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Putting your best foot forward

May 05 2013

We have learnt to accept that people perceptions of themselves are truly in the eye of the beholder. Such as " attractive, slim, athletic " , we have moved on from that. Our question is, we like our single guys and are open to giving them the opportunity to present themselves when so many people clearly state "no single guys". In this world first impressions are so important, expecially on a site like this. So why would anyone choose to present themselves with a terrible picture? We're not talking about Six packs, Gucci suits or Brad Pitt look alikes. We're talking about " pictures with blokes with XXXX beer cans in their hands, cigarette's in their mouths, soft cocks, sagging balls or your arse hole " A simple smiling face pic, an idea of what your body looks like and something that shows a bit of your personality, i.e., you on your boat, bike, sport cloths, music, cooking, you get the idea. We are not having a go at guys in general , we are all for the single guys. No doubt there are some bad pics of women and couples too, but most of experiences are with guys. If someone could explain to us what is the mentality behind putting an unflattering picture of yourself as your first impression to a potential play mate your trying to impress, especially on a site were men are so out numbered?? Please explain. Mr & Mrs Cock_Sucker

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RHP User

13 years ago

X=2 pies squared.....'.cos nothing else makes sense.

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RHP User

13 years ago

A first impression for me is the profile name. Too judgemental maybe on my part. I just find some a total turn-off

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RHP User

13 years ago

Makes you wonder......If they think those gross photos are the GOOD ones of themselves worth sharing..... .... how bad are the ones they thought just weren't good enough!>>>> DG

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Cheekyarses

13 years ago

I have to agree with 'cocksuckers'n 'Fun4some2'

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RHP User

13 years ago

....single guys but if we did, I think I'd be just as particular as we are when we look for couples. I agree that profile name goes a long way. Personally, I like something that's not too 'in your face'. I remember one in particular was so far off from something that would appeal to me that I actually let out a little squeal and covered my mouth! And I'm not exactly a prude! Other than that, I'd look for general appearance and effort made in the photos and how well thought out the profile was. I'm aroused with words, so I'd look for a fellow who articulates well and doesn't talk about how he can do oral for hours and how he has the biggest and best cock in the world!

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RHP User

13 years ago

Or lack of it?! For themselves or others.....

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RHP User

13 years ago

I try to be up front with everyone I have a face pic, not scared to show it, ( although I wonder how many people have been scarred for life after viewing it). I'm over 50 so I'm no Adonis but I'm not obese got some just nicely sized love handles and life scars. I find it a little offensive when people put in their profile no face pic no reply when they themselves have no photos other than their body or parts there of, or nothing at all. If you're going to put that restriction on potential playmates/partners then you should have the kahoonas to put yourself up there for them to see.

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RHP User

13 years ago

are really important to me as they are the first step of communication - a terrible pics ends by clicking off profile - THE END!I believe it is because they are trying too hard to stand out but instead they end up looking like complete dosh-bags! I mean it's sort of creepy in a way - guys taking selfies of their 6 packs and standing in front of the bathroom mirror - when you think about it too,holding up dead fish - WTF is that?? HAHA When I go on a meet and greets, I am not meeting up with a 6pack, bathroom mirrow or dead fish - Do guys even get that, that a woman wants to meet a regular guy!!LOL If it weren't for dosh-bags with unappealing pics,then the guys with great awesome shots would not stand out.FOXY

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RHP User

13 years ago

GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

13 years ago

profile is fun, just perceived to be too bloody old. Fuck all I can do about that !

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RHP User

13 years ago

The picture in the mirror with the reflection of the room behind it, which has shit all over the floor the bed with no sheets or you can tell they are still at " mums" house. "50zkool" , don't be hard on yourself we were actually admiring your picture the other day.

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RHP User

13 years ago

hot photos guys, have been admiring them also.

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