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Profiles with no face pic.

April 13 2013

Hello, I just wanted to have a bit of a rant and see if anyone else agrees with me or not. I've been on this site for a couple of years now, so I figure I have seen enough profiles to have this opinion. But I'm fed up with being sent messages from single guys with no face picture up... Or just one photo of their chest with no head, or a just a cock lol Men are visual and probably don't mind seeing chest pics as profile pics first... But in my opinion, girls want to see who they are talking to before they get a message from a random chest ! I'm never going to reply if they have no pic up... I have never understood why people do this. They may have a nice chest, but who cares... We look for the eyes and face, then the other things. And why do people think its ok to start a conversation out by saying ... Wanna fuck? ? I mean really guys... Why don't you try respecting the girls out there instead of just being a dickhead. I realise this is redhotpie, but there still should be respect! I'm not complaining about all the men on here, a lot are awesome... And I'm sure it works the same for women too... But I only look at men's profiles, so I'm just talking about my opinion on what I see.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Some people want to be discreet and only show their faces when needed to as some of these people may be professionals that require to keep their private life secret.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    That would go for women on this site as well.I agree with you, but the smart profiles have a "lure in" tasteful pic and then a face pic of he/her/ them as one album and maybe the "extra curricular activities" pic's in the other album.My view, I DONT WANT to see you naked body, rather discover that for myself. What I do prefer is to see your face, eyes and smile.As for that awesome conversation starter that guys use? Dont pigeon hole us all! being cheeky, with a dash of wit and humour goes a long my in my opinion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Anonymity is very important for some. They may be CEO's or school teachers etc. (Or married)   If I like the message I'll reply, but most gents send access to private albums (with face pics) when they message in my very limited experience on here. I couldn't possibly have my face up here. No chance in hell.   The Wanna Fuck gets an instant block from me. I know it's a numbers game but please......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I understand the need for secrecy sometimes, but yes it does annoy me too. Then they give you access to albums where there ares till no face shots!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    they are all terribly famous,stunningly good looking,or just plain uggers.....of course they also may be hiding something else or from someone else

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Personally I'd rather my employees, customers, relatives, my kids teachers and my ex didn't know I was here looking for like minded women who enjoy being fist fucked, anally fucked and general debauchery but excuse me, we'll all do an about face and put up face pics because someone who uses this site as a FREE service that us faceless guys pay for has made a complaint. It's not just me is it?- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Perhaps they want to spare you the madness from looking at their visage too long. If they have the face of Apollo, you will be staring at your screen for a long time leading to blindness and madness.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I do get annoyed at the request to access my private gallery in the first message (what's the point of having a private gallery otherwise), yet, still no picture, not even a private gallery. And the excuse "I haven't figured out how to download a picture of myself in here yet" is really overused and sounds really lame.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It has taken me over three years to put a face pic up. I do not need everyone seeing who I am. They have no need to know my business. Personally I am happy to begin a chat with someone whose face I can not see. No preconceived ideas that way either. I have a look at the profile and make my decision from that- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Some of us work in heavily regulated industries. I have a face pic in my private gallery for those who are lucky enough to grab my attention.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    A face photo?!Who ever thought of such a thing!Surely.... its all about dangling a cock like a worm on a hook to bait a lady.HAHAHAHADG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'A face photo?! Who ever thought of such a thing! Surely.... its all about dangling a cock like a worm on a hook to bait a lady. HAHAHAHA DG And you need more than a cock picture to bait your hook on rhp though sometimes when you see one of those huge things, you think dam I wonder what his face looks like?   one of the most good looking lovers I have, never had a face picture and boy was I glad I decided to meet him he likes his privacy   I have my face in my pg I have to show that so they can run forrest run in cyberland, rather than knocking all the chairs over in a cafe and bumping into the patrons as they go screaming into the street after they see my mug

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm so glad I'm not the only one who has that problem TR, have you tried wearing a shopping bag ? It should not be too much to expect people to have a face and a torso pic in their pg. as discussed in the forums recently, the physical descriptions here are too subjective and open to interpretation. HP xo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thanks DG. I now imagine them biting on it and not letting go. The poor worm always gets it in the end Some of the best conversations I've had are with people whom I've never seen their photos. Then again, some of the worse conversations I've had are with people I've never seen their photos. Do you find that there are a lot of generic profiles out there? It is all the same thing, they are attractive, want friends with benefits and put up their sexual fantasies (for some reason,a large number of them have the same fantasy).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Only for the fact of my work profile I have no face pic... Even on other social media sites. But when asked I have and will provide a more detailed picture... Not ashamed to be here Nor am I hiding anything....just being carefull Work and Pleasure are two different things... I like it like that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    we wont meet anyone if we havent seen a face pic or three...its easier if that happens here, but if people wish to email a couple, off site, then thats no biggie either. we have face pics in our PG's, always have...its why the galleries are private isnt it?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm not really concerned whether the face pic is on the main profile page or not - since it can be accessed later in the PG.I am also a professional and I'm not sure why I should hide my face. It doesn't make me any less of a professional for having my face visible on a site like this. People talk about being discreet - needing to remain anyonymous! I have no idea why or who they are hiding from. I couldn't care less who saw me on here - it will not make one iota of difference to my worklife, homelife or other ;-)Danny

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I don't think it matters about the main pic, but It's really annoying when they give access to thier private album and there are still no face pics! I just started up my profile again and decided that this time I'd only have face pics in my private gallery, I've noticed I've definetly gotten way less messages from guys. But it's actually a relief, because I feel bad if I don't reply to them all- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Highpriority'I'm so glad I'm not the only one who has that problem TR, have you tried wearing a shopping bag ? It should not be too much to expect people to have a face and a torso pic in their pg. as discussed in the forums recently, the physical descriptions here are too subjective and open to interpretation. HP xo but kept bumping onto things..now they tell me I have to cut eye holes in em   most guys like the IgA bag, they think ts means I give Anal

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Philosopherpoet'I'm not really concerned whether the face pic is on the main profile page or not - since it can be accessed later in the PG.I am also a professional and I'm not sure why I should hide my face. It doesn't make me any less of a professional for having my face visible on a site like this. People talk about being discreet - needing to remain anyonymous! I have no idea why or who they are hiding from. I couldn't care less who saw me on here - it will not make one iota of difference to my worklife, homelife or other ;-)Danny the man that sees you doing your shopping or in the pub , that says hey your TR right, want to fuck...............yes its happened to me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm similar to Danny. I don't care who sees me, or recognises me here offline. If they proposition me, like TR has said, then usually a quick look up and down their body, a cheeky grin and the statement "nahhh I'd rather use my hand" soon leaves them standing alone with their jaw on the ground. I think that that kind of propositioning is just disrespectful and deserves a disrespectful reply. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have no pic on my profile page but have a few in my pg's, and will share happily who politely asks for them. I have my reasons for not having a pic up. Mainly the one I want to use RHP rejected!!! I chat to people with no pics - I read their profiles!!! I'd like to be contacted for reasons other than how I look - not that I am drop dead gorgeous. Lol!!!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    emulating MsD,a stellar individual

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    TR, I'm shattered ...... :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Why does mi idevice only sometimes "reply with quote" ? T/R igA lol. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We have face pics in our public gallery and don't really care all that much if someone from work were to see them. It doesn't affect our capacity to do our jobs or our professionalism in doing our jobs. It may make a conversational topic for the office for a couple of weeks, but then it all settles down and people don't care anymore (how do we know this? Real-life experience.)Yes, we've been recognised before, and the ones who recognised us also had a profile and they did remain discreet about it (most people looking will generally have the same motivations to keep quiet: respect for others' privacy in these matters and avoiding the "well how did you find out about it" question LOL). I think it's a fear factor thing, people are afraid of being judged by the frigid vanilla majority, but it's a pretty baseless fear. You, in all likelihood, won't lose your job over it (unless you work for a religious organisation or are a politician) due to something called anti-discrimination. We prefer to see face pics in people's galleries, and yes I don't mind if the pics are in the public or private gallery, as long as I can see who we're arranging to meet prior to meeting them. I don't like the idea of SMS'ing people pictures as they can be used for anything afterwards, at least with RHP, people can't download and keep the pics. And OP, I'm definitely with you on the "Wanna fuck" messages... ehhhh FAIL! Had one recently from a "Woman" (i.e. man faking woman) so I replied with a "your profile doesn't say much, tell me what you're after" the reply I got was "Pussy and Cock, hun..." Wow, the verbal prowess was astounding!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I bet these people who don't show their pics on here, were given an opportunity to be on the cover of "WHO" magazine they'd jump at it and show their faces to have 5 mins of fame.. I BET!!!....They are not that professional or not all that NOT to show pics even in there gallery....oh come on, unless they work for ASIO or secret service they are not that important.. .I mean really, what sort of people in the community who don't go on sex or dating sites want to come on here for if they are not interested??? NO pics always ring alarm bells to me...hiding something-maybe their ASIO career??? Pffft and also to say that they don't know how to upload pics on profile...they are not worth if they can jump on a site and write a profile...they can't be that useless can they??? RANT OVER... Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    They do nothing for me cause I can't swallow them.....its funny how guys can put ones up but if a woman tries its not acceptable and not only that, women that I know don't compare viaginas.... If a guy puts up his cock pic as profile pic and that's his best asset, well I've got news for them....you're using the wrong head!!!! *insert thumbs down man* FOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    As for "wanna F*ck" messages...well sure I'm in for it, cause you can F*CK right off!!! Stupid twits have no idea how to even speak or get to know a woman....Lack of education on their behalf of how to even speak to aother human being and not for me:-) :-) :-) Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    As im married i will not post pics unless some one sends me emails and ill attach my pic once i feel safe. As a married man with three kids i need not only to protect my id but my families well being- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I don't hide what I get up to. But I have an ex like a lot of people on here that has no need to stumble onto my profile. My business is just that.....I share pics with those who ask nicely or if replying to a message. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Amen sista ! To everything you said !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    When you meet someone in public, you wouldn't walk up to them with a paper bag over your head and try crack onto them... So, why would it work online? Meeting someone but hiding your face from them? It doesn't make sense to me. Also, in my original post, I referred to single men, I wasn't talking about married men... I know why they hide!