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  hootymcjugs

  7 years ago

  Maybe its my age or a reflection of my income level - but membership is relatively cheap in my view. Maybe look at it this way - would you take a potential partner out, get them to organise everything, get them to pay for everything - then expect them to jump into bed with you? That is potentially the impression you give when remaining a guest. As a couple, we do read flirts - but only respond if they are members - or are couples who are guests. Guys don't get a look in because we feel they lack commitment - therefore are more likely not to turn up at a meet. That of course may not apply to you personally - but we have plenty of interest from paid members so we really don't need to go down the path of looking at guests who send us flirts. So, as a guy, you will tend to get tarred with the same brush - you will get way more responses in my opinion if you pony up some cash.... Hope this helps - no doubt others will have different points of view. Brian

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Totally agree with Hooty.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I have been on this site and many other a number of times over the years and the question of single guys becoming members has been discussed many times. There was even a post a few years ago that demonised single men who were not members. In my experience on all sites, I know in my own heart and in mind that I am never going to meet anyone as there are many more men on these sites than women who are spoilt for choice. There is always someone younger, more attractive and more appealing for them to meet. I can afford the membership and I am not stingy, but I think to myself why bother when you can't meet anyone. You do miss out on other features such as being able to chat, but that is a small price to pay for not being a member. Who knows, something may happen to make me change my mind.

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  Infovore

  6 years ago

  I'd say join if it's not crippling financially for you to do so, and you're serious about contacting people here. The demographics are such that women receive insane numbers of messages/flirts. I know I'm generalising somewhat, but there are threads here with stats. Unless you're pretty remarkable, a flirt from a single guy is unlikely to stand out. You're young, which is probably a bonus, but you're still most likely in the noise. Membership lets you send messages that say more than "Hey look at me". ChrisM64, you say " I know in my own heart and in mind that I am never going to meet anyone as there are many more men on these sites than women who are spoilt for choice.". Surely you must hold out a little hope, otherwise why bother? I get that our odds aren't great, but marginally larger than zero is still better than zero, right? I suspect that paid membership is probably 100 times better odds than being a flirty guest, but I concede that 100 times 1 in a million is still only 1 in 10 thousand!

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  When you first join you are searching and singling out profiles that interest you. If I was a man I wouldnt pay right away. If someone blew me away Id send the flirt "Ill upgrade to message you if you are interested" or whatever it says. I dont blame men for not paying for memberships when they are ignored most of the time. On the other hand, I cant be doing with guys who expect to have sex just because they have paid for a membership. There are a few who continually moan about it in the chatrooms. I joined as a guest then upgraded, but after meeting some great people Im just a guest again and more interested in the social side for now. Also. Im on a low income and have more important things to pay for each month.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  My money says he’ll get the come on to join and then get ghosted just for the laughs. But I’m bitter, cynical white aged and toxic. Or am I ?

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Who ghosts for laughs has a problem. One of those faceless keyboard warriors, painfully shy, anti social and probably sexually inexperienced. There, Ive said it. People usually ghost because they are not single but say they are and messaging other people gives them a buzz. As for being cynical on here.....it certainly helps.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I have paid for more over the years and still not one lady has taken up my offers.

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  3SM_Events

  6 years ago

  Women on here are so spoilt for choice its not worth it. Better off spending your money on you than a roll of the dice which will most likely result in nothing but lost time.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I agree with you 3some. I would encourage single men to attend some of the events that are advertised on here. It is a good way to meet people socially in a safe and friendly environment as well as have some fun. I haven't been on this site for a few years, but I seem to recall that single ladies didn't have to pay for membership and were still able to send messages etc. Is this still the case?

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