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Single Straight Guys overlooked
January 30 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
I prefer single straight guys for one on one - preferably with an open mind and an understanding of boundaries. My fantasy is for me with 2 straight guys who show absolutely no interest in each other and lavish their attention on me. ;) Single guys may have a bad rep if they are the ones that send a message that says 'hey wanna fuck' or words of that ilk....Not all single men are sleazes... Attached men? Most women here seem to want single? Less complicated.... Just my thoughts..... :)
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Katkat
9 years ago
You're just missing out the good stuff that we missed out in our younger years I was also married for 17yrs recently separated you're obviously exploring & catching up on things that you never done before. You probably haven't met much yet but you will eventually in your life take it easy and hold onto your horses 🐴. You're a good looking man I don't think you would have a problem finding playmates may be attend few parties on RHP that should blow your mind also FWB is also good. Happy hunting & all the best! - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
I'd say it's because there is so many straight single guys that you are competing with. Being single is never a problem. I've never seen much demand for a guy from a couple either. And if you are, in your words, a sleaze then I'd say there is your problem. Maybe learn how to suck dick and kiss guys and pop that in your resume or just leave it to the guys that are brave and genuine enough that say they can if the moment is right. There aren't that many........
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RHP User
9 years ago
Or both? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well we prefer a straight guy over a bi anyday. The demand is there for single guys but couples can be picky cause there is a huge crop to pick from. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Firstly, plenty of single ladies here are looking for single straight men. I generally avoid couples (can be too much drama) and I don't have any experience with bi men so I don't specifically seek them. But calling yourself "sleazy" isn't going to help your cause. Hahaha! You're putting a negative spin on what you are doing and there's nothing negative about it! Be comfortable and confident in what you want. Seeking women for consensual, casual sex is perfectly ok. That's what we are here for! Enjoy! But remember that there are hundreds of other single straight guys here too, your competition is huge. Don't stress, my advice is to go along to some clubs/events/parties, and meet people face to face. Good luck xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'd take out any reference to your ex. Ladies on here don't want to know you were in a 16 year relationship, and you are basically bad mouthing your ex by saying you plenty of chances at a threesome but she doesn't want willing. That makes you sound like a bit of a knob. 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
by most women & couples. You are generalising in our opinion. Perhaps you just have not found the right female / couple ? We have met a few really nice single guys on here, face to face . We have also met some really nice single women and couples, again face to face . On the flip side of the coin we have also experienced some really bad ones. Thankfully, before we actually met them in real life. You will need to accept the fact that single guys profiles, on RHP, outnumber couples & single females at a high rate. You will thus have a lot of competition. That's a given. Perhaps your lack of success,on here, is as a result of your profile wording, preferences, and your way of messaging/replying to others ? Bear in mind that just because you are on an adult dating / sex /swingers site, does not guarantee you any action at all. We find that it is best to have no expectations at all. Consider changing your profile wording a little. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
After reading your profile Op. 100 % agree with KissKiss & Annie's remarks. Your profile needs serious work. Definitely agree that any reflection on a failed marrige screams baggage... Change your word's and express what your looking for in a prospective lover. You have also limited your search for women as alot won't see a smoker and nor would I. As a fellow single gentleman on the pie without sounding full of myself I've had some great contact with single women. (Some will only play at functions as KissKiss mentioned.Go there.) Must be how your coming across.? Don't be pushy or rude ! and just a tip if your going to post a topic, Make it positive & fun to read. If you bring up a topic saying why don't i get this or that you'll be opening yourself up to be judged & profile scrutinized, Which you will be now.lol Any reason you take them to a hotel and not back to your place? Women after awhile might want to see your aboad or become suspect your still married. 😂 Personally I'd invite them back home for a Moccona or beverage. (late checkouts available) At least they know your honest and have nothing or no one to hide. If they prefer a hotel room at least you've offered them a alternative... ☕🍾🍷🍸🍹🍺 Hope this advice helps.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm going to go out in a limb here.... and suggest that the attitude which caused you to write "i'm being a bit sleazy and having a crack at many women on RHP"..... just might be a significant part of your frustrations. Just a thought. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
And if the ex wasn't willing...... ....you didn't have the 3some chances you say that you did. You had hopes. High ones. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I prefer single straight guys. I don't want to meet couples or bi guys. When you say "sleazy" that is a big turn off to most women we dont really like sleazy guys. Women on rhp have lots of guys to pick from so you need to try and stand out from them all. Your profile is good, great pics but get rid of the reference to your ex. Good luck on here.😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Single straight men get overlooked all the time! When is society going to wake up to our suffering! Ok, on a more serious note, your expectations are probably what's bringing you unstuck. If you're hoping RHP is going to be an endless stream of women gagging for cock, and you'll be gleefully struggling to come up for air, that's not going to happen. But if you engage with specific women that you genuinely think you might have something in common with, and if you establish a connection with them, then RHP is great. I'd lose the bit about threesomes from your profile though. every straight, single man is into threesomes. But they don't happen because you advertise about them online, they happen when you've established that aforementioned connection with someone, and then start talking about your fantasies and desires together.
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madotara69
9 years ago
Tara would scroll straight past you, no offence intended, just she likes to see eyes and a nice big cheeky smile, something about those pearly whites get's her fizzing at the bung, maybe she see's a fun sorta guy that may tickle her fancy. Food for thought ? Mado Mado Tara xx
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
"Give you hours of oral pleasure..........." Seriously.........
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RHP User
9 years ago
Fresh meat.... You've already pinned yourself as self confessed playa Hahahaha Any hole is a goal..... How special the ladies must feel when you message them.... You just made my day funny again Hahahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
9 years ago
Speak for other men, if I were you, playnow77! If you want to whine about your not-so-successful experience on Pie, make it your own only and don't speak for others! 🙃 I was never looking for bi men, or men in a couple, before I removed myself off the market! And if I was to become single and looking again, I would still prefer to meet straight single men (as that is where my experiences hold). So, I don't know why you think that straight single guys are overlooked?! 🤔 of course, you can argue that you're talking from your experiences, playnow77, but is the core issue really lies with the ladies, who rejected your offer, or is it the way you approach them? I would say it could be the combination of both! But then, we cannot control how other people want to behave, or receive our messages, but we can manage our own behaviour and approach. So why not start reflecting on how you write your messages, how do you approach those women of your interest, to begin with, instead of taking the blame on women by saying that they overlook straight single guys? 🙄 Like I always say to others, be sure to know your target audience and only pursue with those whose selection criteria are matching yours! It doesn't have to be 100% matching, but what you both looking for must be a close match, otherwise how do you ignite the sparks? 🤔 If I was still in the game now, and see forum threads like yours, I would definitely pass up on profiles like yours! Why? Because whinging and complaining aren't attractive, and they are indeed a deal breaker to me! Surely, I won't be the only woman in here that find people who are whinging and complaining a turn off, right? 🤓 Food for thought, playnow77? 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Laughing. Please let me. Please..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I agree with most of what has been said on this topic but lets face it , with a ratio of at least 20+ guys to one woman , 2.3couples and .05 TG plus the psuedo profiles ( made up ... ) the chances of a guy actually getting a response to a message , let along actually meeting with anybody on here , Is very limited in the extreme.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Another profile edit to consider. The flip side of making the rather silly ego compelled brag that women "won't be disappointed".... is that you believe that women HAVE been disappointed before.... and no doubt disappointed by men who think a woman won't be disappointed. 2c - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Thanks for your feedback guys, I really appreciate it and have made changes to my profile based on your remarks. (Let me know what you think please)☺️ I'm honestly new to this online thing as the last time I was single it didn't exist. I suppose I'm still of the old school mindset of relying on physical attraction in a real life scenario as apposed to seducing a woman with words first up. I get it now though! ☺️ Just to clear up a few points that I originally wrote, I'm not actually being sleazy towards woman on here, what I meant was that compared to my natural style in a bar situation, I'm naturally quite shy to make the initial approach however on here I'm not holding back and that's not me because I've always looked for quality over quantity! I was lucky enough to hook up with a beautiful 26yr old woman on here and we had a raunchy encounter where she later complimented me on being a true gentleman be it a very naughty one! 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I loved the single straight guys when I was single! As do most of my friends....you should be in Perth :) Seriously its the same old fact that there are heaps of guys to every one woman. Women can be very choosy. Even if its a different story in real life. So just persevere, have a look on the Events pages and good luck!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I know people don't like to judged,coached or other's given advice.Each to there own there opinion. After looking at your profile again it still reads out Playa. Having a quiet giggle inwards I think of the thread on player. You might want to check it out. Keep your profile name if it reflects who you are 😂, but makes you come accross as your only out to fuck,wipe your dick on the hotel sheets and run off. Some chick's will go for that but most wouldn't guessing.They may prefer getting to know you a little before But I'm not a women so probably get run through the coals on that one here. Your profile still screams I'm hell bent finding that elusive 3some. Word your profile so it states e.g I'm looking to find a open minded women who'd like to explore her and my boundaries. ? You have reduced your wording on your profile and put very little on what your looking for.Another red flag as how is she going to match up if she doesn't know what your look for. ? Try to get a few mixed pic's Just my view m8. Use your head when you think how you come accross. You know the big one on top of your head ? 😉😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
Drop me a line, you guys are greatly appreciated. Please don't be discouraged. Femme 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
...straight, single men. If I do not respond, it's not because of that. Usually, it's because they haven't bothered to read my profile for a general idea of what I'm looking for, they appear to be players so I give a wide berth, and/or they are downright sleazy.
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RHP User
9 years ago
We took a lot of time writing our profile. We have described ourselves in some detail, and have described what we are looking for in a lot of detail - especially when it comes to single guys. Yet 9 out of 10 messages we get from guys are so far off the mark that we simply delete them. Poor spelling and grammar. No punctuation. No real content at all other than "hey wanna chat" or "hey wotcha up to this weekend". As if the odds aren't stacked against them enough purely by numbers, that slim chance becomes zero chance. Moral of the story: read the person/couple's profile, only message them if you genuinely match what they are looking for, and craft your message to suit the profile, and make yourself sound like a person with a brain! Combine this with a thoughtful, well-written profile and some high quality photos, and you're in with half a chance. - Posted from rhpmobile
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