Sending pics

February 01 2026

I was chatting to a couple, And I sent them a headless nude pic, a fade pic but they wanted a full nude pic and video. I refused on the basis of sextortion, and that I wanted to meet in person. They quickly blocked me but just before this, they messaged that “sending all pics is standard on a hookup site”. Question: Is it?

Comments

  • Fuckmywifexxx

    Fuckmywifexxx

    4 months ago

    You're correct to keep your boundaries around nudes. A compromise is a clothed full body shot.

  • OpalRose

    OpalRose

    4 months ago

    It is for them. And with there being so many guys on this platform they’ll quickly find someone who will comply.

  • Andrea_Sydney

    Andrea_Sydney

    4 months ago

    I think you should stick to your boundaries and not let yourself be pressured into sending stuff you don’t feel comfortable with sending. You could maybe be more diplomatic next time and don’t mention the word sextortion. Nudes without head are standard. If anyone says they expect a full one that shows the head as well, you could simply say that you generally don’t send them but are still interested in chatting further. Honestly, if they still push after that, they are showing no regard for your boundaries. What would they be like in the bedroom…! I wouldn’t continue chatting to someone who pushes for certain pics/vids after I diplomatically said no.

  • Blueflamingo

    Blueflamingo

    4 months ago

    Most likely they (he) is collecting pictures and videos with no intention of meeting up. Very rarely have I come across a woman who would demand a full nude with face picture plus video... these are words and demands from a man 💯 No one should ever get forced to do anything they are not comfortable with and this demand, I would not say is 'normal' even for a hook up site.

  • MrandMrsEss

    MrandMrsEss

    4 months ago

    Wow, you show more than most just on your profile and the vision is good. They sound like porn hunters to me so you likely dodged a block after sending them what they wanted. Now from what I see can we join the queue 😂!

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    4 months ago

    LMFOA! No, it's not! Ms Foxy

  • Nic11

    Nic11

    4 months ago

    I have not and will not share any photos of my body. I want real life fun, thats why im here, not to swap photos. If someone is serious they are actually going to meet me irl. And to the few guys that have got pissy or angry that I wouldn't share - I just blocked- if they aren't going to respect my no on here why would I think they are going to respect me irl.

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    3 months ago

    They may be dodgy but also there are folks who won't meet without seeing facial pics first, which is our rule. That said though, we don't request full nude facial pics, just a face is fine.

  • Willdoforyou

    Willdoforyou

    3 months ago

    Not at all. I thought you were kind sending what you did. Bit demanding of them, respect is key, and also understanding .

  • Oskalabelle

    Oskalabelle

    2 months ago

    I’ve come across these types of profiles before and agree with the others, stick to your boundaries. If they’re genuine they will be willing to chat even just a little to show they’re not pic hunters or fakes. They should respect your boundaries just as you’d respect theirs. Imagination can be a wonderful thing instead of everything just being laid bare and on display from the get go, that builds tension and excitement in my perspective.