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Sexy Wear to an RHP Event - Suggestions?
January 04 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm sorry I can't answer your question, as I have not been to one myself yet, but just wanted to say that Dee you have a stunning figure (with a bum to die for, and that's coming from a straight woman!) And you could pull off any outfit you wished! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
do you mean clothes to wear while having sexy play time, or while you're hanging around in a socialising area? If it is the latter, unless it's a theme night then clothes you'd wear out to an upscale nightclub or when you're getting dressed to go out and you want to look sexy for each other. It doesn't have to be all fishnet mini skirts and arse-less chaps - though they're great on a theme night ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've only been to a club once and had the same worry. I wore a short black silky cammy and heels, a friend wore a nurse outfit. The guys were mostly in undies or towels. Enjoy ☺️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quite re-assuring. :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'mercedes67' I'm sorry I can't answer your question, as I have not been to one myself yet, but just wanted to say that Dee you have a stunning figure (with a bum to die for, and that's coming from a straight woman!) And you could pull off any outfit you wished! - Posted from rhpmobile You look great in your photos so perhaps if you chose something like what you are wearing in those pics........they're very sexy.Unsure what to suggest for Mr Ajayndee however I'm sure others here will have some suggestions and that you'll be the sexiest couple at whichever club/event you choose to attend. Have heaps of fun fun and more fun!
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RHP User
10 years ago
with summer - corset - a jacket over if you dont feel comfy and skirt :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
a collared shirt and nice pants is what I've seen most guys wear at swingers clubs - always better to be over dressed than under dressed :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
That is indeed sexy Summer. Thanks for the suggestion.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am looking to go to my first in the next few weeks, I am pretty much a bag of nerves already and hadnt even considered there was a certain expectation of dress! I just assumed it was normal clothes, but when I think about it, fetish wear certainly makes more sense!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
My first few times I attended a swingers venue, I just wore what I would wear to a night club. Skirt and top with heels. And you cant go wrong with a LBD ( little black dress.) guys wear shirts,jeans ans lace up shoes generally. Dont stress it. If you end up in the spa, you will probably walk around with a towel around you for the rest of the night anyway. Lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey S-Ontheloose, Thanks. We are asking about clothes in general so when we walk in, people aren't gawking at how stupid we look. :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'misskez' I've only been to a club once and had the same worry. I wore a short black silky cammy and heels, a friend wore a nurse outfit. The guys were mostly in undies or towels. Enjoy ☺️ - Posted from rhpmobile Nurse's outfit. wow, are you serious? mmmmm.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'vampavibe' You look great in your photos so perhaps if you chose something like what you are wearing in those pics........they're very sexy.Unsure what to suggest for Mr Ajayndee however I'm sure others here will have some suggestions and that you'll be the sexiest couple at whichever club/event you choose to attend. Have heaps of fun fun and more fun! You're very kind. But isn't that a little look risque and revealing for a beginners night? I mean we might end up being quite shy and just watch?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PoisonIV' a collared shirt and nice pants is what I've seen most guys wear at swingers clubs - always better to be over dressed than under dressed :) Quoting 'PoisonIV' with summer - corset - a jacket over if you dont feel comfy and skirt :) We like both your suggestions. We might come back and run you guys past our selection for the night. This is fun.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'goldengirl12' I am looking to go to my first in the next few weeks, I am pretty much a bag of nerves already and hadnt even considered there was a certain expectation of dress! I just assumed it was normal clothes, but when I think about it, fetish wear certainly makes more sense!! Come join the party(bundle of nerves) Lol.
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boobsandbusted
10 years ago
what to wear what to wear ,lol, we also are going to our first event soon ,when the planets align ,so we went past shed 16 on a little snoop and recon mission ,wasn't very inspired ,sore a dude with jeans t-shirts and runners and a few women weren't much better ,don't know, maybe they get changed inside ,into something more yummy .looked more like a sunday family gathering dress style ,rather than a good night club style ,from the few we saw ,now rethinking what to wear or should we go to another venue for a couples night ,lol,damn ,if we went in what we planning we would have lifted the lid ,and stood out like sore thumbs ,and thats not what we want ,lmao ,thank god for driving past and snooping , mr b
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
Wear what makes you feel sexy. That can be jeans and a sexy top, it can be a flirty little dress.... at Shed 16 there will be a combination of all of those. Most of the men who attend will be in jeans and a nice shirt/top. For instance last time I went to The Shed (hmm, that may have been in the last 24 hours ), I wore the outfit in my profile pic, but had nice jeans, heels and a lacy top over it. I left those clothes on for awhile, then stripped down to the sexy number underneath. Some women do the same, some strip and use the provided towels. Men tend to strip to either trunks or towels. There is no designated dress-down time (as there is at some clubs), so you can stay fully dressed all night if you want. Shed 16 is a little more casual than some clubs, which also means it has a very friendly atmosphere. Because of this it attracts a wide variety of people.... young, old, fit, unfit, new and experienced. Last night we met 5 couples who had only been in the scene for less than 4 months... and they all loved it. The regulars make a point of introducing them to other people and showing them around the place; not something which has happened to me at other places. (PS. There are two venues on the same site as Shed 16. If it was a guy by himself and it was a Friday night, he would have been going to the venue on the right - a men only venue . Single men are only allowed in Shed 16 on Saturday nights and when they have big parties.)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Have to agree with you on that. Dee, you've put your body as "average", I think "superbly curvaceous" with a "delicious butt" would be more apt. I don't understand why curvy ladies aren't proud of what they've got, especially if they make the most of it with their dressing choices? Cheers Paul.
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boobsandbusted
10 years ago
just a quick thanks kissk, so as not to steal a thread ,much appreciated ,you helped quite a bit in a couple of areas ,I'm sure we know what we will wear now ,and you have resold us on going in the near future , might be good time soon ,to start a who's new and wants to go to the shed thread,lol brett
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RHP User
10 years ago
KissK - thanks. That was immensely helpful. PL - You're very kind. Just looking - hope it all goes well. - Posted from rhpmobile
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