Sending/receiving Flirts on RHP

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Tend to be sent from guests who can’t send messages

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  on the up side: a flirt is pretty much the only chance a non-subscriber has to indicate interest in someone (other than stalking their profile and showing up n "recently viewed" a thousand times. And getting one as a non-subscirber does allow you to reply with a message - at least allowing for contact between those who don't have hundreds to pay each year. on the down side: as a couple or as a single female, they become extraneous noise. one receives so many that the impact of a flirt is next to nothing. and if you're being inundated with innane messages ("hey babe" , "How are you", "lets fuck" - all of which , by the way are the complete and real messages we've received in the past week) a flirt seems like a distraction rather than, well, a flirt. It's perceived as not even trying. The economy of attention here is odd, and the perception of the feature of the flirt is probably suffering because of it.

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  FredAndGinger2

  6 years ago

  We get about a dozen flirts each week. If the flirt is from a profile that shows very little effort then that flirt has zero value and the sender is likely to be blocked. If the flirt is from a verified profile where they've made effort to fill in the profile and load up some interesting pics then we will respond almost every time.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  We love to send flirts, We see it as a perfect way to show appreciation of someone else’s profile. In fact sending a message to someone without first receiving a flirt back makes us feel a little uncomfortable. Imagine being in a bar for instance and you see someone sexy, you would smile first and if they smile back you go over. Rather than just going over and starting a chat up that might not be welcomed.

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  thecatsmeowaus

  6 years ago

  We had a paid membership but it has expired. We only send flirts to paid members if we spot someone we like the look of. Will never flirt with a guest as there’s no point. And will either ignore or quickly dismiss a flirt from a guest profile.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  In theory, theory is the same in practice, in practice it isn't. Same with flirts, they seem like a sound idea but they rarely produce the desired result.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  As a new member of red hot pie I like the idea of sending flirts. It's a quick and easy way to let someone know you're interested. But I can imagine it would be annoying if you get lots of them.

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