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Saying "Love you but I want to fuck someone else right now."

January 27 2024

Has anyone told their partner they'd just rather go and fuck someone else right now? How hard was it to start the conversation, manage their reaction, explain the honest reason behind it? Abs and I started doing this a while ago and we talk through the reasons and the understanding is there. It's also not one-way. Is that a conversation that's too taboo for some couples or has anyone else had these kind of difficult conversations with their partners when in open relationships?

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nightingale8

2 years ago

Never like that 🤣 It’s a tricky line because for many, sex is an expression of love. While it can be for me sex is definitely, and for the vast majority of the time, an expression of desire. Love, friendship, bonding is a whole other level. I think it hurt my partner the first time I raised it. I’m not sure I ‘managed’ it but it was ok. And, well, it’s true. You can have perfection in front of you and then still fantasise about bonking the sundried neighbour next door. Because desire is all about distance I believe

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BungCpl

2 years ago

Not in those words, but yes. Mrs NvC know's very well that if she was ever in a position where she meets someone she would like to go fuck, then all she needs to do is call or message me to let me know what is happening.

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Saying "Love you but I want to fuck someone else right now."

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