RHP

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Seeking Males vs No Single Men

January 04 2015

OK, first forum post so I'm putting on the flak jacket... I've been here in different guises for many years. I've noticed a lot of Fem and Couple profiles: * that include 'Males' in the 'Seeking' line, * yet in the profile text they say 'no single men' with different degrees of emphasis, sometimes quite aggro or threatening. What's going on here? Does RHP say they are seeking males even though they didn't tick that box? Do women find this too? Wondering what people think...

Comments

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    11 years ago

    Whether we're looking for single guys or not changes, the ball's in my husband's court as to when a mfm is a possibility. So maybe some of those profiles you see just change their 'looking for' status when the mood takes them. Personally I prefer to keep that box unticked as otherwise our profile views go through the roof... THE UNNECESSARY USE OF CAPS TO REINFORCE THE NO MALES MESSAGE is a bit of a turn off for me...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If they do, they should not get annoyed at males contacting them.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Seems a few couples have seeking male, then go further to say in the profile they will seek out the male, asking not to message them. Eventually they might crack and HIT THE CAPITALS. bahahaha It does not bother us who messages, unless we know them from the forums and meet and greets, we only look at messages if we are thinking of playing up, so they may be unread for a while, never had a problem for it that way. Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Interesting the number of results it returned.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You really needed Tineye for that? Considering the OP is a man and the pics have web addresses on them, I'd say it's pretty obvious... I agree with both Simple Desires and Mado on this one.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Missed the point. That the pics are a misrepresentation of the profile creator, is obvious.... ...my comment was merely about the number of uses across the net being interesting. As you were.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's that simple. I'm sure most will (need to) look it up. In short they say 1 thing but mean another. No need to lend me your flak jacket, I've dodged more bullets than most, literally even some would say. Behave, obey orders, that's all that's required from you - if you'd like to be accepted here in the "forums".

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes, the "NO SINGLE MALES" (and its variants) situation is vexatious. Even though I don't know these people at all, their pugnacious profiles make me wince. However, these profiles do provide some insight into the nature of this site and, perhaps, society generally. That is, how often have you seen a couples profile scream "NO SINGLE WOMEN"?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am not into Couples I can only comment what I think I read between the lines. Maybe and only Maybe......most males in a couples situation are threatened by another male, and would not preform in a threesome. This situation will change when visiting a swingers club I would imagine, because the dynamic is different. So to have a female in a threesome means his fantasy and hers when she is Bi are fulfilled. WIN WIN But hey, I could be totally wrong.