RHP

RHP User

M72 F65

Rules of engagement

September 15 2007

sex

Hi all, Having had a few contacts both here and in other places, we have developed some 'rules of engagement'. These are rules that we have found make us and our playmates feel more comfortable and secure, so we were wondering what your 'rules of engagement are'? Some rules like safe sex are common sense, but there are some other less obvious rules we adhere to, like always meeting on neutral ground. So, tell us, what are your rules? We might all learn something!!

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    WE DON'T PLAY with anybody, male or female, that's in a relationship, unless their partner is playing as well or is aware of what they are doing. We are looking for people to compliment our life, not complicate it. We correspond with our new friends over a few emails or messages on this site. A picture at some point before meeting is important. Next a chat online maybe, then on the phone, where we agree to meet. We are not into JUST messaging, we do want action. This first phone call will be female to female, so once again if there isn't one, and the other party is not being honest, they will get caught out on this hurdle. Then it’s face to face, Abode or Wet on Wellington is the best, we have found and everything will be just fine. In fact we only meet new people in a sexy venue now. If they are real then this won’t be a problem. At the meeting, we’ll find each others’ stories, jokes and wit funny, we’ll all be thinking about what it might be like to see each other naked or in sexcessories and how to do sexsensual, erotic and dirty things to one another. We then all go to our separate homes feeling very positive, talking about each other and probably have outrageous sex with our own partners. Now of course, if we are meeting at a swinging venue then we may play on our first meeting, we may not be able to hold each other back. Let's face it the experience should have made us horny. We can plan to meet again for a night of adult entertainment, read, sex. At the next meet, we all get our appetites fully sated and the following day nothing can annoy us and we walk around with a smile, luxurious hair and a hard-on, if our experience is anything to go by. And who knows....it might be so good we all might have to do it again and again. Is that a multiple orgasm?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 years ago

    Thanks for the reply squirtergirl, you seem to have some sound strategies in place. I particularly like the female to female conversation early in the contact sequence. Like you, we are not into messaging, it seems that most of the time wasters want to message and not much else. We also like the emphasis on sensuality rather than 'groundhog day' physical encounters. Meeting in a sexy location is a great idea. We find that a good experience does wonders for our sex life and our main problem for the week after is physical fatigue and getting our hands on all the vitamin E we can find. We, like you, never play with anyone not in a secure relationship as we have had some disappointments with couples trying to solve their problems by experimenting (with us). Life for us is a multiple orgasm and we truely enjoy sharing it with others from time to time. Thanks again for your thoughts.