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Seeking a relationship!!!
April 17 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
Because women on RHP are sluts or are easy and they are not the type of girl you take home to mother. So they marry good girls and after awhile realise they are not being sexually satisfied so they come back here. Dumbarses. Lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh!! Meeks .. Nailed it!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Are people SO afraid of their own sexuality in the "public arena" of the vanilla world. Geezuz times have to change to educate our younger generations THAT sex if OK with who ever you WANT!
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RHP User
13 years ago
You summed it up perfectly. Apparently because we are not afraid to express our sexuality needs and wants that makes us ok to shag but not have a relationship with. Honestly i would have thought this was a better choice than those 'vanilla'sites cause at least you will find someone you are sexually compatible with along with everything else....if you are lucky.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I met someone from here. I gave my heart and soul. My parents loved her and so did all my friends. We are no longer together due to difficult circumstances which I will keep to myself. For me right now, I do not want another relationship because I do not want the emotional baggage that can come with one ( that doesn't sound like the right description, but I can't think of a better phrase). I am not saying that some time later on I won't except another person into my life, but at the moment I want to have fun and enjoy being me, and recognising some of the things that I have always wanted to accomplish ( both in a career and a personal development way). I will say this though. I do love the sensation of knowing someone is waiting and wanting me, just as much as I want them. The seduction of having a partner that knows your every facet is so beautiful that I find myself in awe of couples that have it. I miss having a partner who is also my best friend. The beauty of this site is that it allows you to be honest and accepted. I don't know of any other place that I would be able to meet like minded people. If you can meet someone here and are lucky enough to have a relationship with them, I'd say it would a far more meaningful and trusting relationship from the start than if you met of the street or through friends, purely because of the nature of this site.
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RHP User
13 years ago
i was here a while back, when single and looking...(wife knows of this, it predates our relationship)....and the last woman I met here, i had an 18 month exclusive relationship with. I dated another for 3 or 4 months, and became ggod friends with a couple of others...no sex, but certainly friendship. yes there were casual encounters, but only with women I felt a connection with, and who i found attractive...every one i bedded, i found something that interested me....was this 'relationship potential'?........ probably........Mike.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think they say they are not interest in a relationship because most men can not get their head around the fact that not all women will fall instantly in love with them after sex. Is it a stereotype? It fact? I don't know but the common held belief is that women can not separate love and sex the way men can.
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RHP User
13 years ago
appearsto be that whole stigma attached to sexually active people who are open about their sexuality. I have friends in the Vanilla world and thankfully they are non judgmental. They are aware I am on here and wish me luck and have even learnt a few things as I guide them to these here "sordid forums". I hear guys in the chat rooms saying they would NEVER seek a relationship off here. WHY? Perhaps because you secretly don't want to be with a woman who has had more willy than I've poured beers in the NT...hmmmm Is it because as much as you love being on this site.....it is only a passing phase and you will go back to "Vanilla SEX" with the girl mum will be proud of??As for me.... I would seek a relationship off here. I find the people on here respectful, honest and sexually mature. Although would I seek a relationship with a man whore?! Would defiantly depend on his maturity. Am I looking for a relationship in the Vanilla world... Hell NO. I wouldn't even know where to start telling them about my lifestyle. I am sure I would be rejected.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I read one of your posts on this matter recently Meeka and it was a very interesting read. Was more to do with intimacy issues between men and woman. Is it a sterotype. I do not know. In a sense, yes it is. I think maybe many woman can not differentiate between love and infatuation. Men fall head over heels as well though they are tough little buggers and won't admit it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Here is my thoughts... Once a bloke has sex with a gal.. he - 1) conquest achieved... leave.... 2) falls in "LOVE" and becomes besotted.. I have been guilty of BOTH I might add.. However.. pick up a partner on here.. at least you have a chance of finding one who has at least a modicum of thought of what she is looking for.. AS OPPOSED TO.... Going to the hotel on a Friday night.. picking up, or being picked up by a HOTTIE... and, in the haze of drunkenness.. THINKING they have their shit together... taking them home.. OR being taken home.. ony to find out... "BIG FCK UP!!!!!" Gulity of that too!! I am NOT up to EVER live with another person... BUT, I have met some ladies on here.. WHO.. IF IF IF I thought about it.. could certainly do so.. One in particular has since hitched up with a man.. ALSO from here.. and they are doing BEAUTIFULLY.. It MIGHT have been with me :( BUT... whilst I classify her.. and him, and dear friends.. and VERY close friends...*smiles*.. I am still glad it wasn't me ;) Point is.. Fck yeah.. I would probably have MORE of a motion to select a partner from RHP, then anywhere else..
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have to say i agree with both you lovely ladies Meeka and Inspirit... I think men are afraid to be involved with sexually liberated women for more than a NSA affair for fear of what we can being to bedroom, lounge room, kitchen or anywhere else we might like to play. Me personally if i could find someone on here that matched me sexually, intellectually and emotionally and was mature enough to handle life in the real world then hell yeah i would pursue a relationship with him. Yes i am able to separate sex and love...i prefer an emotional connection as i find it adds more to the sex, but i do not fall in love with every guy i sleep with. However i do love it when they assume i will or have and are then disappointed when i point out i am not. I have given my heart to a few guys over time and had it broken so am reserved in opening it to anyone these days, but if i find the right guy on here or elsewhere i will be open to the idea of a relationship. Great topic Inspirit!! ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree. If a guy on RHP met someone they were really into then they would persue a relationship or a more on-going arrangement. Otherwise they are just not that into you Ladies and that will happen more often that not. I still think that when a bloke has decided that he would like a relationship he would go to a dating site rather than a sex site. Maybe because they assume that all women are here for the same reason men are... Just for sex only. Obviously they don't understand women that well. LMAO!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Women.... They are MORE likely to say... "Cavey.. come fck me.. this is a one off thing.. but don't contact me again..." I LOVE it when they contact me...and offer.. or suggest..and I am Waaay outside of what they ask for on their profile.. OR in real life.. when I am Sooooo far outside of their circle of friends.. in attitudes..and appearances.. and lifestyles.. "Do me caveman.. do it quick.. but FFS.. please please don't tell anyone.." ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why would I not be open to a relationship?? That's the question I ask. So many people that share a very open attitude to having sex. We are leaders in our right. Strength, independence, confident and yummy liberated people. However....I make a choice to simply go after it. If it happens then hell yeah, but if not, I've met some truly amazing people along the way. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'Are people SO afraid of their own sexuality in the "public arena" of the vanilla world. Geezuz times have to change to educate our younger generations THAT sex if OK with who ever you WANT! are odd they do not get bent out of shape watching people kill each other in a movie but watching people fuck...my goodness cant have that. Men want that wife thats his mates have not been with , that untouched thing and thats a historical fact of woman or man for that matter are owned by the person they are with. Like most people want a new car to show off, then when it turns out to be a lemmon they want to go back to the other reliable car but lets not let any one see that. humans put up a front, being all respectible as we are a pack animal and as such we dont want the pack to round on us. Just imagin your in the pta at school, there you are the parent the cookie maker and stuff me the swinger...your arse would be out the door dispite your good work as a parent and cookie maker. sex is power , and men do not like women with sexual power unless they are on top fucking their brains out. think of the words that men and women use on women that like to fuck, let along fuck with strangers or fuck in a group or what ever fucking used to be a powerful thing in some cultures temples were set up to honour sexy gods and goddesses not anymore sex is seedy dirty pornographic, and covert so men will not look at you the same if your on RHP , they will piss in your pocket till they get thier dick wet its the stigma of where did you meet your girl friend off RHP....hell NO of rsvp, maybe oasis, maybe take your blinkers off girls this is a Fuck me sight and guys will never say in a public forum I just want to fuck as may women as I can in the shortest space of time, without having to take them out, buy them meal or pay for a hotel ohh wait its a free hooker pick me pick me..the up side is fat old ugly chicks like me get laid...yeah
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' Here is my thoughts... Once a bloke has sex with a gal.. he - 1) conquest achieved... leave.... 2) falls in "LOVE" and becomes besotted.. I have been guilty of BOTH I might add.. However.. pick up a partner on here.. at least you have a chance of finding one who has at least a modicum of thought of what she is looking for.. AS OPPOSED TO.... Going to the hotel on a Friday night.. picking up, or being picked up by a HOTTIE... and, in the haze of drunkenness.. THINKING they have their shit together... taking them home.. OR being taken home.. ony to find out... "BIG FCK UP!!!!!" Gulity of that too!! I am NOT up to EVER live with another person... BUT, I have met some ladies on here.. WHO.. IF IF IF I thought about it.. could certainly do so.. One in particular has since hitched up with a man.. ALSO from here.. and they are doing BEAUTIFULLY.. It MIGHT have been with me :( BUT... whilst I classify her.. and him, and dear friends.. and VERY close friends...*smiles*.. I am still glad it wasn't me ;) Point is.. Fck yeah.. I would probably have MORE of a motion to select a partner from RHP, then anywhere else.. are one out of the box your honest about your needs, and you do not piss on womens pockets to get what you want You know what you want and you are not judgemental of sexual women, and that is rare like rockinghorse shit
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50'Women.... They are MORE likely to say... "Cavey.. come fck me.. this is a one off thing.. but don't contact me again..." I LOVE it when they contact me...and offer.. or suggest..and I am Waaay outside of what they ask for on their profile.. OR in real life.. when I am Sooooo far outside of their circle of friends.. in attitudes..and appearances.. and lifestyles.. "Do me caveman.. do it quick.. but FFS.. please please don't tell anyone.." ;) I knew I did something wrong. damit I just said would you like a coffee sigh...............
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'anybodyjustnow' I met someone from here. I gave my heart and soul. My parents loved her and so did all my friends. We are no longer together due to difficult circumstances which I will keep to myself. For me right now, I do not want another relationship because I do not want the emotional baggage that can come with one ( that doesn't sound like the right description, but I can't think of a better phrase). I am not saying that some time later on I won't except another person into my life, but at the moment I want to have fun and enjoy being me, and recognising some of the things that I have always wanted to accomplish ( both in a career and a personal development way). I will say this though. I do love the sensation of knowing someone is waiting and wanting me, just as much as I want them. The seduction of having a partner that knows your every facet is so beautiful that I find myself in awe of couples that have it. I miss having a partner who is also my best friend. The beauty of this site is that it allows you to be honest and accepted. I don't know of any other place that I would be able to meet like minded people. If you can meet someone here and are lucky enough to have a relationship with them, I'd say it would a far more meaningful and trusting relationship from the start than if you met of the street or through friends, purely because of the nature of this site. You are clearly a sexual mature man! What you wrote is so very true as well and there are time even I miss it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't want a relationship at the moment, I would certainly consider one with someone from RHP or another 'sex' site. I love sex and it is very important to me, so I could not be with someone that has a low libido or is otherwise sexually incompatible with me. Lately I'm beginning to think that a future partner will also need to be into more than just one-on-one with each other....but I've got a lot of exploring to do before I start thinking too hard about that
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RHP User
13 years ago
As a man who always tries to be honest in his intentions, tries being the key word, random fucking has little appeal to me. I want a friend, a relationship if you wish, as well as a lover. At this point of my life, I don't want, or need, that 'special' person. That said, if I met someone on here that rocked my world, I wouldn't run away from it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am over one night stands and looking for a relationship with some substance, a fabulous sex life is a part of that.Ofcourse I do understand the whole "he is just not into you" scenario but find it puzzling the way many males view the women here.I would have thought that a sexy sensual partner would be sought after by a man.....but it appears not to be so.
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RHP User
13 years ago
been on this site for just over a year.The first man I met from here was not interested in sex,,,lovely man but there ya go...the next man was only interested in sex ......I have met a few more men but mainly I have been contacted by either 22 year olds or married men....I have found married men to be too problematic, so no more married men for me. I am really only on this site for the forums now and my profile reflects this....as to vanilla sites...always makes me laugh whenever people say this site is sooo much kinkier.....so many people are here there and every where...same,same people,even similar profiles....and that is where I find lovers my profile was similar to the one I had here but I get way more contacts there than I ever did here....go figure. ps to answer your question OP, no I am not looking for a ''relationship'' here or there.
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RHP User
13 years ago
isnt any kind of connection....where you hope to meet that person/persons again..........a relationship? by the time we are on first name basis with others, we have begun that relationship...and the further it goes...the deeper it becomes...or not. personally, i'd hate to be thought of as just a 'fuck' by anyone....man or woman, and i really belive that any encounter has the potential to become more....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71'As a man who always tries to be honest in his intentions, tries being the key word, random fucking has little appeal to me. I want a friend, a relationship if you wish, as well as a lover. At this point of my life, I don't want, or need, that 'special' person. That said, if I met someone on here that rocked my world, I wouldn't run away from it. there goes my radom root at david johns mens wear department
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RHP User
13 years ago
If this was just a purely SEX site then there wouldn't be any of those stories from people talking about how they met the love of their life on RHP. I do want a relationship of some description and maybe I will find that person here. And as for the so called vanilla sites.................well I have had more sex from meet ups from them then RHP. I don't think it matters what type of site you meet someone from. If you are sexually attracted, chances are your gonna fuck. I really like RHP for the forums anyway and rarely search the profiles.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77' as to vanilla sites...always makes me laugh whenever people say this site is sooo much kinkier.....so many people are here there and every where...same,same people,even similar profiles.... I was on both two vanilla sites and two adult ones for two weeks or so, to see which one I preferred. The amount of men who also had profiles on ALL four sites was astonishing! Same photos even. Funny though that the vanilla profile would mention they were shy and fond of cuddling, but their RHP interests list would state their penchant for whipping, hard BDSM and bukkake...
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RHP User
13 years ago
If I was ready for a relationship, I wouldn't have an issue with meeting a guy here in the sandpit. However, as much as I'm enjoying threesomes and foursomes, I've always enjoyed them as a single. I've never experienced swinging while in a commited relationship and I'm not sure how I'd feel about it. Not something I'll have to worry about for quite a while though.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think deep down we all want someone who gets us.Someone we can connect with in and out of the bedroom.I want a friendship/relationship ,not really a root n boot type of guy.I like the journey of getting to know someone in and out of the bedroom.To hang out with them and see how they act in all different scenarios good and bad.To have a connection ,that is felt by both.A learning of the souls.The simple things are the best,how someone laughs ,how they cry,how they flick their hair and how they like to snuggle.What they like to eat and drink,how they like to dress.What makes them smile and laugh.I think the more someone opens up,the more they give,not just sexually but emotionally.I am more than happy to have a relationship with someone here,or in the real world.The hard part is finding someone and then opening up to them.In my opinion people who say "not seeking a relationship,but if the right person comes along ,maybe" is betting on both outcomes.Nothing wrong with that as you don't know what the future has installed for you.Life is a journey that starts with one step. We just have to find someone else who is walking at our pace.Cheers
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' personally, i'd hate to be thought of as just a 'fuck' by anyone....man or woman,Would head-fuck be better? Kidding....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Seeking: People to engage in friendly banter, social fun and a stonking good time... also, maybe something serious in the future if weather permits and the papers are finalised. So... am I looking for a drive by shag? No. Would I reject a drive by shag offer? No. After being in a committed relationship for 12 years (2 married) I need a break from the life of attachment and need to reconnect with myself. Having been celibate for close to 8 months now I think it will take many practice runs to remember how to use the member but am in no rush to get started. And... if/when I feel the need for a 'more than just friends' relationship, would I date someone from this site? Absolutely! if she was right for me and I for her then bring it on! IMHO... where you meet someone (online and IRL) shouldn't matter if you have similar interests and you gel well. (As for the shadow pic, there will be a face once I have enough space between my new and old life... for now the face pic is in the Private Gallery)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Everyone wants to feel wanted and needed. Mention the word "Love and Relationship" in the same sentence to me and I'm outta here.That does not mean that special person is out there for me looking trying to find me or me finding them, just means I don't know how to deal with it cause it really scares the heck out of me...All too Ogga-Boogaish to me!!FOXY
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RHP User
13 years ago
What it is that you are looking for until it slaps you in the face. That is why they are not looking but open for more. It makes me laugh when I see their profiles saying NSA but then the very self same pic looking for the love of their life on a vanilla site. Haven't they twigged yet that us girls are doing the same thing? The very same lovely lass in the buttoned up twin set on the vanilla site is that vixen on this site dressed in corset with whip in hand!!!! Just laugh it off!!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
*grins* xx
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
It's very sad to think some singles would be so narrow-minded as to think a relationship built on a strong foundation of sex, love and respect won't work. Or that sexual women aren't good enough. Hey girls their loss. We're very new to the concept of playing with single guys but any reference to looking for more on the profile is enough for me to lose interest. Maybe it was because I was 'safe' and unavailable but I've had a few guys fall for me in the past, some stalked more than others, and it's been enough that I am very wary that we only connect with those after NSA.
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RHP User
13 years ago
In this thread its why guys wont commit..in another its why EVERY guy WILL fuck us (fugly or not?)A man HAS to set his standard somewhere? Does he not?..thou shalt dip thy stick but perhaps not keep thy wick?..maybe the "commitment" is the line in the sand?
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me, having dated a number of women from here, and these other 'vanilla' sites, the issue is trust. Experiences for me have generally been what has been suggested that men do, we come on here, talk to three or four women at once, date/fuck each of them, see which one works out best, don't tell anyone about it, or, say we'll close our profiles down then secretly re-open them without telling anyone, and so on. That has happened to me more times than I can remember, mostly from here, but also some other sites I no longer use. Personally I think its the temptation, the ease by which others can connect whether emotionally or sexually/physically, sometimes its too great. But believe me its not just men who use those words of "if" the right person comes along or "i'd never commit to someone off THIS site". I've heard it all before and these days wouldn't be able to trust anyone from any site. I'd prefer a real life meet away from this environment, you know.. how people used to do it before the internet came along.... back in the dark ages when people had to work at relationships and fix things rather than throw them away? OH who am I kdding..
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RHP User
13 years ago
The love of my life not here but on a vanilla site. I'm on here, she is on here. I know this is somewhat opposite to the OP but I am trying to show the reverse. We have only been 'playing' for about 8 months and, mostly, it has brought us closer. So relationships can happen, get stronger, be enhanced anywhere. It's a matter of trust and communication.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
where were they all before I joined here then? I went without a man in any way shape or form for 16 years!I am as square as they come, I don't drink, smoke or do drugs and I abstained, while looking for mr right. Cant get any more goodie two shoes than that.Now, its all about me! They missed that boat and I am taking care of myself for a change...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Who is talking about commitment? The question is more about why do men not consider a woman that they may meet on an sex site as relationship material.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'fairtheewell' In this thread its why guys wont commit..in another its why EVERY guy WILL fuck us (fugly or not?)A man HAS to set his standard somewhere? Does he not?..thou shalt dip thy stick but perhaps not keep thy wick?..maybe the "commitment" is the line in the sand? Geezuz woman where the hell did you read that. Do yo have to commit to a relationship do you??? Please be to tell me more.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The love of my life on this site a few years ago. He was very clear at the time that he was looking for the whole package, though he was happy to fall into flings along the way. I wrecked things with him and the were/are irredeemable, but I still know that this site is a melting pot of all sorts of people looking for all sorts of things. There are men on here who would love to meet someone special and enter a long term commitment. And men who wouldn't. Interestingly, men on the more regular dating sites tend to pretty quickly reveal their interest in sex first and nothin much else after. The regular sites are mostly a mask of what many are really looking for. I like it here - people tend to be more up front.
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me personally this is a one stop shop. This site caters to me for a fling, a part time or full time relationship because I want someone like minded whatever the parameters are. It's not just about sex, I like liberal minded free thinkers who don't feel the need to be bound by the twisted morality of modern society. I like women who are comfortable with having their needs met without moral hang ups. I don't care either way if a woman wants to be gangbanged or not but I do know that a woman who willingly participates in one has the kind of mindset that I like. If you spent 2 hours a day having sex and 8 hours at work there's still 6 hours to fill with something other than dinner so it helps greatly to be around someone who is similar in their way of thinking. Anyone who seeks a sex life here but feels they couldn't meet a long term partner is either naïve, kidding themselves or a hypocrite IMO.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' As a man who always tries to be honest in his intentions, tries being the key word, random fucking has little appeal to me. I want a friend, a relationship if you wish, as well as a lover. At this point of my life, I don't want, or need, that 'special' person. That said, if I met someone on here that rocked my world, I wouldn't run away from it. I am not very good at reading Chinese.
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RHP User
13 years ago
the guys who would not seek a relationship off here?? I want to hear your opinion. (Though it probably isn't worth it)Is it interesting though how we still have stigmas attached to SEX and OPEN SEXUALITY!!!! EVEN more so with the younger generation is seems. As sweet lovable calls a spade a spade our Tuscan said......We do not turn an eye at blood and death though we find the most loving (FREE) gift we can share TABOO in a sense! How fucked up is that shit!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ask me any question and I will give you a straight answer.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think people need to get out of their heads this whole idea of Rhp v's 'vanilla sites' and making sweeping judgements and generalisations about the nature of people and whether they think differently about a relationship with a woman because of the site they choose to be on? Personally, I think it's rubbish, but if it was true and a guy didn't desire a relationship with you, the sole reason being, he met you on RHP, would you really want to have a relationship with such a narrow minded dick anyway? Like someone mentioned earlier the same people are on all the sites anyway? Vanilla, raspberry, lemon, fucking blueberry! Every flavoured site with everyone putting forward their recipe to suit, but in the end, still the same people. As for the statement "Well I'm not looking for a relationship but if it happens then that's okay too!" It covers all the bases for a guy and allows him to sound like he is at least experienced and a sexually liberated adult but not a completely heartless 'prick'.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm here for my high physical needs not the needs of my heart. Fortunately or unfortunately I assume everyone else thinks the same. Spank me! Lolly xxx- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Quoting 'Funlover71' As a man who always tries to be honest in his intentions, tries being the key word, random fucking has little appeal to me. I want a friend, a relationship if you wish, as well as a lover. At this point of my life, I don't want, or need, that 'special' person. That said, if I met someone on here that rocked my world, I wouldn't run away from it. I am not very good at reading Chinese. Like I said, All bases covered! In gobbledeegook or whatever language? Lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Have wondered the same thing myself over and over, men are strange creatures indeed and lets face it, many of them dont know whats good for them! Maybe its a power thing or wanting to feel like the alpha dog? Or is it the dreaded ego?! All i know is 2 guys ive seen have opted for relationships with someone else while we were f*cking and u know what, they both came back stating i was infinately better in the bedroom, but one chose to stay in his relationship while still seeing me on the side....if they r too stupid to claim me all for themselves and have exclusive access 24/7.... Thats their bad! I dont think trust should b an issue because ur on a sex site, that does not mean i am not capable of monogamy, shame on anyone for assuming anything about anyone on a sex site- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I believe, and always have, that a relationship can spawn from anywhere in any situation- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have tried normal dating sites but found it a disaster Women doing drugs-booze-or real slobs one even stole money from me another smashed my new car. My god if I could find a sweet genuine woman /slim to average build and fun I would marry her but its also a social issue so many now get pills -dope-grog and say hey its my escape. Even work is an issue as I did meet one gal and boy was she a honey at 35 but she scored a job with good money so I did the right thing and let her go. As an experiment I put up my mates pic and created a profile on some date sites but listed him as unemployed. He has good looks aged 35 but he got no replies so is the modern woman all about money. I am now on here and dont bother if she comes along great if not bugga and I get to enjoy sex even with 18 year olds. I could go for ages on this topic but some it up this way,as the relationships our parents had is died or near dead....
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RHP User
13 years ago
One other thing now seperates couples----smokers and non smokers-----LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
With 3s a party. Anywhere, anytime and anyhow. But until such time I will not be searching for it. The way a relationship develops is the most exciting thing
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RHP User
13 years ago
i asked the question because I have heard single men say in the chat rooms over past few years they would not seek a relationship on here. They are only here for the sex! Each to their own YES.... though you see them other sites seeking a relationship. Why would they not be open to a relationship on here?? Personally I think they have that whole stigma attached to their mindset. "Woman on here are free and easy" Therefore feel they could never trust them. or MAYBE it is because they are not "swingers" or to say the least not sexually mature. Is it because they do not want to share because the are emotionally immature? ....................Just questions. ME: I do not seek a "relationship" prefer a intimate close friendship as I can not commit to a relationship. I simply do not trust myself with what it is I actually want. I have only been out of a 20 year marriage for 2.5 years and enjoy my high spirited freedom to much. If that makes sense lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
My comments were general and not specific to a person being a member of RHP or not. And the same applies for women too. In my limited experience and from talking to friends I think there are still a lot of people who have been taken in by the social conventions or expectations. That you should marry a nice girl or Prince Charming and you don't find those sorts of people on a sex site or a kinkster site. I was thinking about some guys I know that have unusual kinks or sexual interests yet even though they may be here exploring them they all seem to feel that this is a stage/phase they are going through and that eventually they will get there fill and when they are ready to settle down they will not need "it" anymore. What ever it may be for them. That is why they don't see people they meet as "relationship" material. I am generalizing of course and this is based from people I have met and spoke too. Everyone's experience of this site will be different.
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RHP User
13 years ago
My wife and I met on a similar sex site for no strings fun....boy did we get the wrong, 7 yrs later, married with child and happily in love...not so wrong after all...lol
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