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Sex diary

May 25 2008

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Hello :) I've been thinking for a long time now about starting up a sex diary. I think it would be great to have everything written down.. all the experiences, funny stories, the hotness of some encounters, the wrongness of others, the details.. just stuff to look back on. But - what happens if someone else reads it? Like a nosy family member. What do you do with it when you settle down with someone? As open as I am in a relationship I'm still not sure I'd like my partner to have a written record of every detail of every shag over the last 5 years. Does it become like a top secret document? Does anyone have a sex diary? And if so, where do you keep it? Is it lockable? And what if you die suddenly? (I wonder about this with photos and other stuff in my computer too). xxSoubiii

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  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    not worth the hassel or the time Soubiii. i got a memory "still" that serves me well and after a couple of ales can even improve on it lol. leave it in your head and enjoy it in the quiet moments and if your in the right company by all means share it. infact if you want a really good record of your "experiences" video them, i'd be happy to help, do you take direction well? lol PD

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    Nah i keep it all in my head ..

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    Using Gmail you can store masses of info, songs, pics and vids online, off your own system. That's where I keep all my "personal" stuff.

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    The safest place of all is in your mind. Can't be hacked.......only you know the password.......and when ya sittin quiet just reflectin, with that cheeky smile on ya face.... peoples can see yar thinkin about sommin they wanna know.

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    I keep stuff like backup copies of my music collection online, I have about 5gig, so if my computer goes "bang" I get a new Hard-Drive or whatever and download it again direct as one collection! Keep meaning to but a removable Hard Drive but can't be bothered while I have spare storage free online.

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    You reckon you gonna remember all the intricate, amazing little things when you're 70? I know that I won't. I want something to look back on in my old age and think.. OMG, THAT'S RIGHT!!!!! hehehe

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    I did have one but I had to destroy it.......... shame really as there are so many little things that one forgets over time. A computer is a bit like a diary really as it does hold many secrets. Like all my pics for RHP :-o

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    Soub I have worked in aged care for many years and i have to say .. Yes they do remember all the intricate details when they are 70 and older lol. They(we) have nothing better to do with our time at that age but to dredge up all those titilating memories and find some unsuspecting listener to reveal all the secrets of our youth.. I have heard some hair-raising confidences lmao. I know there are things that i have embedded in my mind that will stay with me forever and i cant wait until I am old enough to tell anyone who will listen- giving a wicked chuckle and not feeling an ounce of guilt hehehe. Tina

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    Isn't that what blogging is for? Anonymous sex diaries? Lol... (... that reminds me, I've something to do.......) nadi xx

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    i gotta say... i love statistics... you wright it all down dear.. besides, i can't imagine you settling down with somone who would not enjoy the read... LRE

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    Sounds like a great idea to have a diary. Was always going to write in one everyday...but 30 odd yrs later i still never even wrote one word. Would have been good for my kids too. Not so sure on the sex one though...somethings are best left as a memory in your head where no one can read it. No special key or password needed. If its worth remembering you will. As far as stuff on the computer.....what about the draw next to the bed with all the toys in it. Guess im lucky to have a good relationship with my older kids. There isnt much they dont know. Although they dont know or need to know every detail. When i pass... hmm...Hopefully they say....It looked like she was having fun and enjoying herself. HAHA. Leelee xxx

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    I turn some of my more memorable moments into stories and have them all in one book. Hubby and I enjoy reading all the adventures we have had over time. That way if it did ever get into the wrong hands or you settle down, they will just think you have a great imagination and are a brilliant writer. Just a thought Sin

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    I would say do the annon. blog thing . . . That way you sharing your experiences but nobody knows who you are ! ! No . . . I dont have a blog . . . . .

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    I use a block of post-it notes. I'm still on my first one...

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    You know Soubiii you quite made me laugh, if I'd kept a diary of my sex life for the last 12 months Id not be sure whether to post comments to here or in the forum abut crying after sex. Good luck to me in the next 12 months. :D Blessed be

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    It was new years eve 1979 my then boyfriend and I decided to wright a disgusting sex diary for 1 year and at the end of the year we had to swap diaries and read page for page and see the others opinion of that night. It was the best bit of writing I have ever done . Some times our opinions were so different on the night. We ended up married for 20 years and every 5 years we got them out and read them again. We have been divorced for 10 years and still got the diary. I caught my daughter trying to read it thank god she couldn't read running writing at the time. It is now kept in a safe place and when I'm dead she can read it . As for now I keep little cryptic notes in by big black book and that one will go to my grave with me not for public viewing pmsl.

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    Cool story Supersmooth. Yeh, I am not the blogging type for all to read my smutty secrets, and I am sick of the cryptic messages I leave in my datebook, cos I know I'm gonna look at it in my old age and think wtf. Ahh to hell with it, if I happen to get hit by a doubledecker bus and my fam gets to learn all, at least they'll know I was having fun.

  • RHP

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    18 years ago

    Souubiii you can keep a wordfile, password locked. It can hold saucy pics, stories, whatever. Its not secure from hackers or the police so you can never risk writing with total abandon, but it can help to begin your file with some stupid line like "Without Prejudice" or "the following contents are all fiction and bear no resemblance to real people, or if they do its all made up anyway". Then you can muddle fantasy and your real exploits in anyway you choose.I do this, have done do so on and off for years and when I've nothing better to do it makes a great read. Lovely to see how some deep fantasy I'd carried for years later became normal behaviour for me, as I moved into new circles of friends. Funny how stuff I once thought was really over the top is now so vanilla I dont even bother to describe it. But I also enjoy playing with word sounds, allterating, making poetry of my memories. Sometimes I fall in love, or lust, then words take on a different flavour - no longer about exploits but more poignant, tender, describing those special times together with someone for a while so special to me. One time when I was younger, and my diary was handwritten, I burnt it after suspecting my long term partner had read it. I still regret that, I miss the drawings and writings, and the partner concerned is long gone from my life. So feel free Subiii, find a private way and record your life and the joys you have on the way x

  • RHP

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    17 years ago

    For photos, private writings etc that can be stored on the computer I just send an email from one email account to another and store in folders ;-) I still wonder what to do with our other private stuff that can't go on the computer tho lol... MrsP oxo

  • RHP

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    17 years ago

    heheh i had completely forgotten about this post.. the diary is in motion, and it's an old fashioned lockable one like you had when you were 13. The cover says My Heart 2 Heart Diary (LOL) and it even has stickers in it like.. "sooo great", and "12 on a scale of 1 to 10", and my favourite, "Watch Out! Creative Explosion Going On'. hahahahahahaa aaaanyway, who knows which poor sod in my family will open it once i'm dead and gone. oh well!!! xxSoubi

  • RHP

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    17 years ago

    send me ebay link please LOL LRE (lookingfor his reading specs)