Short documentary/story on BDSM

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  with finding what works for you. You seem very open minded and level headed about it all. Keep us posted with how it all goes.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Thanks for the video link Rauncyminx. I've had several Dom/sub relationships of various intensities and boundaries inside and outside the bedroom. Always willing to refine the artform. I reckon it is like any relationship. They work best when all parties are in tune with the others needs and their own needs, strengths and psychological hang ups. I read a boom once called "the Language of Love". It showed me that to fulfil your partner, you had to communicate with them in the style that they like to receive, not necessarily what you like to receive. A perfect example of this is the Dom/sub relationship or sadist/masochist relationship where it is obvious from the start that each likes to be appreciated (pleasured/recognised/loved) in polar opposite ways. Same result though...each are satisfied if the mutual understanding and respect is there. Good luck with your journey. You put the topic so eloquently! Silva

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Thank you Ralf74, it's been very fun so far! Hehe :-) Silva - it definitely works best when both parties are on board and can have their views listened too, because like mentioned in the video, its not just physical, the mind is very fragile and receptive to the domination and if that's disrespected and taken advantage of, it could cause serious damage. I'll have to have a read of that book, it does sound quite interesting. Looking forward to learning a few things! Thank you for the comment! - Posted from rhpmobile

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