M45 F49
Single girl or realy a couple?
April 23 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
not that I'm looking for single girls but fake or false profiles shit me. Its the same with guys who have single profiles but are actually on here as a couple as well. Who wants to have to maintain more that one profile.........must have too much free time lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
If you cant be honest and say you are a couple then there must be a problem....dont waste the honest people's time!!It's Worse than single girls talking themselves up, wanting to watch you on cam and then never actually wanting to meet up!You guys know who we are talking about as do all our friends!!RHP is a small world and reputations spread fast ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
but what you guys said
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RHP User
16 years ago
Annoying to say the least...
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RHP User
16 years ago
have to agree...T and J...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Actually the usual response from those types are 'I used to be single and just keep the profile so I can chat to my friends'...Well the answer to that is that they can chat as a couple as well so get rid of the single profile. It is annoying, even ones that say attached but only play as a couple, well same again...you are a couple stop trying to be something you are not. Then there are the deluded ones that have Men in there seeking column and state they do not want to meet single males...ummm...last time I checked that is men. If they aren't single they are a couple. Maybe the IQ quotient of some of those people is somewhat below the standard average. You know the people you have to tell them 4 times how to do something and they still do it wrong. Ok...off my high horse...
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RHP User
16 years ago
yes we agree. but it more annoying when they don,t say anything in there profile there a couple to you send them a msg then they tell there a couple. it so annoying man. rhp should make them into a couple profile if they say in there profile they only with there partner.
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2more4fun
16 years ago
Yes, I have a single female profile on here but I state clearly that I am attached and I am not seeking other couples on it. I have it so that my chances of meeting women who want some one-on-one fun is bettered. It is also easier for me to check out single guys via my single female profile rather than my couple account inundated with messages from guys that my partner may or may not want to read/reply to.I might also add that both of our accounts are upgraded but I would still feel entitled to have one even as a Guest. I don't muck couples around by suggesting that I might want to meet them. Perhaps couples seeking single women should use the Advanced search and only look for women who are listed as single. Most of us couples with a female account list ourselves as attached.Finally, if you come across female profiles where it states that she won't meet people AT ALL without her partner or they tell you via messages, let RHP know. Pretty sure they'd be happy to axe the account.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Those that have single F profiles that contain a phrase such as "wont meet / play without my husband / boyfriend" are just simply not single females, I would suggest more than a third, most likely half.
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RHP User
16 years ago
This practice should be stopped, it just wastes everyones time. We just block idiots who post as a single woman..its a shame RHP dont too. BE HONEST PLEASE Neo and Trinity
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RHP User
16 years ago
but it wouldnt particularly worry me in any case. I hate Fakers, but its them that are the losers. I cant see the point anyway. Nobody cams one way, and if you meet up with someone not matching their profile its pretty much a wasted effort on their behalf. Ill still move on.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Capital' does any couple who have a single F profile have anything to say??, in the past ive seen explanations of yes we have a couples profile and a single F profile', could you tell us why??We both have individual profiles as well as our couples profile and the reason is this: our couples profile we work on together and look for other like minded couples to meet/play and our individual ones are for finding solo fun, on our individual profiles we clearly state married and hubby even has a validation on his from me stating that he is playing with my blessing.This gives us both a lot of opportunities to explore different experiences, we have found that most couples do not want to full swap or play alone and we respect that so that is why we do solo dates as well, so far it has been fun and we are always honest with people about where we are at with things and that we also play solo i , don't see the harm in that.However i did get some interest on my individual profile from a 'female' profile but the message was from the man of the couple and he said that they couldn't change the profile, my question there is, why would you need to change it? why not set it up as a couple to begin with?? this smelled a little fishy to me hence i gave a polite 'no thank' and i did find that frustrating. There are so many fakes on here that is true however there are also some really great, fun & genuine people on here as well so 3 cheers to them and lets all just have a great time
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RHP User
16 years ago
We couln't agree more. When we have come across profiles of "single women" who insist on the partner being there and they don't have a couples profile we will not progress any further with them. This site is riddled with time wasters and it is not RHP's fault but people who are simply misleading. As stated above, if you will only play as a couple...GET A COUPLE PROFILE!! If you are a couple who think the female partner can play single for a while then lure the woman into you both as a couple...GET A LIFE and treat people with a little respect!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey I understand where you are coming from, but then I have a question how do people like me (F) seek a bi relationship when I have a couple profile? I would love to hook up with a Bi girl for some fun. Do I need to add a single profile too??
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RHP User
16 years ago
we met thru this site so we both had a single profile each before we became a couple we still have our single profiles active and we are up front and dont hide anytihng our single profiles do meantion we are in a relationship and we also have listed on it our paying couples profile name i have found profiles of single girls that couples are using to get a free profile that state we and us all thru it and i report them to rhp as it annnoys me we pay for ours so they should pay too i can also name at least one profile of a so called single profile that has pics of the husband on it too they pay for the single girl profile and keep thier couples profile a guest member you ask why .... well the only answer i can think of is that everyone searches for single girls first then look for couples and then maybe single guys lastour single profiles are guest profiles and we rarely check them and have had our single profile both over five years we have only been together two years and have had a paid couples profile the whole time
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RHP User
16 years ago
a setting to put if you are attached or not i have made a singles account for uploading pics onto hot pics and love looking at the red hot pics but i have put myself as attached on this profile so that people know... it is only a click of a button to find out if the girl is attached or not i do that before i send out any flirts and it saves alot of time being rejected
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have a fem profile but we also have a male one too. No we dont play alone but we are individuals. We mainly have the fem one to use the chat feature IF we wanted/needed to and convey the fact that I want to meet people and play just as much & if not more then hubby. We also understand peoples frustrations but RHP bring this on themselves by giving fem profiles more features than males. That only encourages people to have fem profiles...
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RHP User
16 years ago
A few days ago I created this profile, I am part of a couple AmoreWA. I was interested to just see the reaction people would have to me as a guy seeking women for meets outside of our relationship. Now this was not just an experiment as we have tried to do this with the couples profile with little success. Now when a woman who is in an open relationship seeks others to play with it is found to be very acceptable and even encouraged, but interestingly the number of women on this site that have become rude and intollerant in responses to my flirts was increadible. I even went to the extent of opologiesing to one person through our paid couples site for her to come back and abuse me even more.My point in this is to point out the double standard, if the males were equally setting up singles profiles as part of a couple and then informing the interested party that he doesn't play alone there would be an outcry louder than the last AFL Final and the practice would be stopped.Here I have set up a profile that is interested in playing alone and as males we still get abused. For all you single guys out there that are genuinely trying to meet someone my heart goes out to you. For those with the prudish please have a good look at the site you are on, this is not eHarmony
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was a long time RHP visitor and member, and did well in the beginning, made some good new friends and it was money well spent. Then it slowly but surely became a cliquey bitch-fest with never ending complaints over, well, crap like this, with little groups of the "Hot" and popular people supporting each other regardless of how irrelevant or stupid thier position was. Still see some of the friends I made but most have also now dropped off RHP! Won't bother coming back again, if I wanted to be bored by petty, meaningless, arguements between immature people I'd have become a School teacher.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I kept my Single Profile for plain convenience 4 me, I've been usin the name here a couple of years, but made it really clear that tho I do play alone it was only after we'd both agreed the guy or couple was OK, I think anything else is plain stupid and way too risky. If the 2 or 3 seconds it took to read that far into my profile really inconvenienced anyone I'm sorry but if you can't spare a few seconds do you really have time to waste on this site? Now I'm leaving RHP, my partner too, for a few months so it doesn't matter anyway. If we come back it'll be as a couple. ps: I've changed my profile to make it even clearer to those who couldn't get it B4.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am just looking for some fun GAY STRAIGHT OR BI!!! it doesnt matter send me a line
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hmmm sure I fit one of those so why don't you message me.......
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've sent out like 100 messages and haven't hear back from any of them
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi I am a married lady who won t play without her hubby but has an individual profile. I am on here as am new to all this and am trying to find my confidence with chats etc before deciding if i want to move it further. I do not think I am wasting anyone s time. It cleary states on my profile what i am looking for.
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
It's just straight out dishonesty...if people can't be upfront on their profile, imagine the issues if you meet them???If the person/s in a couple want to have solo profiles..that's cool but that should mean they play solo & not have a littleclause somewhere in the fine print saying if you want them you must also take on the mysterious invisible other half...what does he or she have to hide...two heads? LOL Time wasters!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
we have been on here for a couple of years now.We have had many replies and have sent messages to many "single" females. It doesnt take long to find out there are men. So dissappointing. So many cancel everything when you ask to speak on phone. What can you do?We are over it!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
yes yes yes it so annoying. we feel like telling them to get a couple one but then it sounds so rude and we think like half of the girls are like that.
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RHP User
16 years ago
LOL you are about to have your mailbox scream FULLLLLLLLL at you ! It is frustrating but I will get missnaughty1975 to tell yallllll about that ! Brae
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RHP User
16 years ago
"I am here to play by myself, but my man is such a stud, you wont be able to resist him" "I'm a single girl looking to play with single girls, I am not interested in your man but will only play with my man present" "I'm not interested in couples or single guys.....I only play with my man present" ......I wonder if they get paid for the advertisement for their man? LOL And pimping out their boyfriend..... These are just a few of my favourites!!!!!LOL, These are some of the messages I get sent from single girls to my singles profile which very clearly states my desire to play only with a sexy female (ALONE) I have a single girls profile as I like to play alone with girls. Happy to play alone Have a couples profile for the times when I want to play with my partner I now just block them Sarah
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RHP User
16 years ago
just give the profile name to RHP they will change it to COUPLE they are sick of these time wasters as are we....its simplely called FALSE advertising.. surely you can mention "iam available to play alone" on your couples page? we dont want to play with a girl or guy whos cheating or doent want to admit they have a partner??? B and K :>
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RHP User
15 years ago
Gah! This is one thing that kinda ticks me off about swinging/adult dating sites...the dishonesty that seems to come with the territory makes things...uh...difficult.If you are going to make a good first impression, I think it pays to be honest. Nothing screams seedy like a 'single' lady asking you in a date with the hubby. ...and yes. I am attached...on a single profile that says that I am attached...and not looking for a couple...just a single girl to play with....oh the humanity!
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RHP User
15 years ago
hi Yes we have found the same thing when we search for single girls. We added someone to our msn and when we were talking to her we found out that she had a boyfriend who wanted in on the action too. We are also looking for couples but i dont like to be mislead. She had a single profile and turned out that they would only play together. My husband allows me to play alone with single girls but we have put a couples profile on here aznd have paid for it as well. We agree entirely with what you have said and also get annoyed by this. K&K xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
OP, sorry we can't all be loaded and afford to drop $100+ at the drop of a hat for membership sorry but all i see here is typical upper class people that not only look better then the average person but also have a lot more money then the average person STRAIGHT OUT: My missus works her butt off to keep us going in the crap times, while i search for work YET AGAIN (LIFE SUCKS) so when the time comes and i have work the first thing i am going to do being the decent human i am is catch up on what i owe and not throw my hard earned cash at a dating site, where from what we is in easy 80% plus full of superficial people that not only WON'T reply to us but would never even take the time ti message or flirt us hope the mods post this time for some real truth on here
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RHP User
15 years ago
If you're playing as a couple and only play as a couple then get a couples account. Otherwise I think it's OK for the attached men and women out there with individual agendas as long as it's clearly stated in their profile. I couldn't think of anything worse then getting involved with a supposed single only for it to end in a giant mess because they're involved with someone else and didn't tell us. Oh the horror!I'm sorry Hot_Horny_Pair - we all seem like typical upper class people? That'll get you laid.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm not sure if you have understood that the OP is talking about female profiles that upon closer scrutiny turn out to be cpl profiles... the OP's reference to paying for a membership is aimed at those same couples who it is likely sign up as females to use the benefits of female profiles... and mislead those who are looking for single females.Mrs P'
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