RHP’s unwritten rules

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  ozrocks

  6 years ago

  The first and most important, is; NEVER ask about the unwritten rules.

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  Dirtyandfriendly

  6 years ago

  One of my unwritten rules is always expect them not to show. Have a back up plan in case. If they do show awesome, if not at least you can still do something. I guess another is meet them before planning or doing anything. Worst thing you can do is plan and pay for whatever it is your doing and you get ghosted. It happens so always meet before anything. This goes for your own safety too

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  MsSuperFoxy

  6 years ago

  Expect the unexpected with no expectations or pressure. If one is in a good healthy mind set, the waters are crystal clear and one can see past all the bullshit. What's trash to one is treasure to another. I'm blessed as I have found my treasure. Ms Foxy

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  MsSuperFoxy

  6 years ago

  Safety first before anything. Also includes putting ones self first before others. 👌 Ms Foxy

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  AnnieWhichway

  6 years ago

  Remove all expectation and desperation from your thinking. Desperation removal you say? We all start with a desperation for this lifestyle to work. To justify the effort, the adrenaline, the unknown, the nervousness. As a couple you are desperate for your partner to approve, to have a fantastic time, to validate the effort to inflate each other. Having been in here for a while, my attitude is very lax. It works so much better when it's not a serious event and when it goes pear shape you really don't give a fuck. Easier as a couple because you still have each other. As a single it takes a while to accept it all for what it is.

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  teamaj2

  6 years ago

  Kinky minky Great profile name !! We’ve been on here for awhile now and met some great people and learnt a lot . Firstly , I’d say ‘go with your gut instinct ‘ . If someone feels NQR , follow that feeling and not met up and cease chatting . Be cautious . Safety is paramount . I agree always meet up first for a drink or coffee with no expectations. Have fun !! Having a good time in play is about being relaxed and enjoying yourselves . If someone seems full of drama , is intense or not quite what you seek , let it go . Our advice would be quality over quantity . Goodluck on RHP . A and J

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  On_Safari

  6 years ago

  And if your guts are churning (spidey-like sense) listen to them. Never commit to anything other than an opportunity to meet and greet others, no expectations, no disappointments. Treat the site as you would any business networking opportunity, be social but also be discerning. You don’t want to invite crazy into your life unless it’s fun crazy not stalker crazy. Safety first and foremost always. Sometimes the nicest folk here have the worst photos....generally the worst profile write ups are an accurate reflection of the individual behind the written words. Go to the social meet & greets if you can, they’re terrific opportunities to meet others in a social setting. Happy New Year!! ~ Indy

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