RHP

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Question for couples

February 12 2018

If you have any extra play partners (be they FB or FWB etc), and be they another couple, or a man or woman, how often do they generally have to be in contact and by what means (phone, text, coffees etc), in order for you to continue having them as a play contact? Curious on the normal arrangements others use. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    That we catch up with occassionally. They were our first couple we ventuted into swinging with and we enjoy their company so continue to meet with them. The guys message friendly banter maybe every few months or so. We see them maybe once or twice a year. Its not really an arrangement per say but as long as we continue to swing and they are happy to have us we will continue to see them when we can. Mrs A - Posted from rhpmobile

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    8 years ago

    We may go two or three weeks between messages then we may exchange eight messages (inc pics ) in a day.Mrs Luv has a friend that sends a pic to her sometimes three times a week- always early in the morning before he goes for a run or to the gym (and always before his girlfriend is awake-lol) Mr Luvsilver

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    8 years ago

    Who are regulars; we'd text every day or every other day. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Some (normal) friends I have I only see a few times a year and that works. I hear from them when they want to catch up. That’s cool. Other friends you see and hear from them all the time It just depends how the communication goes. If it is “I wanna bang your arse” straight up when you haven’t heard from them in ages, well that is a bit yuck. But if they start the communication on a more personal level and ask how you are, etc and what to catch up for more than sex, well it depends. Everyone is so busy these days, I wouldn’t keep someone to a “communication schedule”

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    More of a friendship/converstaion to start off with and then when its close to fun time, the conversation can get into a little like mental foreplay.....it helps to set the tone, the mood, the anticipation.....but never straight off the bat and def not after time between drinks so to speak thats just not cricket

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Im sure the question was for couples. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yes, mainly for couples. For singles, they may not have any other partner, and so a fwb might be communicated with and met with quite frequently. However, a couple already has their ideal person as their partner or spouse. So perhaps a new (additional) person is not as essential for their well-being or regular sex life. However, said person may not be under as much pressure to continually contact you, or on the flip side, easier to stop seeing them if you no longer feel you need them. Just curious questions... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Contact anyone these days....been way too many experiences where I’ve not received as much as I put in and that to me suggests 1 of 2 possibilities.... 1. They don’t want me around anymore/I’m not worthy of their time... 2. I was just a casual hit.... Either way it’s quite calibrating towards people are just selfish cunts, and the way I see it, I can’t put smart them, so I’ll just join them and when I notice contact starting to wane, I just cut the ties... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It’s nice to catch up a few times a year with friends and lovers Generally chat a couple times a week