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Redhotpie
April 22 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was on another site similar to this one for a yr. A few ppl I had met said they were on pie as well and mentioned you could have friends, validations,travel alerts and also had a forum that was interactive. So I popped over and signed up 2 yrs ago. I have been a member for most of that time, but have recently let my membership expire and am back to a guest. Have had a recent name change from Willow.😎 What Ive learnt from my experience is mainly about myself. Ive changed course so many times and found some new experiences that fascinated me enough to want to indulge myself in them. So its been a very liberating ongoing experience for me. No regrets, but a few things I wouldnt do again. Lots I would. All the best with your new girlfriend TG.😃
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RHP User
10 years ago
I can't remember how I found this site. I have been a member/guest for about 6 years. I have learnt a lot about different sexual techniques from the forums. Actually the forums are what keep me here. Mostly they are informative and amusing. I have met some nice people and I had met some players. But mostly I like the openness of RHP and the fact that sex is not a forbidden subject.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Internet search for a root bought me here nearly 2 years ago. It has changed my life and lifestyle. I realised anything is possible and a lot of people are accepting and more genuine than the friends i used to have.
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RHP User
10 years ago
1. I found out about RHP at a Tupperware party....true story lol. And after having joined another site where the first match they sent me was my ex....well after throwing my arms up in the air and going "you've got to be fucking joking!" I thought it couldn't be much worse lol and joined up. 2. I have been on & off here for... Hmm lets see. A bit over 2 years. I hang about these days mostly for the forums. At times my face is like this 😳 And on Occassion this 😮 I should have done this at times 🤐 But my fave is this 😜 But that ones for in person...hhmmm might explain why they run away screaming 😀 3. I have learnt that I have led quite the sheltered vanilla life. Who knew there was more to sex than a 3 minute wonder fuck on a Sunday morning! I've also had to google bukkake....I don't know if I will ever recover from those images...but then perhaps I shouldn't have added gangbang to the end of it....and then there's dogging.....so it's not jogging with the dogs? Thank god! Who wants to jog anyway?!?! And then there's the friends that I've made 😀 Luvs ya all.... In a non committed sexy wet way 😉 RR 💋💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
A friend suggested it to me for "a laugh" when I became single. She was shocked when I signed up. Ive been one here for 2 and a half years now. What have I learned? That no matter what our sexuality labels us, we are all still human beings with personalities and feelings. So a fairly vanilla me now has a bi FWB, friends who are straight, bi,gay, transexual and TV, CD and everything else. Although I think there should be no labelling. I prefer "Experimental" if there had to be a word for being sexually open. And I love it. The friends Ive made are all special to me and have brought me out of my shell. Ive been to swingers clubs and private parties. Done a few things I would have never considered before and liked it, and learned what "pegging " "sounding" and "rosebudding" mean! At the grand old age of 52 Im happier than ever before with my sex life and social life. Im so looking forward to the National M and G in October and meeting some more RHPers from all over the country xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Google I am going to regret this.....😂
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's interesting to read about other's journeys. I was on another dating site that suggested I'd be best matched to my former bff's husband as she ran off with mine (awkward) I met a few men: a stalker, one that proposed in a week..... I was venting at work and my boss suggested RHP. That was two and a half years ago. Recently became a paid member, I like the option to message who I like but prefer a bit of mystery for the pics.... I have met so many wonderful people through the site, some I genuinely consider close friends now. My experiences have awakened me sexually. I have learned about and tried many things I would never have dreamed of in my previous vanilla life. I am also looking forward to more exciting experiences in my new relationship 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am now traumatised lololol 😳
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry...... sure sounds pretty but thats so not the case!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Googling Redcliffe dogging , tripped over Red Hot Pie and the forums. That was four years ago ..Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
My ex sister inlaw led me here Five and a half years I learnt loads about my own sexuality and others. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Found out about RHP through the advertisement about 10 years ago on TV during the night. One of my co-workers brought in their laptop and had to use the data by the end of the night or lose it. So we checked it out. As I was single at the time I was the person who set up the profile. Wasn't meant to be serious but just a group of girls having a nosy. So the initial profile was genuine but the motive was not. As I was a another dating site at the time I spotted the guy id been chatting to. When we met the conversation was very enlightening. But scary. Wasn't my scene at the time and so I closed the profile and left it alone. Last year after becoming single again I decided I was ready to explore. And so logged back in. Same log in, user name-can not believe I remembered it!!! Updated the profile and have never looked back. Love the forums(mostly), attended the meet and Greet in October, have been a chat occasionally,met some great people on here. had some fun and learnt a lot about myself. Will continue to use RHP for many reasons for a long time to come yet. Hope your all enjoying your weekend.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' My ex sister inlaw led me here ... home now? ℳ₢
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was errrrh herrrm married and just came in for a squizzy peak found where all the naughty people hang out and found my new home
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RHP User
10 years ago
more specifically, the forum is what I found first, picked up some great tips
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RHP User
10 years ago
1) How did you find out about Redhotpie? To RHP: A lover asked me to join to validate him. Adult sites in general: I wanted to experience sex with couples, and a sex club, and a friend suggested it 2) How long have you been a member/guest on here for? About 18months. Not all of them active though. Member just a few months, but will let my membership lapse. 3) What have you learnt/experienced about this lifestyle? That there can be successful open relationships, and swingers. Don't ask a man if he is willing to kiss another man, to assess if he'd be willing to have some bi-play in a threesome. Chemistry with more than one person at the same time in a threesome, is diabolically difficultKinky doesn't necessarily mean open-minded. Some personal things that I need and don't need for at FWB to workPersonal chemistry and sexual chemistry can be mutually exclusive :/Boys with toy collections tend to be fun :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I saw RHP advertised at a swingers club i went to About 5 months Lots! and still every day my eyes are open to even more new things. I find it all quite fascinating
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RHP User
10 years ago
and a bit over a year for me
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RHP User
10 years ago
A friend told me about RHP after I encountered some weird wackos on another vanilla dating site. I've been here since August 2012. I got my first oral, rimming, pegging, MFM, anal, DVP, sex toy, shower sex, spa bath sex, outdoor sex, nude beach experience, boat group sex experience, and much more.... Not all in one go, of course but wowee! I've learned so much, especially from reading the forums. My experiences have far exceeded my expectations and my dreams, and I have found the greatest lover and loving man who is now a part of my life. I have a lot more I want to learn and experience, but I'm in no rush and am enjoying every moment of it with him holding my hand and guiding me every step of the way. - Posted from rhpmobile
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nattyocean
10 years ago
lol damn curiousity has killed this cat!!!! Rosebudding??? How does that even have a name!!!! Wow - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yep, wishing I could unlearn that.
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RHP User
10 years ago
...my ex had decided we should break up and I was feeling pretty down in general. My boss at the time, quite thoughtfully felt that I needed some meaningless sex to make me feel better and suggested this site that he had used occasionally. Bless him... 😆 At first, it was easier than I expected...but the sex didnt make me feel better for long. But it turned out that the forums and its personalities interested me more in general. Kind of like an R-rated Facebook. Nothing is gospel or a bucket list you must do before you die to reach heaven. Take what you want from it and leave what doesn't interest you.
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sweetgem
10 years ago
1) I saw it advertised on TV (TV in my hotel room that is) while I was holidaying in Melbourne three years ago. This leads to my answer for #2. 2) I have been on RHP for three years, but wasn't always a member. 3) The things that I've learned about this lifestyle are: - I can be ME sexually without being judged nor criticised ✌🏼️ - I've learned about my sexuality, sexual interests, fantasies and desires 💪🏽 - I can actually find some casual company without having to fork out an arm or a leg to hire a service 😋 - I don't have to have sex with people I like and respect in order to make real and genuine friends with them 😝 - I've learned so much about sex; enhanced my knowledge on different types of relationship; and expanded my sexual horizons since I arrived at RHP 👍🏼 - I've built a strong protecting wall for myself and developed good lies detecting skill when someone tries to BS with me 😝👊🏼 - I've improved to become an even better person over the years that I've been on RHP 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
A vanilla husband. Go figure? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
back in 2007 by a married couple who I knew well . I went to Uni with both of them. Over dinner one night they casually announced that they were swingers. After I stopped choking, cause I had no idea, I asked them how they went about meeting other swingers and they told me about this site. So I came and had a browse. I stayed for about 18 months and eventually met my ex husband on here. We didn't work out for a myriad of reasons, but none related to this site. I rejoined earlier this year. I've learned heaps from reading the forums, sexually and otherwise I do smile when people call it "just a sex site". Its a site that can be whatever it wants to be when people met off it successfully. When I met my hubby I certainly didn't expect that meeting to end up in marriage two years later and I'm pretty sure he didn't either. I was looking at a guys profile some time ago and found that I was friends with him back in circa 2007 . My old profile from 2007 is still on his friends list. For the life of me I cant remember the password to get into it to close it and I closed down the original linking email years ago, so it appears my original profile will stay here like forever. It was a interesting read though. The change in attitude towards men and life from your late 20's to your late 30's. I think I'm better now
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RHP User
10 years ago
1. Girlfriend introduced me after she knew I hadn't had sex in years. 2. Couple of years, not active anymore. 3. Learnt can't treat people as pawns to get what u want. It hurts when it's done to u. Learnt that there r beautiful people out there who are hurting and search for happiness in wrong places :) but everyone has there own journey so good luck . - Posted from rhpmobile
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