Serious in townsville

just wondering as to how serious ppl in townsville are at wanting to meet seems to us that not many are we have sent plenty of messages etc and only to get nothing back it wouldn’t be so bad if a simple no thanx not interested would surfice rather then give someone the run around we are not just in it for sex but would also like to establish a friendship kinda makes you wonder how many say they are going to show up for swingers parties but never show or who set swingers parties but never go through with it just my thoughts