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Questions for the blokes
September 15 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
SPORT.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am wondering how many really truthful answers you will get though rather than politically correct public forum answers or having your questions being laughed off with a joke. I would like to hear some truthful answers too and I know there are a couple of guys here who are man enough to answer honestly.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Do men also feel totally overwhelmed when they have awesome, mind blowing sex with someone they have a huge attraction to?
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RHP User
11 years ago
1.yes 2. Yes to a certain extent on clothing! Hair, just deal with what u have at the time 3. Me personally, I go in hide out mode for a while, don't do much except work hard and train hard so if I meet the next lady I'm prepaid! 4. Yes but not everything!! And only to my best mate 5. To me it means to spoil someone, be thoughtful of what they want or what gets them happy or in the mood, or even if your just a relax romantic mood ( no sex), to notice all the lil things that makes her happy! That's a hard one to write haha hope u get what I'm saying 6.yes 7.every 2min 8.haha a surprise! ( if she really knows u, then she should no how to surprise u or give u what u want 9. Yep! I do! Haha anyway hope that helps u out
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RHP User
11 years ago
Noooooooooooobody expects the Spanish Inquisitionnnnnnnnn!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thabk u Mickelle, for opening up the questions for other ladies....Goping we all get answers... When it comes to these forums, which types of posts do u like answering or reading? Which ones bore u, or u don't bother with? Do u have 'forum,male buddies' that u discuss the posts with!? Do u discuss them over 'Guys Only Chat? Do u have most fav & most annoying forum identities? Do u ever follow the advice given, when asked for it? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Through personal experience, I get how single sex schools cut people off from learning about certain aspects of life but school only lasts so long. What happened after that? 1. I used to think about sex a lot. But now I'm mature and refined. 2. Thought process: Is it clean? If not, does it smell bad? Next thought is, 'Just how badly do I really want to go out?' I don't agonise over clothes choices but, happily, I don't have so much to agonise over. 3. Yup. Hole up and wait it out. Food doesn't help, alcohol might, sort of but I don't do that drug anymore. 4. Feelings sometimes get discussed but not in a terribly serious way. I don't kiss and tell, nor do my friends. Well... Male friends. The occasional female friend has put me on the spot and I just get stuck and wander off into vague generalisations. 5. Not a clue. The best I've done is to be silly and playful. Maybe that was seen as romantic, I don't know... 6. Nope. Although my stance was much more resolute than it is now. These days, it would depend on a very special woman - whom I have no reason to believe exists. It would depend a lot on the people involved but I don't have same reservations about the possibility of a ready made family. 7. A lot. It's mostly a yearning to share their company. But when that finally happens and I've been able to spend a lot of time with them, then the yearning gets physical. 8. No arguments. 9. Not a chance. Although I did notice that the women I've lived with had a lot of shoes
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry, I’m limiting my response, as sometimes I’m not good at short and sweet, and I don’t have the time to spend on this. 1. Most obvious - do you really think about sex, like, 99% of the time? No, I never have and who thought up such a question, no offence re the question, but I have seen surveys before in a similar ilk.As to what goes on in my sub conscious mind lol I’m not privy to that. 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? Do you agonise over what shirt/suit/tie/pair of board shorts/shoes to wear? How do you choose your hairstyle? Do you even care? Yes, complete personal presentation is important to me for various reasons.Do I agonise over it, no.Do I sometimes take the Mickey when I was ready over an hour ago and she is still deliberating on what to wear and what goes with what or working on makeup still lol yes. 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom? To a degree, with a close friend only. No, I can’t clearly recall if this correct, but I may have when I was lot younger on occasions and may be when it was something that didn’t last for long.When I think about it, when in a relationship, out of respect etc for my partner, I don’t and never tell anyone that knows or may come to know my partner any detail of what we get up to in the bedroom. 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day? Too often, to the point I’m not very productive during the honeymoon phase lol 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day? Her time, company, affections, and I won’t say no to a lovely meal either.I would rather have that than a gift. Actually, I’m too practical for my own good, so you are wasting your time buying me a present.If there is anything I want materialistic wise, I will go buy it myself. Actually, on that note, don’t ever attempt to buy me clothes, ok, may be small exceptions like socks, underpants, but surprising me with a pinkish shirt thinking I would and do look great in it lol sorry, no thanks.
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RHP User
11 years ago
9. Finally, and most importantly - do you even notice what shoes we're wearing??! Of course I do.But come on, it is a bit extreme when you have so many pairs of shoes that you could wear a different pair every day for countless weeks.And where’s my personal space gone ? lol nowhere for my stuff any longer because you have filled every nook and grainy with your shoes, clothes etc
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Most obvious - do you really think about sex, like, 99% of the time? No probably 95% 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? Do you agonise over what shirt/suit/tie/pair of board shorts/shoes to wear? How do you choose your hairstyle? Do you even care? Dont agonise over it but pay attention to look smart and tidy, hair neat and tidy 3. How do you deal with having your heart broken - do you hole up at home with ice cream & sad movies, or hit the town with your mates? Younger days would have clouded this with lots of partying but now days just keep busy and try move on 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom?This would only happen with closest friend but not in a tacky way just comparing notes, but in saying that not often 5. What does being 'romantic' mean to you? How do you show it? Keep the spark alive, spontaneous fun, nice dinners exotic holidays, random acts of kindness. not interested so much on the commercialism dates we are suppose to be romantic, more random acts often.not answering the question does my ass look big in this!! 6. Is a committed relationship (with babies, white picket fence etc.) something you want/wanted?Possibly but as i get older less so.The picket fence and babies that is, ok with committed relationship 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day? most waking hours when not subjected to heavy work load 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day?Birthday,fathers day,just a nice happy romantic dinner and possibly an even more special night of shagging. 9. Finally, and most importantly - do you even notice what shoes we're wearing??! depends on what you are wearing, maybe something that demands attention to your ass and legs then definitely,but probably not the first or second thing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Yep pretty much .... Were you expecting another answer ??? lol. 2. Wouldn't say I "agonise" over it. Somewhere in the middle ground. 3. Doing the things that I enjoy. The best way to move on IMHO is to love life again. 4. In some respects the male culture is still about talking about blokey topics like sport and beer. 5. For me its not about going all out on one or two nights in a year but then neglecting 98% of the other times. For me I like to throw in lots of little surprises here and there. Doesn't have to be grand gestures but things to show that I am thinking about her and letting her know I care. The way I think about it if I was having a shitting day and then I got a little surprise during the day then that would mean a hell of a lot more then being ignored then trying to make it up with a massive gesture.6. Yes I did want the committed relationship at the time and did okay at it. I would also like to think I have grown a hell of a lot since then and there is nothing wrong with wanting some spice and variety with your committed partner. 7. A fair bit. Other than if I am stupidly busy with work or other stuff then if they don't enter my mind a few times during the day then thats not a good sign :-/ 8. If my birthday gift was a kinky surprise and nothing else then I would be a happy man.9. I try to ... but if I don't notice feel free to punish me ..... Cheers, W.
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Now that I am older probably 50% of the time as I am generally at work but when I get home I usually get on and check RHP and any new posts, pics etc 2. Generally a black T shirt and jeans man so no overcomplicating things, where possible, thongs are my shoes of choice - hairstyle gets done every 2-3 weeks as I like short back and sides (hated it as a kid but now hate my hair to curly LOL). 3. Mrs Poly helps me find the ice cream and we eat together LOL :) 4. Never ever discuss what happens in the bedroom with my fair dinkum mates but for some reason, on RHP we like to share a little risqué details to those interested LOL.....all Mr Polys feelings are expressed openly and honestly with Mrs Poly. 5. Being romantic is never ever taking Mrs Poly for granted and showing her that she is the one and only for you in terms of the mental and physical long lasting relationship we do have - the rest e.g. RHP (which we do together anyways is just fun). 6. Call me old fashioned but a committed relationship is being with the one you luv unconditionally for all the distractions in life knowing we are there for each other and the journey we have had is truly what we have both wanted. 7. When we first started out, Mrs Poly was all I could ever think of and now Mrs Poly is STILL all I could ever think about LOL....shes a complete woman, inside and out8. For that special occasion it has definitely got to be Mrs Poly when she makes Mr Poly feel really, really, really, really special LOL...if you know what I mean LOL :) 9. No I don't notice the shoes Mrs Poly wears BUT I adore the ground she walks on :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
But love to answer... (puts on his big boy pants...) 1. Depends on what is going on around me... if left in my own mind for a while then yes sex is a 99% brain user... if working or dealing with something then it is less than 1%. I did work with a guy who was probably the 99% all the time, even during work hours which is why he got sacked for looking at porn on his work machine. 2. Care? Yes. Thought? Dress appropriate for weather, situation and if going with someone to match appropriately what they wear. 3. Movies and chocolate... long walks in the park and maybe a good cry... yes men cry. Now I also have my girlfwiends to add to the therapy list. 4. Most of my friends are female... so yes absolutely I talk to them about my feelings... once I know what I feel that is. 5. Quiet times together talking. Walking together hand in hand. Shared silence whilst watching the surf roll in. Dancing in the summer rain. Crying together when we are both sad. Laughing together when we do or say something stupid. Making soft passionate love or having rough teeth and claws sex. The look, the feel, the unspoken word that says "I love you" or "I'm thinking about you". A touch. 6. Want, yes. Expect to get, no. Will one day have, maybe. 7. Way too often. It would scare the crap out of them to know how much they are on my mind sometimes. Getting much much better at not obsessing. 8. A loving partner to share the occasion with... with a hug and a kiss. 9. Yes. And am willing to help you choose them if you ask. And the Bonus Question from L4Q: 10. Sometimes yes, sometimes no. I can get just as overwhelmed without the sex. But I do get over it if I know she doesn't feel the same for me... tis what should be referred to as the "sex zone" for emotions... just as one can be "friend zoned" emotions can be parcelled up in the "sex zone"... remembered but not obsessed over. SG(Sharing the manly side of me. . . go on, ask another!)
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yankmychain56
11 years ago
I speak for myself, and i don't think i think like 'most guys', as some do stuff I would never consider 1. I don't think about sex 99% of the time. maybe when i was younger, now about 70%???? If I am at a place where it is swimming with women dancing or a beach or something, then yeah, 99.99999%2. dressing going to work is solely functional. the majority of jobs i ever had required a uniform so wasn't much of an option.if i was going out on a date I would try to impress her, but still wouldn't go overboard, unless we were to ether and she wanted me to dress a certain way for some event.3. HEARTBREAK??? painmiserysorrow.once I expected special company for Christmas.no-show. I spent Christmas day breaking the windows out of my house with a hammer while listening to black sabbath.the neighbors didn't bother me about it for some reason:)4. don't have many male friends, and real close friends would talk somewhat about messed up relationships, but didn't talk about sexual conquests. If i mention sex on here, obviously I would never mention a persons name or brag about it.5. romance...different than S E X. Sex might be hot, but if I am attached to a woman, she gets the whole package, lots of kissing, foreplay, and sometimes just holding tight.6. picket fence??? BLAH!sitting out of my front porch with the mrs., overlooking my ranch, about a thousand grandkids everywhere, with and old dog and a shotgun.7. non stop wan to spend eery waking (an sleeping) moment with them, and THAT AINT OFTEN.8. stuff that I WANT, not stuff people get you out of 'I have to get him something'. then give me nothing, cash or a gift card maybe. If it isn't from the heart, I don't want it.9. shoes....hehe....stilettos....'fuck me now' boots. yeah, i look.
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RHP User
11 years ago
well done guys
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RHP User
11 years ago
I) thinking about sex.............not as often as 90% but if I'm honest I don't meet or look at a woman without thinking about sex 2)Thought process for getting dressed........... I'm bald so hair style takes no time and just the first set of clothes that seem appropriate and are clean. Some times people around me talk me into something different because it doesn't match?? 3) Heartbreak............try to distract myself by becoming absorbed in work 4) Discussing feelings ..........not with mates, I actually have a hard time recognising I have feelings 5) Romance.......I do enjoy a bit of romance, I like organsing supper by an open fire, or candles in the bedroom, or picnic by river or on beach or a glass of wine and watch the sunset 6) I am in a committed relationship, married 38 years six grand kids 7)Have been truly besotted several times in my life and sometimes can't get the person causing the besotting to fade from my mind at all in the early days of said besotting 8) Cliched I know but an evening of having a diligent sex slave clad in something sexy to massage, caress, give a bj and finish with mind blowing sex is great 9) shoes....sometimes a pair of shoes, generally high heels will catch my attention but generally I probably won't even notice if you have feet
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yep understand you motivation here. I've all males in my family extended family mates, - then along came my daughter....oh dear.... Anyways on with some answers to URL Qs. 1. When Younger yes! Now 100% of the time when I see a sexy girl go by. But now I've mastered the art of refocusing...:) 2. Shaved head is sooo much easier! I have my fav shirts pants & jeans depending select from them quick enough upon the occasion. Far from agonise rather swiftly selected! Thanks done gone out the door! 3. Train & Screw. Less drinking these days although red wine and Sunday afternoons ! 4.ahhh generally no. Ok so we are all alpha males dearie me what are feelings again? I think I had one once! Now deeper truth, guys have this innate "protection" functionality - how can one be a protector and tied up with his own feelings too? Easy that's where your Lady comes in handy, if single it pretty we'll sorting it out yourself. 5. Ah well romantic activities are different to aforementioned. I love being romantic actually, random roses, random dinners, random adventure, soft sensual fucking oooops love making...chocolate weekends away at a moments notice, etc 6. Fuck good question. I wanted it yes 100%. Do I want it now? Doubtful. 7. Alot. 8. Take notice of what I'm passionate about is a good clue! 9. Ahhh Yes. But if they do not precisely match jeans shorts etc - all of the time - who cares! - serious! Guys have this habit of thinking who gives a shit - and if you do give a S-/$ then who's got the problem!...hehehe true! SDx
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Most obvious - do you really think about sex, like, 99% of the time? no - unless I'm in a ridiculously horny mood, then yes. 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? Do you agonise over what shirt/suit/tie/pair of board shorts/shoes to wear? How do you choose your hairstyle? Do you even care? I'll take time on a shirt to go out. Board shorts? the decision extends to whether I think I need ones with pockets or not. My hair is extensively styled as "cut short" - what am I? some foppish dandy ;) 3. How do you deal with having your heart broken - do you hole up at home with ice cream & sad movies, or hit the town with your mates? gym 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom? rarely. gf/wife/partner = not so likely, but if someone hooked up and there was something out of the ordinary then it might get worked into a story. 5. What does being 'romantic' mean to you? How do you show it? 6. Is a committed relationship (with babies, white picket fence etc.) something you want/wanted? sure, why not. 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day? - at the start or ongoing? quite often 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day? If i'm being given a "Fathers Day present" then i'm wanting answers to serious questions ;-) 9. Finally, and most importantly - do you even notice what shoes we're wearing??!YES - I'll probably notice shoes over other things, it isn't a fetish, but I'm happy looking at heels and going shoe shopping (though I'm pretty quick and efficient at scanning a shop and dismissing it if there is nothing I fancy)
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RHP User
11 years ago
How exactly do you determine that such answers are in fact truthful?? The tones of text are simply the interpretation of the reader ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Honestly .. No. Between working fulltime, studying, rugby, the gym and trying to relax occasionally with amigos, my brain is pretty busy. Thinking about sex at work (in a hospital) is pretty rare due to being so busy and it not being a particularly conducive environment to perpetuate such thoughts. Not to say that the mind doesn't occasionally wonder off to ridiculously naughty thoughts when the nurse I have a massive crush on walks on by but that's a different story haha. 2. More recently, I indeed pay much more attention to my appearance regarding fashion, hairstyles and grooming. I no longer buy stuff that I felt 50/50 about, just good quality stuff and occasionally treat myself to a new tailor made shirt. As for hairstyles, I now go to a kickass moustachery/barber. Lads I only spruik because every man who gives a poop about himself should check the place out .. The moustachery on oxford street, Bulimba. I take pride in my appearance because ultimately it makes me feel more confident. When in doubt just always smart casual :) I can't say I agonise over what to wear or look like etc, however, I do put a bit of effort in .. It's the least we can do when you ladies do it 99% of the time. 3. I wear my heart on my sleeve. When I give myself to someone, I give myself completely. When it doesn't work out .. I usually end up pretty busted inside. I tend to initially retract inside my own headspace for awhile, operating as a shell. However, I usually wake up to myself pretty quickly and realise it's not helping anything to mope around. Thus begins my healing process. I write stuff down .. Get it out of my head so I can visualise it too. I take note of all the situations where I contributed to the negativity and workout how I want that to be different and what I need to do to change that attribute within myself. After awhile I just focus on myself, loads of surfing, hitting the gym harder, making music .. Too ensure I find my feet and happiness again. 4. I have a couple of close mates that I can rely on to chat with about issues if I need to get outside of my own head. They are pretty cool about it and they similarly come to me with that kind of stuff too. No judgement .. No ego .. Just talking it all out. As for what partners etc get up to in the bedroom .. There's generally an etiquette that it doesn't get talked about out of respect .. Not fear of taboo and judgement. A cheeky wink or comment or innuendo is often enough. 5. Being romantic .. Ultimately to me means feeling connected to each other, mentally, physically and emotionally. Sure there's all the fun blatant romance stuff like picnics and dates and road trips and gestures .. But it all means Jack if you're not reading the same page from the same book. The blatant stuff tends to happen and take care of itself naturally when you have that heightened sense of being connected with the one you want more than anything in the world. I guess how to show that stuff is through trust and communication .. Being able to discuss things without fear or judgement .. Just an open mind, whether it be sexually exploring, discussing your hopes and goals etc. I've never felt more loved and in love when I've had those kinds of moments. 6. With the right person for me .. Absolutely. 7. Literally every single moment possible. Every mental break from reality is consumed by them :s 8. Me personally .. Just a lovely day doing some of the things we both love doing. Perhaps a surprise truly thoughtful gift .. Not necessarily something big, but something nobody else would think to get because nobody else knows me like you do. 9. Honestly, unless they're hideous or conversely the only things you are indeed wearing then .. No. Sure .. You look lovely .. But I really only have eyes for your smile :) Looking4quality's question; Unequivocally yes .. Mind blowing, amazing, delicious sex with the one I'm truly keen on will do nothing but overwhelm me with how much I enjoy that person in every facet of the word. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. No 2. Style optional ! Clean , comfortable , universal . 3. Cry it out .and then fuck . 4. Yes select few . 5. Nothing is impossible its all about my woman feeling awsome. 6. Had it with wrong woman . Would of been good with the right woman . 7. Constantly 8. Smiles 9. Always L4Q Yes indeed its what the search is about. Absolute joy . - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
With the responses so far, I do hope you're taking notes (or preferably printing these off) so that you're getting all the knowledge you want from us blokes. As you'll find, we blokes are of all sorts and differing thoughts and opinions and what floats one's boat could sink anothers - just like you women, I s'pose. You've already got a good spread provided, but I'll add my 2c worth for ya. 1. Thinking about sex - really depends on time / place and situation. It's not something that is conscientiously thought about 99% of the time all day, but there are perhaps times when it does take up more time than others, particularly if we happen to be in the 'right' environment, when it will be damn near 100%. 2. Clothing / hair. Yes, I do care. Will try to wear clothing appropriate to the occasion and weather, and will try to colour co-ordinate. Hair, not a great deal to do with that - it generally has a mind of it's own. 3. Broken heart. Personally I'm a quiet type of bloke - so tend to just keep it to myself without too much drama. Sure, it can / does hurt, but have to look ahead as well. Benefit and wisdom of age ? 4. Chat. I'm a gentleman and I do not "kiss and tell" -- I personally prefer to revel in the details by myself. 5. Being romantic. OK - I could fill up a page with this, but won't. Generally it is being aware of what the lady likes to do and have done to her, and then doing such. Could be taking her to a favourite location, eating out at a favourite type of food dish, go shopping with her and so on. Physically it would be touching her the way she likes it, such as soft caresses on her cheek with my fingers, soft kissing along the back of her neck and cheeks, gentle touching over various sections of her body, and so on. Also of course remembering important occasions, such as when first met and where, and other things like that. 6. Committed relationship. Been there, done that. It is what I wanted, and would love again with the right lady. 7. New love. Think about them very often during the day (and night). 8. Wants. Definitely not socks n jocks ! I would really appreciate it if the woman in my life knows me well enough to see what interests I have in life and to buy something accordingly. It is something I do for my family - they always seem to be amazed with the variety of things I come up with and it is always fully appreciated. It can and probably will be different to each and every one of us. Check out a mans hobbies or other types of interests - you will always be able to find some way to surprize him (nicely). 9.Shoes. Yes, I do notice, but don't ask me whether they are Manolo Blahnik's or some other - I wouldn't have a clue. I notice if they're nice or not quite right. @ Ralf - all answers are honest. L4Q - Yes, this man does get that feeling too. Spanglish - there is a "secret mens business" subject on site too, just like for the ladies (maybe shouldn't say so), but it doesn't get used a hell of a lot. Don't know too much what goes in as I hardly ever look at it - most doesn't interest me. Will have to wait til I've had a beer before I attempt to answer your questions also. Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Yes, if you take out of the equation sleep, work, sport, the dentist. 2. Like to dress well but not that fussy.3. Hibernate for a few weeks then let loose. 4. Rarely, most guys won 't listen unless there's a great sex story involved.5. Small acts of kindness & thoughtfulness, a hot bath waiting, cook dinner, a single red rose....personally I have found that a single red rose with a note saying how beautiful she is has more meaning than the whole florist shop.6. Yes except everything in brackets7. Yes, too often cos I make stuff ups at work.8. Sex aside, just you & a happy smile ( & maybe a home cooked meal.)9. Shit yeah...I love hot legs & shoes can add to that. Ralf...I'm not a good liar !!! L4Q...Overwhelmed..hmmm...my venus way of thinking is different to you...more in awe of the chemistry. Spanglish...I love all foroumites cos one day might be a bad hair day but next day your comments are spot on & well thought out. Happi...
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Most obvious - do you really think about sex, like, 99% of the time? Yes 99% of the time the other 1% is sports time. 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? Do you agonise over what shirt/suit/tie/pair of board shorts/shoes to wear? How do you choose your hairstyle? Do you even care? For work the brain thinks look safe for going our the brain thinks look good and dress to impress 3. How do you deal with having your heart broken - do you hole up at home with ice cream & sad movies, or hit the town with your mates? Apply for bail and go out with mates. 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom? Feelings yes but sexual antics remain private 5. What does being 'romantic' mean to you? How do you show it? Random drives to nice places for no reason, random chocolate care packages delivered to her work, same with flowers or sometimes just a card. Noticing little things that she likes and does and doing said things as second nature not for kudos but just because. 6. Is a committed relationship (with babies, white picket fence etc.) something you want/wanted? Done it before and will do it again. 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day? 48 seconds of every minute for the remaining seconds refer to Question 1. 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day? Something i never thought i needed! 9. Finally, and most importantly - do you even notice what shoes we're wearing??! Yes, because i generally trip over them after they end up on my bedroom floor.
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madotara69
11 years ago
I can't seem to get past the first question. Mado Mado Tara xx
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happy0450
11 years ago
1. Sex - depends on length of time between last sexual engagement, with or without another person in the room 20%-75% 2. Clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. Iron on a Sunday night, different colour of shirt for each day, with normally black trousers or dark brown. One of 3 pairs of shoes, so, not hard. 3. Heart broken - hole up at home 4. Feelings to your mates? Yes, but never bedroom, Why do girl do this and guys don't ??? 5. Romantic - means making partner centre of my attention, classic beach walk, small personal gifts and cook her favourite meal complimented with her favourite wine completed with a slow massage. 6. Committed relationship - looking back, the most authentic happy period of my life 7. Someone that you're really keen on - hourly at least 8. Birthdays etc, Time with my children 9. Shoes, Yes, Tidy and appropriate What you mightn't know 1. Intimacy is just important for many of us as it is to most women 2. We like solving problems, sometimes you perceive us as not engaged, but its how we are wired. Just remind us, you want to talk about things, not have a solution 3. We do need to keep our male friend connections 4. We work best in relationships when both parties commitment to solving difference rather than trying to significantly change core traits Hope this helps X
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RHP User
11 years ago
Most definitely yes without question. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Most obvious - do you really think about sex, like, 99% of the time? The old myth that men think about sex once every fifteen minutes was exposed some time back as something someone just made up. But yes, we do. 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? Do you agonise over what shirt/suit/tie/pair of board shorts/shoes to wear? How do you choose your hairstyle? Do you even care? I don't agonise but I do care. As with everything I figure you might as well have fun with stuff, so I enjoy clothes. It's rare I dress up for anything though, including work. I wear what I feel like wearing regardless of the situation (with the exception of funerals). That said, I sort of dress up all the time, in that I like a good vintage shirt, often either western or hawaiian or a bit seventies ridiculous, but sometimes I'll just go a plain black tee shirt. I like a good vintage leather jacket or my standard ratty charcoal denim jacket. With very few exceptions I won't wear anything with a picture on it, and definitely no branding. 3. How do you deal with having your heart broken - do you hole up at home with ice cream & sad movies, or hit the town with your mates? I wallow in agonised misery for quite some time, but due to parenting responsibilities etc I have to carry on, so I largely internalise that shit. BUT: 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom? I've got a few very close friends I do talk to about that stuff. I don't, however, talk about the specifics of what I get up to with girlfriends in any way that would be transgressive of their privacy. We sometimes talk about what we get up to in general terms, but leave specific people out of it. 5. What does being 'romantic' mean to you? How do you show it? I know a lot of women love getting flowers, but I do that rarely, and only ever when there's absolutely no reason to do it. Somehow buying flowers always smacks of manipulation. It's the primary tool of cheaters and fuckwits, and I think I find that association hard to shake. Maybe I've watched too many movies. I'll randomly pick flowers and give them to her though, So maybe I'm just a cheapskate ;). Randomness seems to have a lot to do with it, I like the unexpected. Random texts, random dinners, trips to hot springs and massages (I like a bit of indulgence) and lots of random affection. 6. Is a committed relationship (with babies, white picket fence etc.) something you want/wanted? I've done my babies I think, although if I fell in love with a woman who really wanted kids I wouldn't try and deny her that. I hate white picket fences, in fact I'm not big on fences in general. I do want a committed relationship eventually, but there are many forms that commitment can take. So that would depend a lot on what she wants too. 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day? She replaces sex in that regard. In that I think about her 99% of the time. 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day? Nothing. I really don't like getting gifts. Any possessions beyond keys, wallet and phone I find burdensome. You could scratch the phone too, for that matter. Having said that, though, I always like good books and good food. One gift that I always appreciate is home made marmalade, the stuff from the shops is invariably rubbish. So I lied, I clearly do like getting gifts... 9. Finally, and most importantly - do you even notice what shoes we're wearing??! I notice everything about you.
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RHP User
11 years ago
that generally men can only think about one thing at a time. Can you please then limit the questions to 1x question at a time, or send us a job application so that we may apply. (Question 1 sex, yes, unless thinking of something else), lost track, last question, shoes, only when you are wearing the FMB's that you have on
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm totally blown away by the responses I've received so far - even yours DG lol. Thank you all for your detailed, honest and heartfelt posts. Definitely learned a lot, and I love how individual you all are :) Next time I feel that I might be slipping into a "man bashing" frame of mind, I'll be going back to your posts as a reality check to remind myself that not all men are bastards, and that most of you are pretty damned awesome :) Much love, Mickelle PS L4Q - fantastic question, and I love the answers you got :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Most obvious - do you really think about sex, like, 99% of the time? Yes, the only times I don't is when I'm preoccupied with something very important or during exercise/hard physical activity. When I'm bored my mind just won't stop 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? Do you agonise over what shirt/suit/tie/pair of board shorts/shoes to wear? How do you choose your hairstyle? Do you even care? I don't agonize but I do pay attention - location, theme, and people will influence what I wear to certain things, but I don't stress too much. I've got a receding hairline so my hair is clipped short which honestly I'm happy with! 3. How do you deal with having your heart broken - do you hole up at home with ice cream & sad movies, or hit the town with your mates? It hasn't happened that often but I usually withdraw for a bit, get a bit mopey and reflect. Things will be ok, just focus on the upside. 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom? Yes, to the point my friends will tell me to shut up! I talk freely but take mind of where I am and if the people would be comfortable (also respect people's privacy). I also don't mind if lovers talk about what they get up to, I find it very interesting and comforting they can share that information. 5. What does being 'romantic' mean to you? How do you show it? I'm not a very romantic guy but what constitutes 'romantic' varies from person to person, I'll usually find out what it means to a particular lover and do something that they'd enjoy. 6. Is a committed relationship (with babies, white picket fence etc.) something you want/wanted? NO! For as long as I can remember: never never never. 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day? A lot. Both in a sexual and platonic sense. 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day? Something we can all enjoy - bottle of booze to open later on, a trip to a great restaurant, a nice getaway. I'm not a materialistic person and things I do want I've probably bought myself. 9. Finally, and most importantly - do you even notice what shoes we're wearing??! Nope. If you're dressed to the occasion it looks good but we don't notice labels or styles or anything in particular detail. WE DO NOTICE IF YOU LOOK UNCOMFORTABLE OR CAN'T WALK PROPERLY - cannot stress that enough, don't buy horrible shoes if they hurt just because they look nice or were on special.
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playfulpirate
11 years ago
Yes Whatever feels good Booze Yes Spoiling and infatuation Yes Lots Booze Yes
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RHP User
11 years ago
1.sex, only in free time, mind is on the job, unless a woman turns up, then I evaluate and wonder. Out and about, yes a lot, as above. Sleeping about 50% dreams are sex related. 2. Clothes. Have an annual buying spree, like to make sure things work with each other, love playing around with bright coloured and oddly matched socks. Red on the left green on the right, you work it out. 3. Heartbreak, seclusion, alcohol,link punishing bike rides. Then back into it. 4.not mates, friend girls, some I discuss the basics, some get the whole lot. 5. I'm the practical type, I'll fix something, make something, I'll buy chocolate ! Flowers suck. 6.Been there done that, no regrets, have my kids week on week off. Love it. 7. All the time, I have to willingly concentrate to get anything done ! 8.Happy with anything that has thought put into it. 9.Shoes, only if they are glaringly ridiculous, my focus is above the knees.
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RHP User
11 years ago
When a man wakes up with a hard on is it really because you are turned on or is it because you need to pee?
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madotara69
11 years ago
It just means, if you are up for it, we are ready for it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We don't usually chub up when we need to pee... The full bladder and the morning glory are unrelated, and mutually inconvenient (full bladders are irritating to fuck with and it's annoyingly difficult to contort your body to aim a boner into the bowl...) But the morning erection is certainly ongoing testament to male optimism... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' When a man wakes up with a hard on is it really because you are turned on or is it because you need to pee? Sexual erection and arousal are part of the parasympathetic nervous system - the rest and digest part. This is the part that's in play when sleeping, so both sexes are actually more likely to be horny when they first wake up. I know I am...
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RHP User
11 years ago
L4Q... Morning Glory or Morning Wood is a natural reaction... many men "get wood" whilst asleep (see Nocturnal Penile Tumescence)... and the morning woody is the last one of the night. That being said, how long it stays and what he tries to do with said wood is a fair indicator of how turned on he is for/by you. SG
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Not even close. I couldn't put a percentage on it but working in transport doesn't give me much inspiration. 2. Comfort is paramount. For work I make sure I'm looking reasonable, nobody likes working with a slob all day. Socialising, whatever is clean. I love suiting up for a more formal evening. I'm look great in a tux. 3. Heartbreak equals boys time. I hit the town big time for a few weeks and play a lot more sports with my mates. 4. I only talk in general terms about my feelings with guys. If I need a D and M I'll annoy one of my girl friends. 5. I rarely talk about sex u less it's with the person I'm having sex with. If I mention anything to the guys it would be a funny story about something that happened or a generalisation. 6. Babies, white picket fences? Hell no. I have lived with two ladies that I thought I would spend my life with but that didn't pan out. I decided when I was 19 not to breed. 7.To distraction. Plus my phone bill goes through the roof. 8. Nothing. I'm not christian, I'm not a father and I ignore my birthday. I've always felt that the day I was born was much more important to my parents. It was just the start of my experience. 9. Of course, sexy high heels and 'come fuck me' boots, yum. Those silly looking platform heels that are in fashion just look clunky and uncomfortable. I hope this helps.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Gee_8 you are a sweetie. You are what we hope men will be (well this woman anyway) Thankyou for actually answering, I wish you everything your looking for. Mischievouslad get over yourself! No one actually cares enough for it to be a Spanish Inquisition! They were question from a lady who was curious, that's all. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The percentage of time I thought about sex today just sky rocketed.
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RHP User
11 years ago
To the guys that said yes to question 9.... I don't believe you.......that just because the answer to number 1 is yes.....and your just trying to get laid! :-)
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Wild_Pagan_Love
11 years ago
Hey Mickelle :) Totally understand, I went to a boys school, so girls really freaked me out for the first couple years after leaving, lol. I think much of the confusion comes from the ways that men used to be raised. It was bad, and caused many emotional and family problems, and boys today are having a tough time trying to adjust out of that horrible legacy, into a world that is much more balanced. But, it's getting better all the time! 1. Most obvious - do you really think about sex, like, 99% of the time? Hmm, not 99% - we get pretty good at quelling the urge as most things related to sex are inappropriate throughout most of the day, but yeah – the thought is never far away ;) (blame genetics!) 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? Do you agonise over what shirt/suit/tie/pair of board shorts/shoes to wear? How do you choose your hairstyle? Do you even care? Yes we do (younger generations anyway).But the hard part is looking good, without looking like you’ve obsessed about it, ie like you’ve just ‘slapped’ something together. 3. How do you deal with having your heart broken - do you hole up at home with ice cream & sad movies, or hit the town with your mates? I think this is a HUGE myth.Most every every guy I know (including me) feels it hard.Maybe as much as girls do (can’t ever be sure) – but actually, I know more girls who bounce back quicker and are out drinking and picking up again much sooner.I guess it’s very individual, but yeah, that is a myth. 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom? Um, not too much – it goes against the unwritten ‘guy code’ (stupid, but its just the way it is).I think we usually talk to our female friends and relatives about it, but hardy ever to mates. 5. What does being 'romantic' mean to you? How do you show it? I love romance, so my answer is probably slanted, but I like to show her how she is the centre of my world, and not in a fake way.It’s a cliché but listening to her, and getting to know what she loves in the world.All the tiny little things that show that she means enough to you to pay attention to everything.All these little things add up.Oh, and the kiss (like the song) gives a LOT away ;) 6. Is a committed relationship (with babies, white picket fence etc.) something you want/wanted? I think it’s pretty much the ‘end game’ for just about every guy, although many may not admit it. 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day? Wow, happened to me this weekend, and I havn’t stopped thinking about her. I do feel a bit silly, but can't help it. 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day? Practical stuff!Underpants, socks, clothes are great, haha!Or maybe something inexpensive, that a lot of thought has been put in to. 9. Finally, and most importantly - do you even notice what shoes we're wearing??! No, I don’t, sorry!!I absolutely do notice a good dresser though, and it’s sexy as hell :) Hope it helps!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ok maybe a little blunt but the truth... 1.90% of the time. 2.no agonising but as long as it's comfortable. 3.go out with mates. 4.not really, I'm quite private but have one friend I could confide in 5.cooking dinner, wine and a nice massage 6. Not really the picket fence thing 7.all the time 8. Gadgets or a nice few days away together 9.yes we notice shoes-they make a difference I promise. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. 1. do you really think about sex, 99% of the time? that all depends on the day. However its mostly a Yes, though I can switch back to non-sexual thoughts pretty quick. 2. 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? For work it is a uniform so that's easy, going out - I aim to look nice because I like to look nice. working in the yard or around the house - it doesn't worry me, as long as they aren't my 'good' clothes. As for my hair, if it's long enough to comb - I comb it :-) 3. 3. How do you deal with having your heart broken - If I am deeply in love - it takes a big toll on me. I'd even go as far as saying it will have a slight impact on my work due to not being able to concentrate as well as I could. I won't go out and party nor will I eat lots of ice cream, I will likely watch an additional movie on the weekend and not want to mow the lawns ultimately though I will do my best to forge forward with life. Everything for a reason :-) 4. 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom? Yes I talk about my feelings to my mates, not all of them however I certainly don't bottle everything up inside - it's not healthy. I don't however talk about my sex life with friends or about my partner (unless I'm bragging about how awesome my partner is as a person). 5. 5. What does being 'romantic' mean to you? How do you show it? Romance starts with the little things. whilst I will open a door for anybody it doesn't mean I'm being romantic with them. However I will go out of my way to do things for my partner - even to the extent of collecting a bag full of rose petals to sprinkle over the bed for a special night in. 6. 6. Is a committed relationship (with babies, white picket fence etc.) something you want/wanted? Indeed it is. 7. 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day? More than I think about sex!! 8. 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day? Time - I want to spend time with the people I love and who love me. 9. 9. do you even notice what shoes we're wearing? I most certainly do, however that's because I make shoes. I often find I'm admiring the shoes women are wearing thinking about the pattern and what could be changed etc....then I look up and notice they are watching me! How many times I have been busted doing that, oh my!. They likely think I have a foot fetish. HaHa 10. 10. Do you feel overwhelmed after awesome sex? Who doesn't! when sex is awesome, it's just that.. AWESOME 11. 11. Is morning wood from a full bladder or arousal? If I'm up out of bed and hurrying to the toilet - not sexual thoughts. If I'm all over you - sexual thoughts.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Awww man... it doubled up on my numbers!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Q 1. Only when the mind is idle...well maybe not only. Q2. I think that like ZZ Top sang "every woman likes a sharp dressed man". Q3. Been many yrs since that has happened but as a youth, was very devo'd. As an adult I just got on with life and like John English sang i "turned the page". Q4. Not at all. Never have and they never have...coz you know it's BS. Q5. Diner, flowers and a lot of respect. Q6. Simply mutual trust, and the ability to say almost anything without reprocution. Q7. Doesn't stop. Q8. Someone to make the day special...and thats all. Q9. I tent to notice it all...right down to your makeup. Well thats me anyway. Dave - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are we really that different REALLY - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Most obvious - do you really think about sex, like, 99% of the time? not 99% of the time. but it can pop up at some random times..... 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? Do you agonise over what shirt/suit/tie/pair of board shorts/shoes to wear? How do you choose your hairstyle? Do you even care? to be honest I don't really care about what I wear as long as it looks presentable and not to boganish. but that also depends on where I am going. 3. How do you deal with having your heart broken - do you hole up at home with ice cream & sad movies, or hit the town with your mates? get drunk with mates 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom? nah. 5. What does being 'romantic' mean to you? How do you show it? having a connection with someone that you don't with anyone else. weekend getaways, nice dinners, etc 6. Is a committed relationship (with babies, white picket fence etc.) something you want/wanted? yes that would be great 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day? to often to be honest 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day? a nerf gun lol. nah nothing 9. Finally, and most importantly - do you even notice what shoes we're wearing??! yes nothing sexier then a hot pair of heals whether that clears anything up for you or not mickelle I don't know. but it is a small insight into how my mind works lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. No not really, it depends on how often "The Ferret" is gettin' a run. I've had a strong libido all my life, it's genetic and I actually have low testosterone, my Doc says I'm a "freak". 2. I like to dress neat casual, but don't agonise over it, I'm seeking a lady to help me with advice on updating my wardrobe, my 18yr old son was my fashion adviser, but doesn't live with me any more. I recently had a "makeover", lost the mo I'd had for 30yrs, got my hair cut short, got an earring, I sought the advice of a lady hairdresser and ppl are saying I look 10yrs younger. 3. I can go reclusive or go out, it depends on my mood. That is why a lot of guys seek FWB, the emotional side of ending a 30yr LTR is hard to deal with, but I'm a new man 2yrs on. 4. I'm very open about all things these days, I have a great lady friend I met on RHP, we both openly discuss everything, everybody should have an opposite gender friend, it's the best way to find out how the "other species" operates. When I settle down in 5yrs time it will be with a lady that I can discuss everything with, or I'll just die alone. Yes blokes do discuss women/sex etc with their mates, I haven't witnessed it being derogatory, just something guys do generally. 5. Ah the "R" word. I see romantic as treating a lady well and with respect. Cooking her a nice dinner, lots of nice compliments, constantly reminding her of her best traits, bubble baths with champagne, sensual full body massages, lots of kissing and cuddles, buy her some nice lingerie that makes her feel good about herself. A random bunch of flowers, perhaps a weekend away in a country motel with a spa room. Be a friend when she's down & needs a boost. I guess this all points to me trying to "pants her" but the sex is better if you treat a lady well and listen to her needs and desires. 6. The "hard ball". I never really wanted a child, as I felt I didn't have the emotional goods to be a father, nor was I a "kick a footy" type Dad that society expects. My son happening "accidently on purpose" was I major upheaval in my life. But he's a good lad, extremely well mannered, 18mths into a plumbing apprenticeship, will be working for himself in 2 1/2 yrs. His sporting prowess and academic achievements floored me, I always backed him at anything he tried and his success rate was astounding. He taught me what love really is, we've been thru a lot of ups and downs since the split, but are now on an even keel. I credit his mother with bringing him up well. My father never once told me he loved me and I hugged him for the 1st time at 51yrs old, he's old school and was taken aback by it. I now rest easy at night, knowing my boy "is good" & on his way in life. That's the best I could do for him, I've made a point of passing on "life lessons" to him, I hate seeing the next generation make the same mistakes as the last. 7. If I meet a lady that ticks a lot of the boxes, I think about her often, random calls, nice txt msg's, I plan to meet a few ladies in the next 5yrs, the best ones No's I will keep, then stay in touch a bit and if they're still go round in 5yrs, that I'd be great to settle down, but if they're taken, well so be it. 8. This one is a "head fuck". I'm like my father, when I need or want something I buy it, so I'm extremely hard to buy a gift for, unless you have the money for a Mustang or a Harley, gunna' get both of those too, one day. 9. Yes, I'm a leg/bum/feet man, I adore attractive curvy ladies that dress well, smell nice and that are at home with their body and sexuality, I like most like to purvey some nice boobies as well, but a lady with smooth tanned legs and open toe shoes with polished toe nails really gets my "cork a poppin". Unfortunately a lot of the ladies that I like seem to be interstate, I don't fly, and ladies seem to feel like "prostitutes" if you offer a plane ticket. I guess I'm gunna' have to do trip around Hwy 1 and sample the local goods. I hope this has been of help Mickelle, you probably still think men are "fucked up units", we're not, we just interpirate things a little differently. The best book I read on this was "Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars", a bit out of date now, but it explains the basics. Good luck to you all in your quests. Cheers P.L.
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RHP User
11 years ago
As a man.....I don't move the couch from one side of the room, to the other, to have it end up right back where it was in the first place. Doe's that help?......knots (Insights galore)...
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RHP User
11 years ago
What makes you think we all think / act the same, just because we have a cock? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Interesting thread but in a good way. The simple reason why you have problems working out the male brain is for the exact same reason why so many of us men have no idea how the female brain works. It's because neither of us have lived a day as the opposite sex, let alone a week, month or year. I do like how you've at least asked questions to further understand our thinking, to which should be applauded and makes a very refreshing change from the usual line of "all men are the same". And seen as you took the time to ask, I will give my own personal answers. 1. If a guy seriously thought about sex 99% of the time, the road fatality rate would be a lot higher. Work places accidents would be a lot more frequent. Or, if we do think about sex 99% of the time while still driving a car or carry out our job, then I guess it dispels the myth about men not being able to do two things at once Lol 2. If it's work clothes then I don't care what I wear, as long as its suitable to the job it doesn't matter. When I go out my only priority for clothing is, is it clean. As for hairstyles, I just shave mine because the world already had enough pretty boys with product. 3. Have never been heart broken. The day you allow a broken heart to dominate your emotions is the same day you invite depression into your life. If it wasn't mean to be, have a quick cry and move on. I can guarantee you that the other person has. 4. I think i can safely say that some guys are more open than others about talking about sex or partners, but we definitely don't "compare notes" so to speak like women do. I remember hooking up with a girl one night and the next morning her friend was ringing first thing in the morning and asking for all the juicy details. I was lying next to the girl and could hear every word. Lets just say that guys don't usually ring first thing the next morning to see if their mate will give the juicy details Lol 5. Being romantic is showing that you took the time and care to show you care. It usually has a personal touch to it to show you care even more. I know that sounds soppy, but that is my answer to your question. 6. The babies and picket fences has it's appeal, but for me todays concept of marriage and mortgage has no appeal to me at all. To commit to those things is absolutely final. Rushing into those decisions can prove disastrous. Having a nice quite family life has its appeal to most men, but being caught in the rat race just to keep up with the Jones's is having less and less appeal to most men i talk to. Also, knowing that we will lose nearly every custody dispute if things turn ugly is also a serious deterrent for a lot of guys today. 7. We, or i think about them a lot when i first meet them because it has the element of mystery of what's ahead to it. And it hasn't yet had to chance to be ruined by 10 years of petty relationship arguments. 8. Unless we specifically say we want "x" or "y" then we really don't care what we get. I don't know if it's just me, but i would prefer her to buy herself something she wants rather than buy me something just for the sake of a date on the calendar. But ladies, even if your man is hard to buy for, socks and undies are not a present, they're an everyday necessity that can be bought at any time of the year. How well do you know your man if all you can think of is socks and undies ? 9. I do. Just don't expect us to now what brand they are or if they are rip offs of a brand name. But a sexy woman in heels will always get my attention. But to be fair a sexy woman in thongs will get my attention too. Women put so much focus on what they are wearing, but you forget we keep mentally picturing you without those clothes on, just not 99% of the time Lol Thanks again for asking and i hope my answers helped in some way for the positive ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I know most guys have a short attention span, by the time I got to your last question I forgot what the first was :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is come ask me face to face and find out but the consensus is if I notice your shoes your not showing enough cleavage or leg. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
To the forums sensual...Lovely post xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Most obvious - do you really think about sex, like, 99% of the time? I don't. I think about it fairly often and once I'm 'in the mood' it often takes some of outside occurrecne or distraction to snap me out of it but there's no possible way I could think about sex 99% of the time, 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? Do you agonise over what shirt/suit/tie/pair of board shorts/shoes to wear? How do you choose your hairstyle? Do you even care? Getting dressed for work or to go out: I care a bit about personal presentation, but I'm not pedantic about it. Agonising over clothes: No, not really. I try to wear clothes that work with each other or don't make me look like a slob. Hairstyle: This is a difficult one for me. I've been thinking about changing hairstyle for about 12 months but have no idea wiat works, so I just keep it as is. I had hair down to my waist until about 2007, then I cut it all off to the style it is now, and it has stayed that way since. Do I care? Enough to think about it! 3. How do you deal with having your heart broken - do you hole up at home with ice cream & sad movies, or hit the town with your mates? The last two times I have had my heart broken I have been quite upset, I have cried, and didn't sleep for a night afterward. I went to work the next day and did what I needed to do and tried to emotionally distance myself from the situation until it was in the background. From there it gets easier. 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom? No, not really. I talk about my feelings with other women friends. 5. What does being 'romantic' mean to you? How do you show it? I'm not very good at romantic gestures. I tend toward practicality such as cooking someone dinner or giving gifts. 6. Is a committed relationship (with babies, white picket fence etc.) something you want/wanted? Again this comes down to practicality - if I felt I could support a family and afford children the best opportunities I would probably be more inclined toward settling down. 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day? Pretty often? Hard to quantify that one. 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day? Something thoughtful. 9. Finally, and most importantly - do you even notice what shoes we're wearing??! Yes, though I kind of have a thing for ladies' feet so I may be out of the ordinary.
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RHP User
11 years ago
1.Pretty much yeeup 99% of the time 2. Its always about the shoes !! and always try to look my best.. hair is no probs as messed up is all the go these days 3. Only happened to me once, i find retail therapy really helpful 4. Never with mates, do discuss wifes ,ex wives etc but never talk about sexual adventures as they wouldnt believe me and call me a wanker or lying prick 5. Making her feel special , suprises and being spontaneous 6. Had it !! ( long story ) 7. Most of the day 8. Anything from my kids 9. First thing i look at is her shoes, then fingernails then rugulatory tits, arse etc
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RHP User
11 years ago
Cool topic.Here's my 2c :) 1. Most obvious - do you really think about sex, like, 99% of the time?Definitely not. Generally only after a workout or first thing in the morning when the blood's pumping! 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? Do you agonise over what shirt/suit/tie/pair of board shorts/shoes to wear? How do you choose your hairstyle? Do you even care?I pride myself on my appearance, and this may seem silly, but I have a routine for which work shirt to wear each day. Casually I'll only wear 4 shirts & Jeans/shorts during the week and cycle through every 2nd day, getting 2 uses out of each before putting them in the wash. I try and keep my hairstyle in check with modern trends, a simple question to the hairdresser is all that's needed. 3. How do you deal with having your heart broken - do you hole up at home with ice cream & sad movies, or hit the town with your mates?I tend to bottle it up and reflect on what I did to see if I can learn from it, if possible. Sometimes there's just no spark, which as I've gotten older I've been more aware of. I'm not everyones cup of tea, and I'm cool with that. As much as it hurts sometimes :) 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom?Only with serious issues would I discuss my feeling with mates. I tend to talk to the girls at work about most things as I feel they're better to talk to about certain issues. Certainly don't discuss what goes on between the sheets with my mates. Only if they pickup, which is generally followed by a Barney Stinson 'high five' 5. What does being 'romantic' mean to you? How do you show it?Sending a girl flowers, just because. Random spontaneous getaways or secret dates. IE 'put this on and be ready by 7'.Sadly I don't get to do this much, if at all. 6. Is a committed relationship (with babies, white picket fence etc.) something you want/wanted?Maybe one day, I already have a house with a white picket fence though :) 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day? If I'm really keen on someone, then before I fall asleep and the first thing when I wake up. Or whenever my mind wonders from what I'm concentrating on at the time! I think about the person, more than the potential sex, if that makes sense. 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day?Vouchers. Preferably ones for the hobby I'm interested in! 9. Finally, and most importantly - do you even notice what shoes we're wearing??!I try, I honestly do. But if you have more pairs than there are weeks in a year, then it's hard to notice which is which! Cheers :)
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Force_of_Nurture
11 years ago
... 1. Most obvious - do you really think about sex, like, 99% of the time?Not 99%.. about 4 or 5 times an hour.. unless i'm in the presence of a beautiful woman.. then the 99% is probably accurate 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? Do you agonise over what shirt/suit/tie/pair of board shorts/shoes to wear? How do you choose your hairstyle? Do you even care?No agonising.. but i do like to present well .. always think about what i want to look like.. for any given circumstance 3. How do you deal with having your heart broken - do you hole up at home with ice cream & sad movies, or hit the town with your mates?It has been a long time.. but does sitting in my car.. listening to Air Supply (quietly sobbing) count? 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom?I have a couple of mates.. that I sometimes go 'deeper' with .. conversationally .. but unfortunately they both live a fair way away now.. don't have anyone I discuss bedroom antics with 5. What does being 'romantic' mean to you? How do you show it?I like to show .. that I've spent time thinking about.. preparing.. and putting the hard yards into making a woman feel loved.. nurtured.. cared about.. (and desired).. .. my most recent.. is arranging a declaration of love written in flowers on our bed in our resort on arrival .. but a nice meal and a long.. long.. all over body massage always works too (and making it clear that no 'rewards' are expected) 6. Is a committed relationship (with babies, white picket fence etc.) something you want/wanted?Yes 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day?A Lot! 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day?Sexual adventures.. to be with a woman I'm attracted to .. who wants to play.. explore.. push boundaries.. and pleasure-seek all day 9. Finally, and most importantly - do you even notice what shoes we're wearing??!Yes.. i notice.. and occasionally comment... but not nearly as much i imagine.. as the women around me
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Wild_Pagan_Love
11 years ago
Morning glory is also a physiological factor of REM sleep, so odds are the guy has just awoken out of this sleep phase. Not limited to men either - women get wet during REM too.
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RHP User
11 years ago
im kinda amazed that not a single guy that's responded has said they talk to their mates about bedroom antics! There goes that myth! I thought lots of guys talk to each other about it, even if it is just in a drunken conversation. My appologies for that misunderstanding ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The consistency in the answer of how much a man thinks about a woman he likes has blown me away! I never thought that a man would think about a woman. I honestly thought you just think about her when the need of her company arises, not actually think about her on the in between.
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Most obvious - do you really think about sex, like, 99% of the time? There is A LOT of time in the day. So 99% of the time would lead to a very unproductive worker. I would say I do think about it maybe half the time? 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? Do you agonise over what shirt/suit/tie/pair of board shorts/shoes to wear? How do you choose your hairstyle? Do you even care? I like to make sure I look good when I go out, so yes I take my time choosing what I might wear. I might do my hair slightly differently depending on what I'm wearing too, including facial hair. 3. How do you deal with having your heart broken - do you hole up at home with ice cream & sad movies, or hit the town with your mates? As unhealthy emotionally as it may be, when my heart is broken or I am dealing with a break-up I tend to fill my spare time with as much fun sexy times as I can to keep myself distracted. I generally have to stay away from movies and music for a while as there are too many reminders. 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom? I discuss my feelings with my closest friends, but I never discuss the sex life of me and serious partners with my friends. I do tell them about the mischief I get up to with playmates though (without mentioning names) 5. What does being 'romantic' mean to you? How do you show it? Romantic to me means going out of my way to do/say/show things to her that are genuine, heart felt and have the sole intention of making her smile, making her happy or just in general showing how much I appreciate her. I like to be spontaneous when being romantic. Unexpected flowers, unexpected day trips, calling her at 1am just to tell her that I can't get her off my mind etc. 6. Is a committed relationship (with babies, white picket fence etc.) something you want/wanted? Yes. 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day? It depends on which way I am keen. If sexually, then as much as I think about sex until I get to have her again. And then more if it's another hot session. If romantically, I usually cannot get them off my mind at all. 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day? Something I need and would make good use out of. Or a trip away. 9. Finally, and most importantly - do you even notice what shoes we're wearing??! 100% yes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yeah I "fessed up" early in this post, but ended up on PG 3, as not a "IP" yet. Mickelle, I think the seemingly honest and well thought out responses to Q's shows that men do "give a shit" when it comes to ladies, & the shoes thing shows we don't just check out the "chest puppies", but it is a bit difficult at times if a nice cleavage is thrust in our faces, as I said previously, "without boobies and cleavage" the world would be lost. Cheers P.L.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If we where all happy together with our one I'd say no one would be on RHP. In a dating scene you learn to trust cut out all the rubbish . Then engament great your there buy a house unit but do it within your means . You spend time with the one as the have pride in the clothes hair what ever present yourself well you will be noticed. Romantic things not ever about money can be a kiss on the check ask how you are romance when your happy it's not thing we worry gets back to respect your partner . If men think about sex 99% where are stupid don't ever worry about it it's not a footy score how many ppl you bed once respect people sex is sex when it there 2 people know not hard its natural animals are not different to humans all want that mate. Every body cries from a break up men don't admit it but that's men. Men and women will all talk about some ones sex life it's human no lies here it's done with tack if you don't respect that person say nothing that's my view
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can understand why women are curious about the answers to these questions, as women would realise that men have a similar problem trying to them. As for your questions I can only answer for myself as every bloke would have different answers. Q1 - Haha thinking about sex depends on mood - ie horny, happy etc. Situations - ie night at home, at the pub with mates etc. Other factors include relationship status, environment, tiredness, boredom etc, but basically as far as I'm aware sex isn't on my mind as often as you might think lol Q2 - Getting ready/dressed. For me this all depends on the occasion. If I'm just going to the pub for lunch or to a mates place etc then usually I can be shaved, showered, dressed, and out the door in bout 15 minutes lol. More formal occasions take me a bit longer to choose the clothes but I can still be out the door in approximately 20-25 mins (shave, shower, dressed) Q3 - Breakups. This depends on how long I was with the person, how deeply I cared about them etc. But the usual ways of dealing can range from going out an getting blind drunk to shutting down an shutting out the world an becoming a hermit. . . There are probably a couple more but I'm not going into them. Q4 - Sex/partners/mates. This one depends on which mates I'm talking to. As there are some mates that you can talk about anything with and then there are other mates which you would never tell this stuff too. It also depends on the context of the conversation and whether your comparing notes, getting new ideas or advice. Q5 - Romance. Hmmmmmm it all depends on the other person, the situation, how long you've been together, their interests, etc. Can't really answer this one. Q6 - House/kids. For me personally yes that is something that I wanted. I have 2 kids from 2 different relationships. Neither of which worked out the way I had planned, but life is full of ups an downs an throws a couple curve balls every now and again. I'm still hoping for the house and fence etc but I honestly don't think I'll have anymore kids. Q7 - Crush/flirt/object of affection. Hahaha yeah if I'm keen on someone I find myself thinking about them almost constantly lol. Q8 - Father's day/Christmas/birthday. As long as it's from the heart an had a bit of thought put into it, I'm really not fussed what I get. Q9 - Shoes. Lol that depends on what else your wearing with the shoes. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The answer to your question is yes lol. When you connect with that person on a sexual level it's just so intense there's nothing like it. When you know exactly what each other wants without having to tell them it makes a huge difference. It's just amazing lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
1.YES A LOT \2 I consider what I wear/ 3. I DID go out as being at home gives you too much time to think / 4. Yes I do a lot more now then when I was 18/ .. 5. By showing them ie nice meal going out flowers . /6. Yes I have / 7. YesiI do and love it when I get a call or text from her 😘-them/ 8. A night in a motel with lots of sexy gorgeous ppl -time relaxing with family/ 9. It depends I could be blown away by the outfit 😍 .nick - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
1.No as a guy I don't.. however it all depends on the situation. Usually my brain is pretty busy with other thoughts, with work, friends, sport, games etc.If we all thought about sex all the time, we'd have a serious problem and we wouldn't get anything done. Also the context I'm in supports the way I'm feeling too, I'm a bit more of an emotional guy though. As guys, usually we just make dirty comments and leave it at that. 2.Sometimes I care, depends on who I'm seeing. I like to keep my appearance clean and if I can well groomed, my hair has a mind of it's own. I make sure my shirt and pants match with any accessories like a belt and shoes match together too. I feel that if the girls put all that effort into looking beautiful I gotta make an effort too. It really surprises me how I see some well dressed girls with guys that just wear a tshirt, ripped jeans and sneakers at night. But I guess everyone has their flavour. 3.As I said before I'm more of an emotional guy, I haven't been in a relationship for quite a while and the last time I tried to get in one not too long ago she didn't feel the same way. She was cold and I moved on in about a week. But yeah I'd probably want to hole myself up and my confidence would be quite low so it's not likely I'd go out and even if I do I wouldn't want to approach any women. 4.Not all the time, unless we have to. I'd love to have a chick friend to talk to about bedroom activities. 5.Not many words and more actions. Like soft touches, little gestures, doing something meaningful that's not related to sex or well it doesn't have to be :p 6.I did at a younger age. Now not so much, I'm much more busy with my own life. I'd love a committed relationship but with the right person, I really don't want to cheat or be in a relationship just for the sake of it. 7.A few times a day maybe? depends on how busy i am and even more so if they're thinking about me. 8.Good company, you can't buy that. 9.Yes I do :). It's not a deal breaker though, shoes would be something that accentuate your legs and to a lesser extent your feet and i don't even have a foot fetish. Every guy loves something different, and legs do it for me. I'll notice your legs first before your shoes that's for sure.
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RHP User
11 years ago
1 sex? What's that? 2 clothes? As long as I can find something that has fashionable skid marks all is good. 3 heart broken? Don't know as I only have a swinging brick in my chest cavity. 4 feelings? I don't have mates, that's why I'm here, mates fuck each other. 5 romantic? I have a app on my phone with a candle, will that do? 6 commuted relationship? Um, is that why we are here? I have been married several times to the perfect house keepers, they all kept the house so please don't ask about picket fences. 7 when I meet someone keen and thinking about them? That depends on what physical scars they left on me or if they remembers to untie me or not. 8 birthday, Jim beam, Christmas, coke, Father's Day ice. Oh if you could just give me a class or a cup as a love present at some stage that would be sweet too. 9 if I noticed your shoes, you aren't keeping me very interested so pick up your game. Hope this helps - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Most obvious - do you really think about sex, like, 99% of the time?Do you want some? 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? Do you agonise over what shirt/suit/tie/pair of board shorts/shoes to wear? How do you choose your hairstyle? Do you even care?Sure 3. How do you deal with having your heart broken - do you hole up at home with ice cream & sad movies, or hit the town with your mates?Ok, will do it later 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom?Davo picked up the new car today 5. What does being 'romantic' mean to you? How do you show it?If you want to honey 6. Is a committed relationship (with babies, white picket fence etc.) something you want/wanted?Can we talk about this later, I just want to watch this bit. 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day?Do I have to? 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day?Whatever, you choose 9. Finally, and most importantly - do you even notice what shoes we're wearing??!Sorry, did you say something?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would love to enlighten you Elle but.....that's secret men's business :-P
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi Michelle. Great post. Here are my answers. 1. 99% is an exaggeration. But when I'm not working, or I don't have my kids, i.e; down time, it would be around 75% of the time. 2. I dress smart but very simple. Plain white crew tees with a nice black or blue denim jeans is a favourite of mine. 15 minutes to shower, groom and dress. Pretty thoughtless really. I haven't combed/brushed my hair for at least 15 years. Bit of product and quick scruff up after showering is all I do. 3. Having been divorced, I would say it was a bit of a process. A combination of sad nights at home and a few wild nights when the mood struck. 4. I have a few mates that I wouldn't talk to about that stuff. Purely because they are incapable, or there's not enough closeness. And I have a few I can talk to about most things. My little bro being go to. We are able to talk about anything. 5. Romance is an intangible. I do like to spoil a girl. But I have found that most girls love a night where we can just drink, talk, listen, kiss, touch and fuck long into the night. With some music playing in the background. I think it's romantic to give and receive undivided attention and a feeling of total intimacy, body and mind. 6. I had the babies, but the committed relationship didn't survive. So now I'm enjoying the best of both worlds I think. I have half of every week where I'm dad to two little kids. We do all the typical stuff, I love it and my kids are very happy. Then I have the other four nights to work out, drink and dine out, and enjoy some adult company. I'm in no rush to commit. I like the balance of my life. 7. If it's an intense enough attraction I will think and fantasise almost constantly. My mind will just wander without much control. Or resistance haha. 8. New jocks or a good book. Bunnings voucher. If I'm seeing someone, I'd hope the sex is good enough that we don't need to grant sexual favours as a special occasion present. 9. Yes, shoes can give a great curve to a woman's body. And a great insight into their personality too. I will pay attention to a well put together package.
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Most obvious - do you really think about sex, like, 99% of the time?No, that's silly. And it varies a lot. The less busy I am, the more I think about it. 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? Do you agonise over what shirt/suit/tie/pair of board shorts/shoes to wear? How do you choose your hairstyle? Do you even care? I try to look acceptable for the occasion. I hate going clothes shopping and find fashion utterly annoying. 3. How do you deal with having your heart broken - do you hole up at home with ice cream & sad movies, or hit the town with your mates? I talk to my best (female) friend who was my gf 10 years back or so. I may also have a chat with a good male friend. 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom? Yes. 5. What does being 'romantic' mean to you? How do you show it? Trying to make her feel special and relaxed. I took a girl to the Yarra Valley for the weekend where I rented a cottage with a nice secluded outdoor spa... 6. Is a committed relationship (with babies, white picket fence etc.) something you want/wanted? Yes if the relationship develops that way. 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day? That varies - how busy am I with other stuff.. how much we interact.. 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day? I don't care much about presents.. The best ones would be my partner organising a night out or a trip somewhere. 9. Finally, and most importantly - do you even notice what shoes we're wearing??! Yes, if they are thigh high fuckme boots. Otherwise I REALLY don't care and have no idea why women are obsessed about shoes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
First of all guys like women are all different.I have spent most times building cars so sex I would say 40%.How I dress and look, well I don't follow fashion but dress presentable.Heart broken, mope around the home and get little done.Chat to well I have more female friends so I tend to chat to them.I tend to do new things or ambient locations and as for the sex partI tend to be daring and unusual.The picket fence. After I was 40 I wanted but never found it so I wentback to being Dominant.Think about a person hell yeah. Even after we split 5 years ago theycome into mind at least 2 days a week.Birthday/fathers day. Why only then I make my partner special all the time not just events.What she is wearing... Hell yeah, all the time and clothes I would like to see her in.
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RHP User
10 years ago
1. Most obvious - do you really think about sex, like, 99% of the time? 2. When it comes to clothes/fashion/hairstyles/ shoes etc. what's your thought processes when getting dressed for work or to go out? Do you agonise over what shirt/suit/tie/pair of board shorts/shoes to wear? How do you choose your hairstyle? Do you even care? 3. How do you deal with having your heart broken - do you hole up at home with ice cream & sad movies, or hit the town with your mates? 4. Do you talk about your feelings to your mates? Do you discuss your girlfriends/partners/wives and what you get up to in the bedroom? 5. What does being 'romantic' mean to you? How do you show it? 6. Is a committed relationship (with babies, white picket fence etc.) something you want/wanted? 7. When you meet someone that you're really keen on, how often do you think about her/him during the day? 8. What do you really want for your Birthday/Christmas/Father's day? 9. Finally, and most importantly - do you even notice what shoes we're wearing??! 1. no 2. for me im not fussy on what i wear as long as i look neat n tidy. 3. for me i think about it a for a few hours im a emotional guy so yes i have a cry but i get over it and move on I dont have any mates to seek council with. 4. if I had male friends i would seek advice but not what it was regarding to, and no i would never tell my male friends what i got up to in my bedroom with my partner im a private person. 5. if im a stay at home man or working after work i would make my partner a coffee and chat with her about her day, on random days buy something to show my love, shit tonne of hugs n kisses do my best to cook dinner for her although im not really good cook but i would try. 6. yes i want a relationship long term goals are to have a wife few sons, a place i can call my own and a job i enjoy doing 7. several times a day 8. have no fucken idea lol when i see it ill let ya know 9. yes from watching docos and reading about it use of high heels on a regular basis is not good for your feet nor is a overloaded hand bag for your back.
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