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Sex parties
December 22 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you are a newbie to the scene I would take a friend along the first few times. Someone you know and trust. Some parties will be great, other parties will have you running out the door screaming. It's good to always have a wingman with you. The party scene can really be a hit and miss affair.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't go alone the first few times ? Go with a trusted friend n remember no means no :)) Either way u will have ur eyes opened that's for sure.. Have fun
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RHP User
12 years ago
It all comes to how adventurous you are ;). If you got skin on your nose you go by yourself. If you are the type who needs support you bring a friend. I happen to be a very good companion, no offense but I got manners too ;). So let go of the handbrake and go all in. Make sure everyone is wearing rubber and that they change condom before they move on. Yes some people think that they can put their willy into any woman just because it's got a condom on, But hey,hey,hey, you need to change between the pussies too. Don't drink too much or keep it moderate. Keep the fluids up and use lube. Condoms can give you pussy a hard time if they're not lubricated enough. But be aware that the condom can come off if you're not careful. So make sure the gents check that the rubber stays on while they're humping away. Besides that. Have a pleasant ride and enjoy yourself.And yes, no is no. Happy hunting. D
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RHP User
12 years ago
been wanting to ask the same question although my concern is not as adventurous as that of yours ms simplepleasures1.. the upcoming sydney meet and greet for example, would be my first time and still hesitant about going! although i'm keen as anything to check it out.. i think it's the fear of the unknown that's playing me lol.. but i do psych myself up and say for sure it cant be that bad!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are you talking about Mes's one in January? That meet and greet on the Saturday is social drinkies only. No play. Well, unless you're a good shot with an ice cube ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's just a drinks night... And there will be other people there will be other single people there who have come as a single person. You need to get out of your comfort zone to grow.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's if I can even talk !
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RHP User
12 years ago
haha hence i mentioned my concern was minute compared to simplepleasures1's! but the concept for me is the same.. the worry of not knowing what to expect! i know it is only a social event but come on ladies, it's my first time to be on that sort of environment! ;) yes! i meant mes's party ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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compressor
12 years ago
I have never been but always wondered what it would be like
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RHP User
12 years ago
I too have been very curious about them. Attended one in Perth earlier this year. Was virtually a social gathering until 10 pm when the time arrived to either get your gear off or leave. I ended up leaving as it was not my scene. I did enjoy meeting the people though and finding out what went on. If you are up for it, contact me and maybe we can have a visit at some of the more professionally run places such as pleasure lounge and deltas. I have another good friend from here who will also come, so it will be safety in numbers. L.
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RHP User
12 years ago
So how EXACTLY do I get invited to a swingers party? Does anybody know how to get from zero to score?
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RHP User
12 years ago
How do you get invited to a swingers party. Find a girlfriend.
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
This will be my first time as well, and I'm coming from QLD....I want to know and learn more about myself and others and I love meeting new people....a few drinks, meeting new people, loads of laughs, sounds like a blast to me.....can't wait to meet everyone....💋💋
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RHP User
12 years ago
I met up with a couple I knew from here and they took me in. I was not part of a couple but I guess being a single female usually has easier access to these parties. Just getting in does not mean you are definitely going to score though. Talk to people and tell them in a nice way that you are interested. Alternatively, go to the meet and greets and see if you can pal up with someone there who has the same desire. It doesn't mean you will be a couple per se, but you can appear to be to gain access.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hello there. They are great fun both to attend and to throw :). You just sign up and then rock up which a lot of people forget to do. There are many keyboard jockeys here on rhp but when it comes down to it it's not that many that can cut the mustard. Both men and women. The best thing is to go with an open mind. A lot of people has a certain picture in their head, sometimes a very stereotypical one. I have met many nice horny people who have embraced their sexuality and I have had a ball. Big,fat skinny,old, fit, you name it but it doesn't matter what you look like. Sex is so much more than just the outside. There is so much more going on on the inside. I think the best parties are the ones with a great range and mix. If everyone looked like a Barbie and Ken it would be very boring trust me. Look for diversity. So how do you get invited. Easy, get in touch with someone that organizes a party. Introduce yourself, leave your name and your number. If there is a number listed, call it or send a text. But calling is a great start. If you can't talk on the phone well think again, how are you going to have sex in front of other people. When you have been invited to a party. Go there and meet the host. A good host will introduce you to the guests. Don't drink to much. Ask people or put a hand on a persons shoulder. If they take it off it's a no or if they say no it's definitely a no. I hope this can help :) D
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RHP User
12 years ago
Brownfoxylady, I guess I'm a nudist at heart, cos I find the meet n greet scenario terrifying, but the thought of a sex party exciting and fun. Guess that's why I'm an online dating nerd... Good luck :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sweet lady :) thanks. I'll send you a message when I'm allowed another one.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just enjoy yourself babe, you will know if it feels right. I find going alone more exciting and fruitful xx
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1Featuredmember
12 years ago
so if your at a party and a couple are in the throws .... and you want to join in do you ask her .. him ... both. if one says yes and the other no ... do you wait for a turn......questions, questions lol
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'madferrret' so if your at a party and a couple are in the throws .... and you want to join in do you ask her .. him ... both. if one says yes and the other no ... do you wait for a turn......questions, questions lol Though to the thoughts being fun and all that jazz. If you were to stand at a convenient distance and display your (air guitar licks) or to the fashion, your moves? Then the couple would more than likely find that interesting and acquired the attentions, to any intention you suggest. Very polite never the less. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madferrret' so if your at a party and a couple are in the throws .... and you want to join in do you ask her .. him ... both. if one says yes and the other no ... do you wait for a turn......questions, questions lol I beg your pardon? Tap on the shoulder? We are not doing a waltz here. So let me ask you a question madferret, you are in the throws of passion with your lover and some dude comes and taps you on the shoulder and asks if he can be next??? How would you feel about that? It's rude and inconsiderate. You ask the person you would like to have a bonk with if they would like to play. Not the husband or boyfriend and not while the person is having sex with someone else. My boyfriend will normally say sure...... but only if she can watch me fuck your arse first. So, you stand at a reasonable distance and if the couple catches your eye and indicates that your are welcome to join them... fabulous. Otherwise you stand back and watch. You do not interrupt. Once they are back to socialise and chatting with others then you go up and strike up a conversation.
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RHP User
12 years ago
At gang bangs the women normally point to who they may like to bonk next.. and yes you wait in the line until you are called up madferret. Or some women don't mind who is next so you just sit there tight and pull your pecker till its your turn to bat.
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RHP User
12 years ago
can I just add that you shouldn't just go up and touch people. Some guys do that when they think the women is distracted... and you have to slap their hand away at least twice before they get the message that they shouldn't touch without an invitation. And if a woman says no thank you, DON'T PLEAD AND BEG... that is such a turn off and it makes me say No more than ever. You know the ... please just touch it, just touch it for a second.... etc, etc.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi there, I have tried to send you a message re this post but it wants me to upgrade. Have you been having this problem also?
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1Featuredmember
12 years ago
so were really talking about group sex etiquette .............. so it does exist! thanks m x
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'madferrret' so were really talking about group sex etiquette .............. so it does exist! thanks m x It does indeed. Though it does not mean you don't exist, you would display your character to the interests of others to be thought to as an energetic level minded fun sort of bloke, who respects the nature of sexual discovery. Less threatening and more enjoyable, same as any play where a couple would entertain, this instance a bloke such as yourself. You won't have much luck if you just sit there and hope to be noticed, if you radiate some positive energy to your person, well energy travels more fluent than a tap on the shoulder would. Good luck lover. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'madferrret' so were really talking about group sex etiquette .............. so it does exist! thanks m x Oops I may have been a little outraged at your comment. LOL. Yes there is an etiquette, for sure. Not sure what Mado means, but I suppose if you want to do nude headstands to get noticed I am sure that would work, LOL. At all parties and sex clubs there is an area to mingle and chat, that is the time to talk to people. When you approach a couple or person you are interested in, I would ask what they are there for....as people go for different reasons, some to watch, some want to be watched, some couples only play with each other, some women only play with other women, etc, etc. Always ask the person of interest and they will let you know what their deal is, if they want you to ask the BF or husband she will ask you to do that. Unless a couple is looking around for extra participants you are not going to get noticed when people are having sex. Personally, I would wait until they are free again and strike up a conversation if you are interested, don't interrupt. Happy rooting.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh and by the way, just because a woman is at a group sex party that doesn't mean she is going to have sex with you. So... that waiting in line thing..... NO! that only happens at gang bangs. Capisce?
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madotara69
12 years ago
Just projecting a friendly and playful manner, is noticed as impressions towards people, with some air between them, at a distance or nearby. No need for touch to be the deciding factor to be engaged with others.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am another 'newb' to this scene......im yet to experience the sheer joy of a whole room of people bumping grinding and pleasing eachother....but im sure its great!!! I want to start smaller.....meeting people for no strings intimacy without having to get to know their partners history and neighbours dog lol I just want to find a woman or couple who want to meet have a coffee....or a few drinks and then fuck.....alot......for a long time. No single guys thanks...i have my man......i just crave pussy...pussy and......i still want pussy....so ladies pls......come sit on my tongue :-)
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1Featuredmember
12 years ago
Always safe and always happy. cheers mx
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1Featuredmember
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Just projecting a friendly and playful manner, is noticed as impressions towards people, with some air between them, at a distance or nearby. No need for touch to be the deciding factor to be engaged with others. I promise i shall practice lifting one eye brow at a time ??? lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Was at a good party last year.strippers and sex showsnude waiters and waitressesbut best was the fun peopleOn the down side it was a private event by somerich guy and have no idea if its on again.
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