Risky sex - debate

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  MrandMrsEss

  8 months ago

  Risqué/risky is always going to add to excitement but this has to be balanced with safety. Ideally we enjoy life without doing too many things that cause us lingering damage.

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  boobsandbusted

  8 months ago

  Risk versus reward and the reward ain’t worth the risk for us ,but each to their own

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  RHP User

  8 months ago

  The interesting thing about all your examples is they can be sexually risky and enjoyable if it is your thing. At the same time all examples fall into abuse if not a sexual pleasure

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  EarthQueen

  8 months ago

  1. As long as you're not subjecting others to your sexual acts without their consent it's fine. Keep it private and away from other people. Have respect for others and don't be a creep. 2. Nope unless it's your long term or ongoing partner and you have both been tested. Experience has taught me not to trust men to tell the truth so it's a no from me for anyone who I'm not in a relationship with. 3. If it's consensual and you're not harming someone or inflicting lasting damage. Also see below on the informed consent part. Just because someone says they want it . Doesn't mean you should do it. It depends on their mental state at the time. It also depends on your mental state because if you do something that feels out of line with your personal values or you've been coerced to do it it will have an ongoing impact. If you feel hesitation or unsure about participating I think that's your body saying put the brakes on. 4. Possibly OK as long as it's discussed including mutual boundaries. The dehumanisation part seems a bit extreme. I also think you need to consider the other person's ability to give informed consent. Are they in a well place to give it? Are they vulnerable? It has moral issues and ethical issues that must be considered because you have the ability to inflict ongoing harm. I personally have found many people looking for casual sex aren't always in the best head space.( I was one of them). It might be after a break up or they might have other issues. That makes them sometimes not able to make the best decisions for themselves. A good person doesn't take advantage of this for their own gain. 5. No idea but probably the same as above.

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  Flirty2020

  8 months ago

  We take our health & safety seriously. We also do not like to impose nor subject others to our sexual acts without their prior consent. It’s all about risk versus reward. Unfortunately for us, the perceived rewards are not worth the risks.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  8 months ago

  I’m all for supporting exhibitionists, kinks what ever in the right spaces, but not when it spills into public areas where consent is removed or where it degrades others or violates one's space they require. I understand exhibitionists sexually get off on people's reactions because exposing genitals/sexuall acts in public is so taboo and in a lot of cases against the law. The thrill is fantasy to reality. I certinally will not support any kinks that use accessible toilets/spaces those with disabilities require or places children might be. It is unacceptable to put other person/s or children in any risky situations to selfishly fulfil ones sexual desires. That’s not debatable or thrill-seeking. That’s just disrespect dressed up as risk. Ms Foxy

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  Inflation

  8 months ago

  Hmm, yeah getting arrested wasn't part of the plan..lol

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  Alex_Lover

  8 months ago

  While waiting for a coffee meet with a Dom, we were keen to connect with. My girlfriend and I had sex in the loos. No risky sex with the Dom as yet though 😱 - Alex

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  nightingale8

  8 months ago

  I’m not into risk so much as I’m into novelty. And novelty can reach into the taboo or pushing beyond societal expectations. It’s the seeking of pleasure through connection and adventure. Some might call that “risky” (I don’t). Risqué, definitely. Risky sex I think means combining sex with negative feelings - fear of getting caught or losing everything, shame and moral disgust, hurting yourself or potentially hurting others (eg through indecent exposure), even jealousy. None of that really works for me. I guess the line of how much harm one thinks is tolerable in search of sexual gratification is up for debate. Generally I have a low tolerance for harming others and myself

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  Blueflamingo

  8 months ago

  As a single woman, I take a risk everytime I meet someone new, because you never know who you will meet. Yes, its exciting, but its also scary opening yourself up to a stranger. I have been in unpleasant situations where I felt unsafe and regret meeting someone, even just for a drink. Therefore, risky sex is not something I need a lot of to keep my life exciting and to feel the buzz. If I was to do such thing, it would only be with someone I could trust 100%. There are many ways to enjoy life and "have a good time".

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  RHP User

  7 months ago

  This is a highly individual thing. For some of us using the confined space for an urgent quickie is exhilarating, while for others, it's just not worth the effort. So seeking a generic classification system will be highly dependent on the individual.. For me getting caught, playing in a space / time where people in authority are unaware has a sense of getting away with something naughty - this is a thrill.

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