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Shallow People/Individuals- When would you classify a person being shallow?

December 29 2009

Since I moved here to Adelaide,SA from Cairns, Queensland in late Febuary I found how some if not how common it was to meet very shallow females here in SA esspecially in the Northern Suburbs something i found was rare back in QLD let alone anywhere else that i have traveled or worked at in my time. Reason I am raising the topic is easy! Just recently i attended a open meet and drinks session for singles and couples at a bar in south terrace, Adelaide. Anyway while we were all enjoying the nite i was approached by what i 1st sort was a fairly nice,decent, recently divorced single mum in her mid-late 20s who lived just not far from where i live along with her female friend, we were having a great general intellectual conversation getting to know each other and our pasts until she asked about my nationality i told her i was born in Australia at a town called Windsor, simple and straight! she then asked what about my mum and dad? I told her that Dad was born here in Adelaide and his family were amongst the earlier settlers to settle in South Australia and that my mum was a New Zealander by birth to a Kiwi father of Hungarian and Maori mix and a mother that was Thai which he met when he was a POW in Thailand during WW2 and my mum was raised in both NZ and later in Thailand! Anyway her and her friend suddenly walked off after that conversation. Later on i caught up to her and asked how she was enjoying herself then suddenly a unprovoked disagreement took place which was long and she said to me during the disagreement "I wasn't assuming at all just I'm not interested in you at all, your not the kind i am after no real malice against you". I left it to that and walked away feeling excluded but moved forward, Later a group that was part of the session asked what happen between the female that i was chatting to as they all sort that her and i were getting along fine and becoming an item unfortunately i told them what happened and that in my view she was both a "shallow Moron" and showed her true personal character and didn't want to discuss further! Anyway a couple offended by what the heared went up and confronted both her and her friend shortly after and a confrontation took place, during the melay her friend approached me and some of the people in the group that i was hanging out with and said to me infront of the others "what did you tell them? She isn't a racist! shes just not interested in a guy that roots sheep with a small cock." the rest is history. Anyway i viewed both of the females i met that nite being shallow and like to ask firstly if anyone had a similar incident? and if so how they handled it! secondly when would you view that a person has a shallow personality and what would you interpret that the person/individual is shallow?

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RHP User

16 years ago

but I can proudly say I don't root sheep or have a small cock, so I'm kinda lucky. Move on... so you met a loser. Darwin's work isn't done - they are still out there.

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RHP User

16 years ago

Try having a girl scream in your face " fuck off your ugly cunt" and throw a bottle at your face because you smiled and said hello....It's just a common thing now mate.

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RHP User

16 years ago

Well that's seems a bit strange. Maybe it was nothing to do with your history and she truely just wasnt that into you. The last comment from her seems a bit of a knee jerk reaction from being confronted by the others. There are always going to be shallow females around just as there will be shallow guys. In fact you will find it is worse online than you will find in real life. But I don't know that your case was them being shallow. If it is because iof your heritage that is a bit strange but it is hard to know without knowing what they were thinking. Unfortunately we dont get to hear the other side of the story.

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RHP User

16 years ago

With an attitude and mouth like that your better off...no one deserves that sort of treatment...me wonders why she a single mother...pitty the child if he/she grows up just like her with a bad attitudefruit dont fall far from the tree...just my observation..xoxoheymumma

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RHP User

16 years ago

The minority groups always spoil it for the majority of decent people around. I'm sure there are still a lot of genuine and non-judgmental people out there in SA. Chin up, you'll find the decent people soon enough.

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