RHP

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M53

Sharing your wife or girlfriend.

August 03 2009

sex

Hi people,just a question,I find it very sensual and erotic to be able to give your wife or girlfriend the freedom to be able to flirt and have sex with any guy they want,I do not feel jealous or have a issue with it at all,I get so turned on by the thought of her looking at a man and wanting to fuck him,do girls enjoy a man who feels this way?Is it normal?lol

Comments

  • playfulminx

    playfulminx

    16 years ago

    A lot of guys find it a turn on to watch their partner have fun with other men. What's more exciting than watching your own live action porn starring your favourite actress? lolOn the flipside, some guys are indifferent or feel completely repulsed by the idea, and even some women feel a bit put off that their man wants to share her so you may get a lot of different views on this topic.As long as you and your partner both enjoy it equally then that's all you need to worry about :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    a lot of guys really do find it a turn on, I think most men do, just some wont admit it. having experienced it I  can say it is amazing to know your wife has had sex with another man, whether your there or not. You need to be careful that the female partner  doesnt begins to feel guilty about it all, but you need to re-assure her it ok, if you are ok with it. Remember this should be for mutural benefit, if you are getting your rocks off her doing it with other guys then I guess its a win win for both of you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I love to watch my girl being pleasured by another guy (or two or three). I find it very erotic especially if they are well endowed. I too have questioned whether there is something wrong with me as it most certainly doesn't fit the normal male behavioural profile. I want to do it more and more and she is less enthusiastic these days, which is a shame.

  • jandv

    jandv

    16 years ago

    Love it when wife is fucking another guy. Its hot to watch. I am wanting to try, her doing it when i am not in the room but just to hear them go for it would be great.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yes, I think it is hot also aslong as everyone is on the same page.  It is a matter  of keeping it a positive experience for everyone.  The honesty and openess can mean that there is a much deeper and intense passion.  apart from that it is great fun. Please look at my profile and let me know if you are keen to catch up. Michael

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I agree, it is an incredibly hot idea but it hasn't happened in my case, though we've discussed it.  Some women simply won't do it, and that's fine - their choice :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    From my experiences with invites to a 3som MMF it is often the males who instgates the interaction. Whether its been from the partners expression or from his not fulfilling the growing needs of the female partner it doesnt really matter. The sessions Ive had , and they are numerous, Ive found the 1st 1 or 2 contacts have to be handles rather carefully before you really let go and have the ultimate experience. The male I believe is sumwhat put back if you please his lady too well. So guys take it a bit easy at 1st, when he gets used to the fact your an extra and not trying to take his lady he and they will enjoy the experience of playing, watching and joining in a whole lot more. The bonus is you get a lot more repeat invites more regularly. Always respect both playing partners and dont forget to include him.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We have a huge age gap, and I led my pretty young wife to try it out. Tried parties, but she was not too keen and froze when a guy grabbed her bum when we were doing it together. We did same room, but that did not turn her on. I got her to meet some guys from Pie.....she gradually let go. But the first one was looking at her on webcam all day, texting and messaging every time she was online. ... But he was an expert kisser and she liked that..... The next one walked her round Melbourne with his hand on her bum....then she suggested a hotel and they fucked but he failed to cum. She was a bit disappointed. When  I picked her up, she said "Something happened!", and smiled sheepishly. She told me the whole story. I was a bit in shock at first, but then laughed and we had very hot sex talking about it. There were 2 other guys after that who invited her out.....just meet and greet. .... But to my surprise she had sex with both of them.....one unprotected and with 2 lots of cum sinside her. This is a fantastic turn  on, but also a worry. She seemed become out of control, and was asking for more. .... So we decided to give it a break. No more meetings for a while..... Yes, it was so stimulating for both of us. But our married life together was weakened by it, by the comparing, the odd messages...the dating....and there was a risk to her health and safety. James  [friskymx]