Really disappointed in the couples

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  Finally someone who knows what she is talking about and not full of shit. I congratulate you for explaining that so well and being the most truthful ,down to earth person on this whole dam site world we search inn. Yep CLYDE did our Ad.....say no more.

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  Guys I think you are right but only to a point. I (Ms L) think it is much easier for guys to see another woman’s pics and think .. I want to have sex with her.. than it is for a woman to see a guys pics and feel the same way. We have found when we meet with couples it is rare for both of us to be attracted to the other couple at the same time. Whereas usually the guy can perform anyway, the woman if not attracted to the man is faced with either pulling the pin on the whole event or else playing a little with the woman only. I think you are right in that there are many couples looking for single girls and that they often will meet couples with only interest in the woman of the pair but this is not always the case - I just think it is tougher for a girl to feign interest in a man than vice versa. Another quick point .. I think it is great to discuss all of this as it is a real problem .. most of the couples on the board will rely heavily (as do we) on photos of their gorgeous woman rather than both of them. They do this as it works - pics of guys are not often attractive - and the aim of your profile here is to generate interest. I guess it then makes sense though, if these are the only pics seen, that couples can meet up being sold on each other’s woman and suddenly not be interested in the guy. We have reached the point now where we won’t meet up with any other couples until we sight pics of Mr and only then if we both think that ’he’ will be attractive enough for me ’Ms L’ to want to play with. Otherwise there really isnt any point - sounds shallow but lets face it we are talking about a physical interaction not really an emotional one.

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  I think lustbirds have hit the nail on the head there, glad others feel the same way too. I’m prob quite lucky though, my man is fine with having minimal involvement with another single fem, if everyone feels right. So if any single f is reading this and not "full if shit" lol, than damn well stop fu*king about and let’s start fu*king!!!! ;) Gotta keep ur sense of humour!

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  I COULD NOT AGREE WIT YOU MORE, MEN UNFORTUNATELY WERE BORN WITH 2 HEADS AND USUALLY THINK WITH THE SMALL ONE CLOSEST TO THE GUTTER. LOLOL THIS LEADS TO SEX WITH WHO-EVER , WHEN-EVER, BUT WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT, WE NEED TO FEEL SOME SORT OF ??? TO THE PERSON WE WANT TO HAVE A SEXUAL FLING WITH. BUT NOT TO WORRY WE SEEM TO FIND A WAY USUALLY. ANYWAY WE LIVE JUST ON THE EDGE OF GYMPIE AND ARE LOOKING OR SOME FUN.. ANY TAKERS.

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  Then again Fleur we sent a message to you and didn’t even get a "thanks but no thanks " What annoys us is the lack of courtesy

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  We are a bi couple but that dosent mean we have to play that way. I find it disapointing that people think just because we are bi that all our incounters have to be that way. If the chemistry is there then comunication and honesty is the next requirement. Its the basis for any relationship wether it be purely physical or other wise. We actualy wish to make freinds first, with a veiw to play later and our sexual preference should not hinder that in any way. We also find it frustrating that a large number of people (couples and singles alike) dont even have the comon courtasy to send a reply, especialy when they only have to click the reply button and type a few words. We reply to all who contact us including flirts. We work on a principle of "no expectations, No disapointments" If you realy think you can tell what a man or women is like from a photo then you are probably fooling yourself or your pritty shallow. If its not worth having a coffee with some one, how are you going to gauge if you wont to take it further. We have looked at couples pics befor and thought yuk, then aranged to meet them any way, only to find it was an old pic and they were realy nice people. We have also met with good looking couples that turned out to be arseholes. If you wotn to meet nice people you have to make the effort and play the numbers game. the only way to tell is by talking face to face, and being honest about what you like and dislike.

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  RHP User

  21 years ago

  Thanks for all those replies, didn’t mean to stir up things. However some points to those who have answered. We try and answer all but yes some slip through. I do not however feel it necessary to answer when what we have described as our request eg clean shaven men or straight guys that with the many emails it is bad manners not to reply if they are completely the opposite to what we stated. The other point made by lustbirds which I agree with and follow, is that we meet only with exchange of facial pics and even then it all depends on how the meeting goes.What may follow either on that night( which is rare) or at a later date depends on that meeting, not on the pics but they certainly get us to the first stage. One thing we make quite clear if we get to the stage where we all agree on an intimate arrangement it is after great deal of thought from all parties, including single guys. This then avoids a situation of not feeling enthusiastic about being with the guy, or the woman. Lastly we hope people are enjoying what ever they do, and who ever with just remember not to leave the one you love out in the cold so to speak.The primary relationship IS what it is all about. Cheers Fleur

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