M42
Should I? Is it worth it?
December 08 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've just looked over your profile (Mr Pup here) and from here you seem like a decent person, no oil painting but a kind face and I know a lot of people who find a kind face attractive. Is it worth paying for a membership? I'm not sure, depends what you're after and you'll need some replies from women to sort that one out. From your profile I'd think you'd be better off with the RSVP kind of thing where people are looking for more friendship/relationship kind of things. Maybe you can wink profiles you like and if you get lots of positive responses then give it a go. Best of luck
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RHP User
16 years ago
basically u signed up to this site for a reason. being a guest, u hardly get to use/enjoy the site to its full potential. so u've got nothing to lose, and potentially a lot to gain by signing up man. give it a crack. sign up for a month. do some good RHP'ing and then reasess. I was like u a while back man, and signed up and am enjoying it heaps more. maybe we should start a mentorship program? i wanna help this dude out. go get em tiger!
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RHP User
16 years ago
not at all, I think you're kind of cute. I don't think paying for a membership is going to make a difference - if I have ever responded to men on this site it's had nothing to do with their membership and everything to do with what they say in their messages plus what their profile pics look like.My suggestions:Always personalise your messages - read profiles, only respond to those that genuinely catch your attention and write something about what the profile has said and also write something about yourself. If you're responding to seriously hot chicks, trust me there is a line up of seriously hot men way ahead of you. Apologies if this seems blunt, but you could do with a makeover. Clothes that are a bit more stylish, a hair cut that is a bit more flattering, photos that are a bit more interesting.Guys often make the mistake of thinking this is a 'sex' site and they should be able to come on here and get a fuck. That's possible, sometimes, for some people, but mostly this is like any other way of meeting people - eg pubs etc. You need to connect, get to know each other be decent etc.Maybe you just want to get laid - if so, you're competing with HEAPS of men that want the same so you need to make yourself stand out somehow.Either way - whether you're looking to get laid or to connect, it's a number game. Come into hotchat and observe how people talk / get to know each other / hook up and give that a go maybe.Good luck :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
No...sorry to be blunt but you are most likely not going to get what you hope for just by becoming a member.However you are close to Melbourne which is an advantage. You are young which is both an advantage and disadvantage depending what you want. You have in your profile you are interested in trying a man but don't have men in your looking for. I reckon you probably would have more chance finding a man on here than a woman or couple so if you want to try that give it a go. I have nearly as many guys look at my profile as females/couples and I dont have them in looking for at all. Don't know why but maybe it will work to your advantage.I had a year membership and met 2 people. But I am older than you, live further from a city even though only 50km from Newcastle (although I was in Sydney for a 4 weeks and couldnt get any contact there either). So you have more going for you. You never know though, just expect nothing and anything more is a bonus.
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RHP User
16 years ago
There you go Kaiden, Ms lilmissfussy is hot stuff and she thinks you're cute so there's your answerHave fun kiddies :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
...and you can only give it a go! If you think a month of paid membership is going to get you laid though, well it's absolutely no guarantee it will happen. Will it give you more of a chance? Yes, I think that being able to send actually MESSAGES rather than flirt will give you more of a chance. You see, a lot of women on here are guest members themselves so unless they think you are so super special that they would use their one message a week to contact you then all you will ever do is send flirts back and forth. If I am to be brutally honest (warning...a bit of bitchiness coming out in me LOL) then if I get a flirt from a guest member guy, mostly if they are the 'message me' 'contact me' flirts, then I automatically assume that they are likely to be not only arrogant pricks who believe that they are Gods gift to women and are somehow worth my 1 message a week, but also that they are complete tightarses not willing to pay the X amount to message me if they're really that genuine and keen to meet. By the way, my little rant wasn't aimed directly at you Kaiden as you seem like a sweet and genuine guy, but just giving you a bit of an insight into my head and possibly other womens heads as well LOL.
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playfulminx
16 years ago
No point upgrading if you seriously believe that you're unattractive. I don't think you are but if you think so (which suggests insecurity), it'll come across to girls and they'll run a mile. Confidence wins! Upgrading just gives you a foot in the door, pushing it open is up to you.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Head to the pub,it will be money better spent. You will be socializing face to face with people who can see what you look like and judge your personality. Don't worry about being ugly just try to be funny, most people enjoy a good laugh and will warm to you.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Have a go Mate!!!! each to his or her own...This is not RSVP and NOR do I want it to be .... I have lovely friends on here and fussy has been on my hot list forever...she has the pulse of the nation.....but it takes time ..like all relationships and more so time to procure special ones ...sex is wherever you find it ....be open and honest in your bio....doesnt matter if your good lookin or not just be confident without being cocky Best of luck Atomic
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mate, I was a guest for about 9 months or so... and then I bought a membership. It is so much more convenient sending messages to whoever I want to, even if it is just to say gidday. Oh.. and checking out profiles the way people intend them to be reviewed.. i.e. without being censored.... it's worth two or three cartons of crown lagers per year isnt it? As for being more succesful... read this article.... http://www.redhotpie.co.uk/Article/Guys-Getting-your-profile-to-work-for-you-75
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RHP User
16 years ago
http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Article/Couple-Seeking-Single-Bi-Girl-712
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RHP User
16 years ago
http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Article/Guys-Getting-your-profile-to-work-for-you-75
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RHP User
16 years ago
To meet others, it is a good idea to go into the chat room and be respectful and courteous and make some friends on line first. Then turn cam ( dont wank) just talk and chat and meet other like minded adults in the room. Eventually, you will meet someone in person. Leesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
1...Profile and pics..( blunt here)...gotta agree with missfussy...haircut , clothes, attitude..That is going to get a woman interested...All about confidence..inner and outter..without being cocky!. I get heaps of hotties messaging or sending flirts to me...the flirts like .I'm not santa..or you, me whipped cream...they actually annoy me! too cocky!.. 2..forums and chatroom is a good place to make some friends...You never know...and yes get a cam..Don't have to wank on there..lol....Most girls actually like to see a face and chat.... I know I get my moods want to perve sometimes..sometimes I just want to have a nice chat and jokes with nice guys. wanking cams can get boring..lol..
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RHP User
16 years ago
I had a look at your profile...and i think lilmissfussy has given you some great advice...you seem very nice, but your profile isn't hugely positive...ya sort of seem ta run yaself down a bit...tell everyone what you would like, what you are good at and the type of people you would like to meet...and i think an upgrade is well worth the money...but...upgrading doesn't mean you'll get laid...the most important thing is that you are yourself and are honest...Cheers and wishing you lots of great fuc....err...luck...grinsJose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
pressed the enter button and wasnt finshed..lol.derrrr me.. 3...get dress up...smell great! and get to meet n greets...mingling with like minded souls..make some new friends. then when you brave..head to a swingers club..these places are safe....I have meet some lovely people there..didn't root them.just drinks and laughs.I have had fun!! Best of luck sweety....xxxxx asking for advice is always the best way to go.. positve ..positve... huggies.. sweetpetite41
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RHP User
16 years ago
From a females point of view I think lilmissfussy has hit the nail on the head. I think you could also be more confident in yourself women love a man that believes in himself and is confident in his ability (and not just in the bedroom) Focus on what makes you different from others and put that in your profile. Don’t just say you want to meet new people but explain what it is you are looking for... a lot of men cover all bases and write they are open to anything and like doing most things but there’s no harm in selecting what you like it won’t narrow the field for you it will only enhance your profile to others looking for the same. Tip: If you have paid membership the main benefit is you are higher up in the search priority listing and for a single you need to be out there as there are lots of you...that could get you closer to the action if you know what I mean. Hope that helps P.S. If I was looking for a single guy I’d wink you!
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RHP User
16 years ago
i was a paying member on here a while ago on my single profile (before i met my mate) when i was trial i would get favorable replies from ppl but when i could actualy email all those who said to contact it went silent, it was paying for being ignored.i would suggest, pay for a short time, get it out of your system, if it goes well keep upgrading if not , dont.its not cheep to upgrade and only worth it if you can get something out of it.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I signed up for a year for $99 or something. I've met up with a few people and even had sex with some of them. WOW! You've definitely got more going for you than lovenlust... I'll leave it at that. Web cam rooms are generally fun and good for a perve if you're feeling that way. From what I gather RHP is a lot cheaper than the other sites.
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RHP User
16 years ago
uh huh ... a man needs to smell nice ... you have my olfactory nerves buzzing now! It needs to be subtle in a 'stop me in my tracks' kind of way. I like natural scents such as essential oils rather than manufactured perfumes/colognes. And a little bit of mmmmm sweat goes down nicely too :D
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RHP User
16 years ago
of starting a new forum topic. So many guys ask why they aren't getting noticed via their profiles. Girls respond giving them tips etc but I think there might be merit in girls telling some stories about people they have met via RHP, what caught their attention, why they met etc. Maybe that will be helpful / interesting to guys. And besides ... I'm just bloody curious and nosy :PSo ... look for it in Girls Ask ... and girls, please jump in and share your stories!BTW - Ant, you crack me up xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Missfussy..I will look for this post and happily join in to share my thoughts.. positive postive huggies sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxx
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