M44 F35
Punching above my weight!
December 14 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
i have questioned this a hundred times and i get the same response each time its for privacy...the man has a job where they cant show their face but to me that would only work if you keep your wife in the closet and she doesnt leave the house ever and no one you know knows her cause her face is everywhere on here so that means if they see her as a couple then they know the other half is you whether you have a pic up or not plus if they see you on here then they have as much to lose as you...so where is the problem so if its good for the goose it should be good for the gander but hey im just single girl trash so what do i know really roxxy...hoping that all made sense lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
and agree with you 100%. I dont have a pic up for that reason.. my work.. I have clients who are from all sorts of backgrounds and would may be viewed a little dimly for being on this site and also work for a multi national company who likes a squeekie clean image. A sex/dating site just might not cut it for them. Bravo for the couples that show both partners. Cheers
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athletic_couple
15 years ago
Seriously? They work in a high profile job? Pfft. We both work in high profile jobs in a very 'image is everything' field. We have no concerns at all with people seeing our profile, what are they going to say? "We stumbled across your profile when we took a wrong turn on the interweb world trying to order a pizza"? The only people who see us are those interested in finding us. I employ staff and I have no interest or concern with what my staff do outside of work hours. Everyone has sex right? I would rather my staff were on RHP rather than 'Terrorists Unite'. Now, to be totally politically incorrect, I think the real reason they don't show their face is because they have a head like a smacked arse. We have had on many occassions requests to meet up with couples, and some 'single' girls, only to find when we ask for more photos that the male partner is .... well .... a lemon. Miss Perp has standards, and we dont believe in 'taking one for the team', and as such lets them know nicely that she is not interested. Mr Perp. Upfront & unapologetic.
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RHP User
15 years ago
or head like arse ended a tram.. melbourne ites will appreciate that... it is a choice that I dont want want my company nor clients to know about me... quite simple and no.. haven't ordered a pizza recently!
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RHP User
15 years ago
dont shoot the messenger iv said the same thing for months although a lot of couples have emailed me privately with pics and some are absolute honeys...WOW...if i was some of them there is no way i would be hiding my man and i dont care what he does for a living...but each to there if they want to hide an adorable hubby who am i to argue and aniceone hun you will get use to me...im perfect in every way but i dont like the other ladies of the forums to feel insecure so i put myself down a bit so then im on their level, it must be hard on them being around me....but believe me when i say...I AM PERFECTION roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
To take tasteful shots that reveal nothing of your identity. If it is for work reasons, surely your work mates dont see your cock every day? Maybe a nice chest shot, thighs, bums, whatever. There are many people on here that do not show thier faces but still have profile pics posted...men and women!
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RHP User
15 years ago
To take a couple of breast shots for your profile. We have both of us tastefully naked but also naturally so in our PG...Even though we dont have straight on face shots there Im pretty sure that those that knew us would probably recognize us. We dont have those out in public because Im pretty sure we are not everyones cup of tea...trying to limit our vomit factor on the unappreciative. Plus like the Perps said...Its one thing for someone to have a perve account with RHP (the wankers)...but quite another to send flirts & msges. I guess everyone has a different idea about what is acceptable to show in public RHP...imagine how boring it would be if we all had the same standards... Mrs H xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I dont get your title heading?!?! How is a mini rant about men not putting up profile pics got anything to do with punching above your weight?? Mrs H
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RHP User
15 years ago
@FionaBee - Could not agree with you more. Ladies, grab the cam and shoot your man. Fellas, go easy on all the photos of your wang. Ask your girlfriend which part of your body she'd like to photograph. A wang is a wang is a wang. Unless you have a micro-penis, it is NOT an issue whether it's slightly bigger or smaller.
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RHP User
15 years ago
To put face shots of either of us on our profile page, there is a rather yummy (well I think so..) one of Mr saturn in our main 6 pic's.Discreet in that we have a towel covering the "other bits." For some unknown reason, the powers that be have deemed it too risque and have restricted its viewing access to members only.Not sure why as I have a rather delicious "friend" in our list who's pic is equally as yum with towel covering his ahem but it passes detection...(lucky us girls that it did..gives a wink to swedish's way..)Knda think its funny you can have a full blown ass shot in your face,cum over your name it shots,my ta tas pasted in your face kinda shots but a guys semi naked towel shot and tsk tskkkkkkkThink its totally acceptable to keep faces in PG access but totally agree that a body shot of both saves a bit of the descision making process of who we are interested in.Also think its nice when people actually update shots.Would be great if RHP had a fuction wherby it dumped over 18 month old shots so as you had to upload new ones.Wouldnt I guess stop you from uploading the old ones again but it may remind the more honest that its time to update. Just dont get me started on the ages that people put themselves down as.....grrrrrrrr.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I thought it actually meant that someone was going out/dating someone out of their class be it, wealth, looks, occupation. I dont really agree with such a thing.. but sadly that those thoughts do exist. As for the pic... I am feeling increasing pressure to have at least something up here!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have had my face shot up not On RHP but elsewhere and it is funny when people i meet look at me and say Dont I know you from somewhere and I just know I have either chatted them or seen them on cam before ,,,,,,,I,dont show face not until I realy know the other person had a bad experience of being stalked and once bitten twice shy Andy
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RHP User
15 years ago
We'll get around to taking some nice classy shots at some point - just took some lo-fi ones with a web cam for now. We do prefer the photos that honestly show both couples shape etc, and you do want to see their face in a PG before you meet / meat. It's all part of the chat-up I guess.
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RHP User
15 years ago
sighs... not good at navigating around this site????
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RHP User
15 years ago
we have pics of both of us. but the sad truth is that of the two of us, Michelle's the pretty one. the natural thing to do is to put your best side on display, and that's her not me. I don't have looks that make women swoon, lol. but she certainly gets some attention. deservedly so too. our photos are mainly of her, not me, but hey, someones got to hold the camera.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mikeandshel at least there is a face pic of mr so people can see you before they flirt or message...some couples have nothing of him in their top 6 pics Mrs Saturn i soooo wanna see that pic but i cant...its weird yes im a guest but i have managed to see some cock pics that have managed to get through lol but i cant see a man in a sheet...life is a bitch sometimes aniceone for god sake man get your but here and let me help lol....just go too home, then to my photos and videos and then upload one....so come on mister get moving Andy whay havent i seen that sexy face???....:-( roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Insecure, maybe? Dunno! I don't have one on my main page (Well, neither of us do, actually) - Because we like to keep our 'other' life private. We don't want family, friends and what have you knowing this side of us. That may sound kind of prude-ish but hey, each to their own. We both have face photos in our PG though and quite regularly open it for anyone who wants to see it and will reciprocate. At that point it is kind of like well hey, if you're on here and know we are, too, then it's no harm, no foul. The job I work, though.. I think I'd never work again if "this" life was discovered, haha.. Ahh.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hmm I think its a bit more sinister than that - in a lot of cases I think that the man of the couple predominantly controls what goes on the site and he posts outrageous pictures of the woman - isn't that what hot picks is predominantly about.(Not me - I'll get killed if I post a photo not agreed by her.) Mr. SR
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'seductionrules' Hmm I think its a bit more sinister than that - in a lot of cases I think that the man of the couple predominantly controls what goes on the site and he posts outrageous pictures of the woman - isn't that what hot picks is predominantly about.(Not me - I'll get killed if I post a photo not agreed by her.) Mr. SR 'control'? not for a minute even lol.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I dont have a face pic up in public gallery just in case no one wants to say hello, so many stop chatting once they see a face pic.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'blackrose455'I dont have a face pic up in public gallery just in case no one wants to say hello, so many stop chatting once they see a face pic. hahaha been there before...i showed a bloke my face pic once and he blocked me, not a word said thats why now i have my face out in show, if they dont like it they dont get in contact to start with hmmmm maybe thats why i get no mail unlike the other gals hehe roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Have put up a face picture of my wife and had a heap of people contact us. Put a picture up of me and had none. Maybe it's because I am butt fugly or it's just most couples are only interested in the female of the couple. We have tried to keep our pictures private because of employment stigmata, but people keep saying that they like to see who they are chatting too. Once you show them a face picture they stop talking either because you are not Ken and Barbie or they are just Bullshit artists and only playing the field. Have noticed a lot of fake couples on here. Many wanting to meet but once the time comes they say, Sorry my wife can not make it and then proceed with she will be ok with them swinging alone. So question is do you or don't you. That is up to the person for what ever reason they have in putting a picture up. Having sexy or naughty pictures up gives you a better response from people and standard pictures makes them think you are not adventures enough but also take into account the amount of fake people just adding pictures into their own box of goodies.
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Mr_MrsJones
15 years ago
There is a huge difference between showing full face pics and no pics at all. For us we stongly prefer profiles that have at least ONE shot of both parties. We don't expect faces and cocks are optional but we do want to get some idea of what Mr AND Mrs look like. If not we expect some pics to be forthcoming after the first hello. Frankly we respect people's privacy and their right to protect their identity from unwanted attention but we don't have time to arse around with people who are being all coy. Yes they say their man is a honey and I know that many are but before I spend too much time on messages or chat or even consider allocating very precious child free hours I want to see the goods for myself. I don't think that is asking too much. Rant over. Lady 69
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RHP User
15 years ago
Where couples are saying they use female as eye candy cause they, the (male) is "butt ugly" or basically using female as the honey to the bees but seriously, unless you are happy with FF only, to expect another couple to join you in a full/partial swap play and not display both pictures is asking for an embarrasing encounter if you have not at least cammed both people to see if there is some kind of chemistry attraction there. This is going to sound totally crass but to us its not about "putting it in another hole" and I know its not that way for others as well. Im amazed though admittedly not shocked anymore,that people are prepared to meet up with random strangers with nothing more then a name and a hopeful promise that there is a female at the other end of the username.Can I also throw in that there is always talk about "serious" players. Most peoples lives dont revolve around having sex with other people. There mainstream life rules and life throws mundane normality in there faces when otherwise a chance romp would be preferential however unfortunatly unlikely due to whatever is going on in their lives.Guess Im saying is put up at least a( recent ) torso shot of the bloke to maintain a realistic approach to your couples profile. and keep it real ;)Mrs saturn..getting herself all comfy on the pyre she has built again...waits for the flame....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Lordy lady got it right.. the sooner we get to the face pics and RECENT body pics, the sooner we say NO or ... hmmm nice...lets see where it goes :) We are tired of chasing people with no pics or 2 of some part of the women ..zzz if you dont want people to eventually see your face or body...why waste everyones time...go to penpals are us. Hey nice face pic sweetiepie...now i know who you are B and K x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'AdventureTime' Lordy lady got it right.. the sooner we get to the face pics and RECENT body pics, the sooner we say NO or ... hmmm nice...lets see where it goes :) We are tired of chasing people with no pics or 2 of some part of the women ..zzz if you dont want people to eventually see your face or body...why waste everyones time...go to penpals are us. Hey nice face pic sweetiepie...now i know who you are B and K x we have nothing older than a few months on public display, and admit to some being 12 months or so old in out private galleries, but what you see is what you get. we have no issue with showing who we are as we are wide open and honest with family, friends and workmates.
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RHP User
15 years ago
hehehe i went for a quote on waxing my butt...but ended up having a 3some with the shop owner.. mmm.. boo your lovely face pic is gone.. see you at valentine party ;) B
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