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Secret Sexy Society?
April 22 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think, that all depends on how much you know you can trust your friend to keep your private life private. Maybe try testing the waters with comments or questions that don't implicate yourselves. I dunno, ask if she'd be interested in internet dating or find out if she wants to try one-night stands and NSA fun, or if she believes that sex is only something done in a full-on relationship between people who love each other. If she really is conservative, she may just run a mile if you introduce her to the site. If you think she'd be interested, maybe mention casually that sites like this do exist. You don't necessarily have to let the cat out of the bag about yourselves to do it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think given that she has already talked to you about her desire for it, and the reasons for the relationship ending, you ought to be pretty safe discussing it?It just comes down to whether or not you believe you can trust her with your secrets. It seems like she is quite trusting of you. Maybe try just easing into the conversation, throw out some feeler questions to let you see her response without giving too much away. "Have you seen those ads on late night tv for dating sites? maybe you should try one of those?' etc, etc.
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RHP User
13 years ago
^ note the (personally) bit... Having grown up in a conservative world, and eventually finding that I am far less conservative than *them*.... I only wish that someone had shown me that a world existed outside my own, many years before... If you can be that person, for someone, it is an amazing feeling. If you can't... yes, it can be the end of a friendship. It can also set someone(s) free... :) *hugs*
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RHP User
13 years ago
Have you seen those ads on late night tv for rhp, why don't we see if we can find you someone. You don't have to reveal your own presence.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would say dont tell...
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MasterBilly
13 years ago
just tell her you in it to and you got the best time of your life . she will like it if she like sex as you say she do and life is to short .I only wish that someone had shown me that a world existed outside my own, many years before...
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RHP User
13 years ago
" don't shit in your own back yard!" I would say its too close to home . Best to keep those 2 parts of your life separate . Anyway just because she's missed sex and is looking forward to getting back into it doesn't mean rhp is the right place for her . I think people who enjoy encounters with liberate people on rhp will find it on there own if thats what they are really that interested in ! Would hate for you to tell her and it come bite you in the arse , you don't know what the future holds! Any way that means less men for you !! Hehe Xx mrs Cock_Suckers
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jafuncpl1903
13 years ago
yo can take her out clubbing and see what she like when out with lot ppl and then just ask if she ever heard about ppl doing this life
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RHP User
13 years ago
that many people here think so called vanilla sites wont provide them with what they are looking for,but I have found the one with the pool and the camels in the desert to be not quite so vanilla. Suggest that to her and help her put a profile together.Heaps of people on here are hanging about in the desert too btw. This way you can maintain the secret life of you.Remember that a secret shared,is no longer a secret.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Her marriage will not have dissolved solely due to a lack or limitations of intimacy... ... it will be a symptom of a bigger issue between them. She will have a lot to work through now, and doesn't need to be led into other potential issues or (mis)adventures until she has reconciled and addressed these. I say..... let her make her own decision on what journey and what pathways she chooses now. And if she asks for your advice or assistance, offer it... cautiously. DG
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
About helping out some gorgeous girlfriends of mine, clear out the cobwebs as it were. Decided against it. I agree though with the fact that you could mention that 'there are websites out there to help you with that' and leave it there.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks for all your comments! While I feel I have a moral obligation to share this sexy society secret, I really appreciate all of your very rational opinions and think I will keep our devious activities to myself and let her seek it out herself... if she is really looking for it, she will find it on her own and in her own time.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77' that many people here think so called vanilla sites wont provide them with what they are looking for,but I have found the one with the pool and the camels in the desert to be not quite so vanilla. Suggest that to her and help her put a profile together.Heaps of people on here are hanging about in the desert too btw. This way you can maintain the secret life of you.Remember that a secret shared,is no longer a secret. Two thumbs up!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Her marriage will not have dissolved solely due to a lack or limitations of intimacy... ... it will be a symptom of a bigger issue between them. She will have a lot to work through now, and doesn't need to be led into other potential issues or (mis)adventures until she has reconciled and addressed these. I say..... let her make her own decision on what journey and what pathways she chooses now. And if she asks for your advice or assistance, offer it... cautiously. DG I agree with what DG has written. I went through something similar to your friend...It took me alot of time to reconile with what i was feeling, and I mistakenly got into a relationship straight away. That was a silly idea, although at the time it felt good. I actually joined RHP after all was settled, and I had found (?) myself. and then everyone here helped me find out more about myself. I say, be the shoulder for her to lean on, provide her with support, and then, once she has come to terms with things, maybe help her meet someone, weither it be a one nighter, a fwb or something more.thanks my thought anyway
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luvsilver
13 years ago
I think DG hit the nail on the head. There may be a time later on that delving into this site/scene and all that it has to offer may be just the thing to help your friend take control of who she is or who she wants to be again. But !! there is sure going to be a lot of shit to sort out before the time is right to jump on board here. My opinion is that this sort of lifestyle is for people to enhance what they have and not to try and repair things. As for your question None of my friends know that we are on this site or have a clue of what we get up to. Mrs Luvsilvers friends would all be horrified at the thought of the place with the exception of one and while Mrs Luv has been tempted to confide in her before her friend is crap at keeping secrets. Only you can make the decision at the end of the day so good luck! Mr Luvsilver
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RHP User
13 years ago
Get your friend a little tipsy and suggest a trip to Sexpo (assuming you are all in WA around the middle of June)... if she's up for it I'm sure you could gauge the interest when at the expo and when passing some RHP promo stuff nonchalantly point it out and let her feel things out from there. If your friend is not so interested then just leave it as a fun girls day out.
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RHP User
13 years ago
What about having a girly chat about sex and find out how she feels about it? I did that with my gf and now if I need to talk to her about something that has happened I can talk to her because I know she isn't going to judge me. In face she askes questions about it. (her partner wouldn't be up for this lifestyle so she wouldn't do it herself) Mrs B
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jezebel_jj
13 years ago
create a fake email, send her a link to RHP talking it up, banner it up and really advertise it!!! Im talking snippets out of the RHP stories, random photos off of the net....everything.Be creative. and then give it a couple of days and bring it up in a girl conversation, by saying "hey i got this email the other day........"
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RHP User
13 years ago
I personally couldn't care if channel 7 told the whole of Australia what we get up to. But I get it, being descreet is important as we all know most people are simply narrow minded and quick to judge. Yet in ths lifestyle we all seem to be more accepting to others, we share so much more to strangers, and we are allowed to be ourselves and have fun. Mind you that cheeky grin you get having that dirty little secret, knowing your not 'normal' and living a more exiting life than most is pretty priceless. Mr Cock Sucker
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RHP User
13 years ago
Give her my number..... :p God I love a good shameless self advertisement....and let's face it....someone had to :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
plan a holiday to bne.....then go out a few mickies and u never know.she may feel horny
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RHP User
13 years ago
Introduce her to a more vanilla site first- see how she goes for a while there...after a while she may get bored and want something more? I know when started with vanilla sites was addictive at first with all the attention and met some wonderful people... then after some time my kinks just weren't KINKED...was until my daughters friends mother mentioned this site in passing when she was a couple on here...so I had to look....LOL I am here and have found this site meets my kinky needs...BUT others are right depends on how close she is too...don't want a friendship ruined..Foxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Babes,The latest copy of Scoop magazine has an article about the Singles scene in Perth... and guess what? RHP makes an appearance!You could buy her a copy of the magazine and say you saw the Singles article on the cover and thought of her... and let the article do the rest :)Win/Win! She potentially gets to experience the fun of RHP and you'll have a non-incriminating way of introducing her to the idea.xx
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