the rough stats for a one week period Messages-600,every time you logged on they would come in faster than you could read them Views- around 10000 Flirts- more than sixty pages It wasn't this profile here though
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RHP User
10 years ago
many many moons ago when I was pregnant, I was so bloody horny. Long as she's getting some kind of action lol Sex doesn't have to be full on internal penetration. I have sessions with oral only, but I think it's more about how she feels here. Pregnancy causes bloating etc and I have to say I didn't feel sexy as such, but when the horny came on, yeah mumma
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RHP User
10 years ago
No interest whatsoever. When I was in that situation sexuality evaporated and I respected that, but it never came back !In your situation I might consider regular partners who have become friends but thats all. It's all a bit sacred and not for this space in my mind.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I agree I wouldn't be playing while partner was pregnant. It's a special time to share together.
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cccouple8
10 years ago
I couldn't get enough of my wife when she was pregnant. I find other pregnant women extremely attractive too. But yeah I would also see myself being extremely protective... it would all depend on how she felt.
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RHP User
10 years ago
How could anyone swing while pregnant? Its so wrong in many ways. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was lucky to play with a couple last year where the wife was pregnant. We had some great fun. Yes condoms were used. We did in doggy n from behind sideways as missionary wasn't comfortable position for her. I seen usually woman has certain stage during pregnancy where she is very horny and want lots of sex. So if someone already in swinging they might still play. The bond is always there regardless. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think most would be to respect the couple and let them enjoy the pregnancy together. A time to bond. When my friends were expecting many moons ago, I remember them telling me of all things her craving was not chocolate but sex and she couldn't get enough. Even waking him in the middle of the night. To answer the OP, if I seen a profile stating a pregnancy , I'd leave well enough alone.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'alwaysfun000' Mostly its probably because the guys are hoping to have natural sex without the risk of pregnancy We put a pregnancy pic up a few years ago when wife was pregnant,more of a social experiment but here are the rough stats for a one week period Messages-600,every time you logged on they would come in faster than you could read them Views- around 10000 Flirts- more than sixty pages It wasn't this profile here though nice one mind you, looking at your picture now, you probably still get that many messages
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Matchingcouple' How could anyone swing while pregnant? Its so wrong in many ways. - Posted from rhpmobile What's wrong for you might not be for someone else, up to the couple, surely?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' many many moons ago when I was pregnant, I was so bloody horny. So are you still pregnant?I think it comes to individual choice. Some women have greatly increased libido while for many the opposite is true. So if you feel like swinging, use safe sex practices or other forms of non penetrative sex and go for it.And personally I find some pregnant women really get wonderful feminine glow about them , and are super sexy.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your comment says it all......we dont want to take any risks that might affect our baby. One guy could be too rough, or have an STD, (condoms dont always protect from disease) ....you just cant take the risk with something as precious as an unborn baby. And if your wife feels even more sexy, all the better for you. I think the baby is more important than swinging, its only nine months out of your lifestyle? Thats only my opinion though, Im sure others feel differently. Enjoy this special time.....xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yeah, I agree, I think they're so sexy, and no I'm not still pregnant lol but even hornier. I know a guy/bull who has played with couples where the wife is pregnant. Why should she be deprived. I orgasm through oral mostly so how is tongue and finger action and/or toys, going to give me an std? Thing for people to remember before all the judgments come out A. The baby won't be hurt unless you engage in extreme stuff B. Lot of husbands don't find their wives sexy during that time so will play without her partner's knowledge. Lovman, a man who appreciates a woman's body in all it's glory, even during some of it's 'work' phases lol, is pretty up there in my view, and more so understanding the need, nice one 😃
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RHP User
10 years ago
I meant the wife playing without partner's knowledge but the reverse would happen as well
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'Matchingcouple' How could anyone swing while pregnant? Its so wrong in many ways. - Posted from rhpmobile What's wrong for you might not be for someone else, up to the couple, surely? Agreed. Never understand how people in this lifestyle could be so judgemental of others; but I guess that is a human trait. One lives a lifestyle that society doesn't view as acceptable..but one is judgemental. Sad/funny.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Theres a difference between being judgemental of the swinging scene and wanting to put your unborn babys safety first. Tequila Couple are obviously cherishing this special time and have decided to concentrate on her and the babys wellbeing. I think thats understandable. And also, if others wish to carry on swinging because thats what they prefer to do, thats their prerogative. Tequilas asked for opinions and got different ones, no one was judging anyone. Matching Couple just said what their thoughts were on the question asked. Would have been the same as if they had said they had decided to stop smoking or drinking. They, as parents to be, are putting their unborn baby first.
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JohnAnn2227
10 years ago
We continued to swing when I was pregnant with our second child. It was only with a small group of friends that we had been playing with for years. I was so horny when pregnant and was so proud of my pregnant body. We played until I was about 6 months then it started to become too uncomfortable. After that time we would still go to parties that our friends held as I still enjoyed relaxing nude in the spa and getting massages and backrubs from friends. We did stop swinging at clubs or with people we met online though. Each to their own.Ann & John
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luvsilver
10 years ago
We started in this lifestyle after the last of our children were born so this scenario never came in to play.While Mrs Luvsilver was very horny most of the time ,for us ,swinging with others would probably not have been an option . Totally your call on the matter but let me tell you one thing.After us having met the both of you at a few Meet & Greets (purely sociable) ,baby belly or not,Mrs Tequila has a rocking body she should be proud of. Congratulations also. Luvsilvers
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Theres a difference between being judgemental of the swinging scene and wanting to put your unborn babys safety first. Tequila Couple are obviously cherishing this special time and have decided to concentrate on her and the babys wellbeing. I think thats understandable. And also, if others wish to carry on swinging because thats what they prefer to do, thats their prerogative. Tequilas asked for opinions and got different ones, no one was judging anyone. Matching Couple just said what their thoughts were on the question asked. Would have been the same as if they had said they had decided to stop smoking or drinking. They, as parents to be, are putting their unborn baby first. Ermm. It IS judgemental. Swinging in itself carries risks that all of us find acceptable and take measures to mitigate. Imagine explaining to a non-swinger what we do and imagine the reaction. Some people are willing to accept the risks posed with swinging whilst pregnant..there is no need to judge them for it or make comments like "wrong on so many levels". Was not referring to TequilaCouple's decision; just the comment above that casts judgement on those who decide to indulge in this activity. We personally wouldn't do it but 'live and let live' is a good MO to live by.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find pregnant women so incredibly hot, the whole glowing thing is a real phenomenon to me. I made the decision to never have children so I am unsure if it is because having sex with a pregnant woman is not likely to happen for me or if it is because I find the pregnancy phase attractive due to my basic instincts of being an animal. To me it feels like a primal instinct, I feel joy around pregnant women and oh boy do I want to one day experience having sex with a woman with a pregnant belly. And yes it is a special time and you need to be careful but pregnant women get horny too I would assume. I get tested all the time and I respect the couples needs with all my meets so being in this situation would be no different.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Something Mrs Adelaide has always wanted to do is have girl on girl sex with a pregnant woman.But like her fantasy of 5 men and just her she says it's one that is probably much better in fantasy than in reality. We have had contact with a couple of pregnant ladies in the past with a view to play but random sex with a pregnant person was not what her fantasy was about and no play eventuated. Personally if she was pregnant i'd be inclined to have no play with other guys and if she wanted to play with a girl it'd have to be a regular friend not a random hook up as I think it's personal time and not something to be risking STI's or other complications with new people.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks for clarifying, I read it as a post against Tequilas decision. I understand, because even as a single person on RHP, I get questions asked and have had one "friend' distance herself from me after saying that all my new friends are a bunch of deviants. So it must be a lot worse for you guys in the actual swinging community. It shouldnt have to be, we should all be able to live out lives in whatever way we please as long as we are happy and not harming anyone else.Sorry, OP, for "deviating" from the topic xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mr Tequila, you have that sexy, gorgeous woman to yourself for a while ;) Mary xxoo
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RHP User
10 years ago
The name change is new but the negativity is the same! Use the name change as a way to start afresh and by all means, express an opinion, in a more positive manner! Just saying, Mary xx
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sweetcheeksnco
10 years ago
Mr adores a gorgeous pregnant lady, loves the stunning shape, finds it impressively gorgeous and hot, while Ms finds it rather enticing too, but sadly it's not exactly easy to find such ladies looking to play of course. Obviously safety is paramount but really it's just normal precautions that apply, and finding sensible people who know the restrictions that a curvaceous body brings and will respect that as well ensure (as always) that a lady is as comfortable as can be. Easier said that done I'm sure but experience says it can be and a very hot and satisfying time had! Wishing Mrs Tequila well and we, for two, would love to see her very fine curves!
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