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Safest way to have another for 3some

July 25 2009

Hi, we are wanting to experience another male around while we have sex, male here is str8. Since we have never done this before we would like them to watch, they can self play, but she would not be comfortable yet to have sex with them? They could look at her up close, lying on the bed legs wide etc. Is this wrong or dangerous to have a male turned on but not allowed to have sex with the female? Can you trust them not to help themselves as the female would be easy access and they could be in in seconds if they forced themselves? ( she lying there naked, legs open them looking etc.) or if you went off to the toilet? How do you know the safe, friendly, nice guy from the "as soon as she is naked going to try and get a piece"? I know this is a hard (silly) question but people that have tried this must have a few tricks up their sleave. Thanks

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16 years ago

That'd be my advice, Watertimes. Chat with the prospective guy . . . get a feel for 'who' they are and what their anticipations of involvement are. Do they seem disciplined and respectful to you? At the end of the day, though, I reckon you'll find -- whatever winds up transpiring -- that it was your initial gut instincts that proved on the money. (I'd be pretty much prepared to give you a written guarantee that I'd play by your rules for instance). All the best with it

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RHP User

16 years ago

If you are wanting to find a guy to play with a great place to try would be our Meet & Greet nights. At Attunga we have a number of private rooms, so you can meet and have a chat with a number of guys around our bar and if you find someone that is suitable you can go to a PRIVATE ROOM. Anyway just a thought. R&T

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16 years ago

We had similar concerns and decided that our best option was to do a naughty photo shoot done by a professional outfit and requested a male photographer... This served more than one purpose for us. We got to fulfil a fantasy of being watched and photographed as well as her fantasy of having another guy 'up close' without the pressure of physical contact.. This broke the ice and more importantly gave my wife the confidence in herself to make the next step. Hope this helps

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16 years ago

Thanks JNK4more and sounds good, if you like send us an email as we are only standard members and can only reply

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16 years ago

If you would prefer to gently ease into the idea of a threesome, then by all means take time to find the 'right' person (whoever that may be). Go to the social scenes, meet prospective participants in a non-erotic location first and get to know them a little better. Then you can progress to a more secluded (but safe) location and so on. The photography idea is great, I never would've thought of that - great thinking, JNK4more! :) -Mrs. Bi

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