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Sex and water

August 09 2015

Advice required: One of my (simpler) fantasies is to have sex in the spa/bath and/or the shower. From people with experience, what are the things you might need to know? I know to keep the surfaces very clean to minimise risk of any infections, also to be mindful of positions and to make sure that no-one slips over, perhaps a non-slip mat if standing. Also, a silicon based lube is preferrable. But if you are using condoms for it, is this a problem? Are they going to be more likely to slip off? Do you need to prepare them differently (lube/size/type etc) so they don't? What might be the issues involved? Is the water itself, or the water temperature, an issue for the women? What about anything that might have been added such as bubble bath or soaping products? Could they be an irritant? Is it best to have just the plain water only? And generally, do people like it? I imagine the experience would be much more sensually engaging all over.

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RHP User

10 years ago

let her face you as water is funnelled between sexy arse cheeks and can be inhaled all too easily 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

10 years ago

Three words: Balance Assist Handle. Get yours from the adult store or Bunnings.

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RHP User

10 years ago

Two more words: waterproof mascara.

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RHP User

10 years ago

A shower is totally different to a spa bath but you could do spa then shower ...ask your potential sexy water nymph if she has a favourite shower gel,bath oil..do not use bath crystals as the can stuff up the spa jets..if you are at home check out the safety issues,if it's a hotel go look at the bath / shower before hand...it's a very yummy thing to do,I have done it with a blindfolded man 😝xxFreya

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RHP User

10 years ago

could be an issue as if it's too cool it is a turn off. A non-slip mat would be an idea. Soaps can be an irritant if they end up inside one but it is wonderfully erotic to have someone slather you all over with creamy soap and stroke their fingers everywhere on the outside of you with the warm/hot water running over you. I can't advise on condoms or lube as I as in a permanent relationship when I tried this so it was bareback. Hmmmmmm.......must try this again .

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RHP User

10 years ago

In the spa bath in my last house, with a very hot guy. Oh, the memories........No soaping products, and no condom problems, it was very sensual.

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MissBishere

10 years ago

with all the blood rushing other places you don't want to pass out so don't make the water to hot. I personally wouldn't want bubbles but my privates are prone to be irritated by bubble baths and certain soaps. I would however recommend putting her clit up against a spa jet while you pleasure her pussy and arse☺️ I actually thought non latex condoms were required.

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QLDtwo4fun

10 years ago

Water can wash away the lubricant, and before you know it leave nasty chaffing.

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Hottie1

10 years ago

I start with a slow sensual wash of all parts, then go to a BJ. I then bend over to touch my toes and love being pounded that way. In the past, my partner pulled out and came all over me, we then washed again. 😝 Mary xx

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RHP User

10 years ago

Just came back from a weekend away. Stayed at lovely place with outdoor spa overlooking a forest. It was freezing outside but nice and toasty in the spa. Very sensual with candles and wine. Don't have the water too hot though as we did on the first night we were boiling literally lol

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RHP User

10 years ago

Thanks for the advice. Silicon lube was recommended as it is not easily dispersed by water. In my case the spa forms the base of the shower, and if I do fill the bath, that's all my hot water gone for the meantime, so I can't really have one and then the other straight afterwards! I do know soap can sting the (inside) end of the penis, so I guess it could affect the female parts in the same way. - Posted from rhpmobile

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225Special

10 years ago

Met a couple on the weekend and played in their spa. As said above, the water does wash away the natural lubricants......the coconut oil in the bedroom soon made up for it though.

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RHP User

10 years ago

Oil is awesome, coconut is great for you too. I'd love a nice hot steamy bathroom session 😍 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

10 years ago

however I have only had shower and/or spa sex with men I have been in relationships with and was not using condoms so cannot offer advice in that regard.One guy I was involved with for quite some time had an indoor spa AND an outdoor spa.I SOOOO loved staying at his place. The wine flowed too.......them was the days!!!Great memories.

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