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Profile help.

August 07 2019

Hey everyone (: Relatively new to this site, but I'm wondering if anyone could give me some profile pointers. I've sent many messages out, had profile views, but no responses. I'm a very courteous messenger, not crude or rude. At the time of posting, I have 2 face pics on my profile (something I'm going to delete after posting this) and even though I wouldn't consider myself bad looking, I'm sure this plays a part in my issues, as it takes away from the allure of a site like this, as it removes the air of mystery. Any tips for profile pics, profile text and messaging etiquette would be highly appreciated! Thanks x - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

6 years ago

Your profile says you are blonde, you have blue eyes, you have accent, you are fit and few other positive things. You can build on these. What you are lacking is publicity; you have no photos average user can see, no body shots, nothing that provokes imagination. That’s the first disadvantage. Second; improve your self summary. And I wouldn’t say “I am not allowed”, you are a single male, who is limiting you? And before you try to find a volunteer to attend swingers events with you, priotize finding a regular play partner first. You are trying to fly without walking. Take your time and understand what intrigues people. It’s not easy but it’s not impossible either, I was a single male before I seduced Mrs. Avoid looking like another average single man.

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RHP User

6 years ago

Remove the ex comment just put previous experience as a swinging couple. Plenty of sexual interest listed but little general interest. Need to balance that out. To hell with mystery regarding photos. It's one of the biggest pet peeves. You don't exist without a pic for people to engage with your profile. Other than that I thought it read well and your persona comes through. :)

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RHP User

6 years ago

Change all the ask me to a response other than ask me. Or just read pet peeves forum.

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AnnieWhichway

6 years ago

If you thought it was hard with photos, you have buckles chance without. Doesn't have to be face pics if you need your privacy but give people something otherwise they will move on faster than a turd around the s bend. Put your dial shot in your private album that you open when you send a message

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RHP User

6 years ago

I don't do blind dates 😁

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RHP User

6 years ago

With mysteries is that sometimes they never get solved. Hugs Q

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RHP User

6 years ago

Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' If you thought it was hard with photos, you have buckles chance without. Doesn't have to be face pics if you need your privacy but give people something otherwise they will move on faster than a turd around the s bend. Put your dial shot in your private album that you open when you send a message Faster than a turd around an s bend lmao

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FeistyFatty

6 years ago

No pics, no hope... Next.

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LustAndLoveXoX

6 years ago

I had plenty of trouble with my profile too being constantly accused of being fake just because I had a selection of my modeling shoots on it, nevertheless the clearly genuine and sincer validations I received. So I just gave up basically thinking that if a girl thinks I am fake, that means she has never been with a man that takes no care of himself, which means we would probably not match each other. Actually I am just going to steal this same argument and put it on my profile.

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DinnerDateFirst

6 years ago

After analysing your data ‘Dr Science’ we have come to the conclusion that the lack of visual evidence within your profile makes you less credible. Add some tasteful and classy pics. It’s not rocket science.

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Freaky_Fun

6 years ago

Casanova....ummmm. Did you just make this all about you 🤔

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FeistyFatty

6 years ago

Casanova.... 😂🤣😂🤣😂

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