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Should I share???
December 18 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your fantasy is a common one and one only you can decide on between yourselves. Having been the invited one for a secure couple in the past, Im speaking from experience. Although (she) was apprehensive and he unsure, it all turned out unreal in the end. So much so they are now good friends and call me if and when she' feels like being spoilt.. Thing is to be sure you can handle the reality of the whole thing.. Choose someone you feel at ease with who is happy to go along with what it is you want to experience.. and then accept it for what it is.. Meet for a coffee and get a feel for the person.. Done right... you will both be on a high for ages.. not to mention the kick start of your own sexlife... Hope this helps.. Jay...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Whatever it is YOU like....
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Don't rush into finding a third person to join in, take your time n develop friendships n trust! If you want to experience things you could try a swingers club like the couples club in Sydney!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Numbers, having your first threesome can be really daunting prospect especially as you have only been with each other. You need to consider lots of things including any jealousies which may come up. How will you handle that if it does. Rules of engagement... That is if one of you decide you are not comfortable at any time you can abort the whole plan. I can only speak from a women's perspective and my own experiences. Sometimes the reality can be very different to what you expect or how you always imagined it. I would think the first few times you will be feeling your way. I don't know anything about you but I reckon couples club maybe to much like throwing yourself in the deep end. I know it freaked me out a little the first time I went at the grand old age of 40. Otherwise I am sure you will find plenty of takers on RHP. So decide what you are looking for in a guy first and go for it. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
you're 24, and are in trouble already with this stuff?? god help ya's....I'd say just get out while you still can....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ghostbusters'you're 24, and are in trouble already with this stuff?? god help ya's....I'd say just get out while you still can.... He's in a bad mood ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
is this away to keep the relationship going or to enhance it? If you are needing this now, I am assumming that you have dated since school and you're getting bored as we all do. Lots of people get to their mid 40s to find themselves lost in their sexual needs in their relationship. Just remember to put each other 1st always or you could loose one another. Can you really see your partenr of so many years enjoying another person,and if they enjoy more with them? Wil you feel inadequate? Goodluck with whicheve journeyyou guys choose :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's a fantasy of theirs! Good god don't start putting those sorts of doubts into their heads.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ghostbusters' you're 24, and are in trouble already with this stuff?? god help ya's....I'd say just get out while you still can.... I'm with you on this one.....Good God - God help ya's well and truely!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Do what you feel is right...So many things to consider...best advice I can give is ask yourself...Is this for me??If your doing it for the other person - not a good choice.A threesome is something that can't be just raced into...BUT THEN AGAIN - How the heck would I know???..never had one..have been offered several times and for ME it's not just not ME..however I never judge others who have uncounted...if anything I have seeked and questioned to find out as much information as I could..I went away and processed and thought very deeply...still I came back with the same answer...NOT FOR ME!! It's a choice I made by myself...Maybe that is something you should consider???You've done the right thing by asking others on here all about it...best place to find out..GOOD LUCK and hope you find the answers your looking for.
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smo669
13 years ago
If you have an itch, scratch it, you'll never know if you never give it a go
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RHP User
13 years ago
we seem to be on the same page with this. Hope the negative few dont spoil for these guys. It's normal to feel daunted meeting your fantasy head on like this. My motto is, dont die wondering. Life is real, not a rehearsal. If they feel ready and secure with each other, the worse thing that can happen is to be disappointed.. but at least they tried. Jay
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RHP User
13 years ago
Is this Agony Aunt sexual column? What is with all the oldfashioned advice about relationships and sex? Lighten up a little people. This is a young couple who have NEVER been with anyone else. I say go for it. This is a fantasy and if you never go...then you will never never know! Obviously you both joined this site together, you both know this is what each other wants and that is what you are looking for....sometimes we overthink things and take all the fun out of life.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'It's a fantasy of theirs! Good god don't start putting those sorts of doubts into their heads. They already are having doubts or they wouldn't of asked. If it is their fantasy go for it. Yes my prior comment was of the negative kind, but I am a thinker and I go with what my gut tells me, and that was to warn this lovely couple to be sure. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Chew me!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Spank me more like GB. :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
Meeka busters......ooooo I'm here!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Starting to feel a little under dressed in this thread... Time to put some clothes back on.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...
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RHP User
13 years ago
yeah call this Aunty Dorothy Dix lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
From my opinion being the male its was a turn on for me,her to pick the male as long as you are ok with the male chosen ( I went for a male seen every so often ) but it was awesome on her part as we did double pussy much to his supprise and it was gr8. The night went for a couple of hour and I am positively (she said) sure she thought it was gr8 but she like to play reservesd a bit but I've known my wife for 15 or so years and she was wet as and even when he left I got fucked senseless and it was gr8.Be aware if you are a jealous guy do not do this at all. I am easy going bout this stuff and she could not handle it the other way around.Hope this helps.....................................
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RHP User
13 years ago
A cynical bastard I guess
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RHP User
13 years ago
best way to start, have a guy massage you, if he < partner> gets jealous ,, you can stop and later talk about.find out what you guys really want,happy massaging !!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I recently had coffee with a young couple who are in a similar situation,they are in their early 30s and have a young family. They have been on this site for a couple of months and are really taking their time to explore their options. These things are always tricky,I imagine you are both looking to enhance your relationship and certainly you would not be wanting to fracture it. It might be useful to contact an older couple who have experienced a similar journey and seek their advice.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Look, things got a bit weird and the goat escaped but she was loving it until that moment, and with no indication that the cash hidden deep in the closet containing the gimp had dodgy locks we did the best we could until the other girls arrived . That job she asked me to do was not as straightforward as we both expected. She wasn’t into it, there was a struggle, the situation escalated and somebody panicked. Next thing you know the Hot air ballon incident reared its ugly head and the shit hit the fan and man it was thick and had more straw in it than i recall from last time We followed the code red protocol as outlined in your manifest and I’m reasonably confident there will be no blowback on either of us. That being said, I suggest you delay your return from Nepal indefinitely and I will advise when all this has blown over. FYI, it required a significantly greater quantity of bleach than indicated in the “contingencies” section.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Here we have a couple looking for advice and its turned to friggin goats escaping.. That'll do me.. geezz.... Talk about mumbo jumbo... Think someone forgot to take the lil blue pills ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
if thats where you'd like to go, then yea...but advice would be to always always talk, make decisions together, and to both be able to veto any part of whats happening....dont lose sight of the fact that its you two....plus another. protect your own relationship first.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'wowwow11' Look, things got a bit weird and the goat escaped but she was loving it until that moment, and with no indication that the cash hidden deep in the closet containing the gimp had dodgy locks we did the best we could until the other girls arrived . That job she asked me to do was not as straightforward as we both expected. She wasn’t into it, there was a struggle, the situation escalated and somebody panicked. Next thing you know the Hot air ballon incident reared its ugly head and the shit hit the fan and man it was thick and had more straw in it than i recall from last time We followed the code red protocol as outlined in your manifest and I’m reasonably confident there will be no blowback on either of us. That being said, I suggest you delay your return from Nepal indefinitely and I will advise when all this has blown over. FYI, it required a significantly greater quantity of bleach than indicated in the “contingencies” section. Bloody Hell i have had aYuk day and that was Tops wowwow such a laugh so cheers Dont know what your on about and i dont think numbers 654 will know either but Keep that rolling in Mrs Alf
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey guys, If it is a fantasy of bth of you go for it, discuss it at length first, stay true to your rules and have fun. Rmpemeber it is about 2 of you and no one else. As for some of the other comments, they are talking about FUCKING not making love, very big difference. It seems you have been together long enough to be secure in your relationship. It Is annoying that people are still so closed minded that some think you can't have fun as a couple without their being some sort of hidden agenda. If it is what both want , do it, have fun and make sure you are both comfortable at all times. If at any time you feel uncomfortable stop! After all it is about you 2 and not the person you choose to play with. Leesa xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I assume that was the holy goat...or did ya wander into the wrong post AGAIN...I warned ya about doing that..it does people's head in.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You need to really honestly talk it over with your partner about it. That person should be in totally agreeable to the subject or it could cause you bad problems later that could wreck your relationship. Be careful. Talk to other couples that have been doing it for a while and are still together and happy. It is not for everyone
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rupamohan
13 years ago
and I am sure many swinger forums and so called experts must have given some standard answers...to generalize my guess is you want to find out... a) Do you really want to do it or it is just a fantasy? b) Are you capable of handling it? c) How to start? My guess is if you have good self control that is capabilty to stop where ever you want to stop.and your relationship is mature enough to share what you may eventually not like, even if your partner likes.....then .learning by practicals..is the best way. Start experiments stop where you want stop..that simple!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Are you going to be cool looking down at another guy buried balls deep into your missus and will you be cool when the expression on her face tells you she's loving it?. Some couples can handle this, some can't, I'm sure a fair few of the profiles only looking for females because the male of the couple wouldn't handle seeing his wife or partner with another man.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...if it did'nt excite you. He should look at it as having a friend to assist him to pleasure her. She should look at it as a gift from him' to experiment and add to her enjoyment... In other words, you must find common ground first then feel confident with your decision. It's always about you 2 first, and you should always treat it as a experiment. Yes' your invited friend will get to pleasure her and she receive pleasure from him ' if all goes to plan.. But thats what its all about.. If that didnt happen you wouldnt even think about it..We successfully experienced this on 2 occassions.. All went well as expected...PS.. SINGLE GUYS... this is not a invite' so please dont send us something in hope... it wont happen unless we pick you.
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