M44
Racism?
November 30 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
Really?........ It’s not always about race or skincolour and sad you bring that up actually. I’m brown skinned and there is no lack off interest. Put yourself out there, interact and most of all don’t play the victim, we are all adults here. Good luck.
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RHP User
8 years ago
You don't have many pictures and you profile basically says you're cocky and up for a root. There are thousands of profiles like yours and a very limited number of single girls. You need to make your profile stand out. Playing the victim card won't work here. The women of this group don't owe you nothing and I have female friends who are very attracted to brown men. It's got nothing to do with the colour of your skin
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
that if people, on here, are not attracted to you, that it is because they are “white” and therefore racist ? You wrote “ the reason ....is the white colour “ Then in your profile wording you write : “And please don’t be Racist and try new things may be you going to love what I have” If we were you, we would remove all reference to “racist / racism “ from your profile. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Mate, it can take months to get a look-in no matter the ethnicity. I went back to being a guest on here months ago as I had not one nibble, not a one. Had success on other sites with much the same profile so I think RHP is a bit peculiar. I think RHP exists in a kind of vague region, it is neither strictly a ''traditional'' or ''romantic'' site, nor is it a ''sex site'' (actually I would argue that it is, just look at the home page and how sex talk predominates, but I have had strips torn off me in the past for that suggestion). The success I have had in other arenas are those that are more specific Take your profile for instance, which I haven't looked at. You will get women speak up on here and trash your profile, yet others will say it is fine. These people are coming at it from opposite ends of the spectrum I think. For the romantics, if your profile doesn't say enough about you and whether you like long walks on the beach then your profile is garbage. Yet if you changed your profile others would argue that you are wearing your heart on your sleeve a little too much, ''not enough about what you want'', "this is a sex site after all". My only advice is to compile your profile to what you are comfortable with, don't profess to being or liking anything that you aren't or don't. It will either work for you or it wont. The rest is just down to luck, how attractive or otherwise that you are (and you look like a pretty handsome, well-presented dude). At least you have a good profile pic, facepics aren't that common here. And now, it is time for me to kick back and be waitin' for the hatin' for my suggestion that this is a sex site.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Race my friend. Be like the rest of us and keep trying. Heaps of members(pardon the pun) on this site.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yeah it's really difficult to guage what's the best profile to use. And some will trash you no matter what.With mine I've tried to give a reflection of my personality, I'm confident but I don't take myself too seriously and I try and be as down to earth as possible. Hopefully that'll attract similar people who I'd actually want to hang out with.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don’t take this site seriously tbh. I was just getting views of others. I have my life and I am busy in studying. Maybe it came as I was being serious but I wasn’t. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Is this one of those guys you know? Lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Put it this way .. Walk into a large room consisting of about 1000 men.. Add 1 maybe 2 women and wait and see what happens.. Chances are nothing is going to happen.. In other words , you're in the same boat as every other man and his dog... Seriously ' that's what your facing , it has nothing to do with race or colour ... It's a lottery , that's all there is to it..
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'ati201' I don’t take this site seriously tbh. I was just getting views of others. I have my life and I am busy in studying. Maybe it came as I was being serious but I wasn’t. - Posted from rhpmobile Wouldn't go around claiming not to be serious when you head up a topic with ''racism'', my friend. Racism is a big deal in Australia, a real hot-button topic that gets emotions running high.
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
You received great advice. You didn't like the honest advice that you asked for. So then you threw your toys out the pram. After reading this forum and your profile it's certainly not your colour that's a turn off.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Enough don't you think?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Is a charity fuck to prove we’re not racists. Good luck with that. 👎
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RHP User
8 years ago
so if someone isn't attracted to 'brown' they are racist??... your attitude is unattractive
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RHP User
8 years ago
What race is "bland profile"?
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RHP User
8 years ago
WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!I was one of the women you approached.The fact that I knocked you back and mind you I was extremely polite and even thanked you for message, does not mean that I am racist.I am deeply offended that someone would even dare call me that.It had absolutely nothing to do with your race I am just not attracted to you.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'd say your lack of success has zero to do with your 'skin colour', and everything to do with your profile. It's terrible... and just like hundreds of others on here, it's all about what YOU want, and says nothing about what you have to offer a potential playmate. You come across as selfish and entitled, and this forum post (including your response to people's replies)' does nothing to dispel that.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Me Sydney hitting up Mrs Coffs Harbour... Hmmm that’s about a 8-10hr drive... Long way to go for a coffee and tart hahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was told once you try black, you never go back. Lol. Just because you ask doesn’t mean women will say yes. Not sure what it’s like in Dubai but my personal experience of travelling in the Middle East is that perception that white women always say yes.
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RHP User
8 years ago
...qualified and quantified yourself, OP. You get what you put out and the vibe of this post is tragic. Curtain call, exist stage left and....fade to black!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I’d go one further... Women there are programmed to need a man.... Women here are programmed to rely only on themselves... This gives them choice which he’s clearly not.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
if your message to me is similar to what you write to other ladies...then that's the reason you aren't getting 'lucky' certainly nothing to do with race..its all your attitude!
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RHP User
8 years ago
but your profile is making me want to run and hide
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lookin4lady
8 years ago
race has nothing to do with it . I am apart of a mixed race couple we have no problems finding play mates here or elsewhere it comes down to your attitude. Your playing of the race card so quickly after joining is borderline racist in my opinion just because you have a cock between your legs does not mean all white girls want to ride it we have choices here in AUS we choose who we sleep with. And yes I have met equally as any many racist of both colour regarding mine and my husbands relationship
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RHP User
8 years ago
Coffee and tart 😂😂 Love that lmao
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yep 🙄 Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Lets all scream "racism" because we are not getting what we want! This word is SOOO over used now days! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I wouldn't know about that. I was just speaking about my actual experiences from traveling through parts of the Middle East.
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IMTHAMAN72
8 years ago
interesting indeed
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