Single girl turns up with a male partner

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Then the fuck buddy turns up and says beautiful single girl's mum's dog has chicken pox but he's still good to go. I think he's cracked the code.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Gosh thats bloody rude. And so wrong in so many ways. Lucky it hasnt happend to us. Really feel for you both. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  We declined to meet and she pulled the pin as well We had travelled organised a hotel to stay in and were left very flat. Recently had that again on the weekend when suddenly she couldn’t make it but he was happy to come and meet us and let her know we are a real couple? Honestly is this just guys pretending to be a girl or couple?

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  DynamicCouple36

  7 years ago

  If not, it was most probably a guy posing as a single female. We have experienced that several times on this site - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Dirtyandfriendly

  7 years ago

  Did you speak to them on the phone?

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Protecting herself by bring a friend perhaps? But you immediately pull the pin without asking if that was the case?

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  What I meant was that perhaps she was bringing him just for the initial meet up until she knew she felt comfortable with you.

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  pauls1

  7 years ago

  How frustrating Xena Two in a row as well - Posted from rhpmobile

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  pauls1

  7 years ago

  How frustrating Xena Two in a row as well - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Always phone chat first!! As someone who is happy to join couples I won't interact with the guy before meeting, i need to know they are real and will phone chat with her. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Our process is we try get eveyone involved in a kik group chat as a pre-screen and then a phone call for further verification. Sounds like you were chatting to a single guy or a guy driving the engagement at least. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Feel your pain. We’ve had exactly your second episode that happened, to us three times now. Same as you, travelled, paid for accommodation. The last supposed ‘couple’ the girls chatted first but it was very quick dis-jointed call that then ‘dropped out’. We gave them the benefit of the doubt and then after waiting for an hour at the meet point got the ‘shes Got a headache’ message, oh, but I can still come. We actually stripped our profile and gave up for a couple of years from that. Back now but very cautious and still debating wether to pay back up to a premium account.

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  horneycouplewa

  7 years ago

  We have been in the same boat with guy's and couples.I like to cam on kik or WhatsApp so I can see exactly who I am talking too now as I'm so over the no shows and fakes. Although I have video chatted with guy's and that doesn't guarantee that they will show up :(We have also learnt to have a backup plan if we are spending money on hotels and arrange for a night that something good is on at a club or a party or mostly now we have our own small parties of 4-6 couples then if they don't show it's their loss for a fun night...….seems to have worked much better for us.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Quoting 'CuriousCrumpet' Feel your pain. We’ve had exactly your second episode that happened, to us three times now. Same as you, travelled, paid for accommodation. The last supposed ‘couple’ the girls chatted first but it was very quick dis-jointed call that then ‘dropped out’. We gave them the benefit of the doubt and then after waiting for an hour at the meet point got the ‘shes Got a headache’ message, oh, but I can still come. We actually stripped our profile and gave up for a couple of years from that. Back now but very cautious and still debating wether to pay back up to a premium account. We got the hubby has fallen asleep maybe next time which was so frustrating as we had met and chatted to themWe actually think they wernt even staying at the same place but well played by them

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  DynamicCouple36

  7 years ago

  We ensure that they come to a venue / location that we were going to in any event. That way, if they don’t pitch up, it is no loss for us and we simply enjoy the night regardless. Travelling long distances, booking a hotel room and incurring expenses , on the strength of an unknown entity (from here) is far too risky. We assume, from the onset, that they are fake and won’t pitch up. If they do pitch up it’s a bonus :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Quoting 'DynamicCouple36' We ensure that they come to a venue / location that we were going to in any event. That way, if they don’t pitch up, it is no loss for us and we simply enjoy the night regardless. Travelling long distances, booking a hotel room and incurring expenses , on the strength of an unknown entity (from here) is far too risky. We assume, from the onset, that they are fake and won’t pitch up. If they do pitch up it’s a bonus :) - Posted from rhpmobile That would be great if there were always events on but we dont like clubs and parties and prefer a more private settingwe are learning slowly but thats what lifes about

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  Dirtyandfriendly

  7 years ago

  I had this happen a few times and I always talk to the man and when I won't go any further I tell him I need to talk to her as well, they always say "why?" or "well I'm the one organising it" and I am 99.9% right he is just looking for a thrill of someone wanting his partner and just want to talk about it. You learn after a while.

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  DynamicCouple36

  7 years ago

  We were not referring to events nor parties (we seldom go to these). We were simple referring to an evening out - restaurant , cocktail lounge or even a nice hotel room (if we were spending the night /couple of nights away ) We still ensure that they make the effort and drive to see us, and never the other way round. If they are unwilling to make the effort, then how will they respect our wishes & boundaries. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  DynamicCouple36

  7 years ago

  “Ensure” may sound too strong & demanding , so let’s rephrase it before we upset the “bandwagon brigade” :) If someone really wants to meet up with us (this applies to a first meet) then we give them a choice / place the ball in their court, to meet us at a venue of our choice . They have a choice to come to where we were going in any event (usually a sexy little cocktail lounge / bistro ) . We don’t force them , we simply give them the choice. If they really want to meet us, we feel that they will make the effort. This quickly sorts out the time wasters and the fakes, whilst at the same time ensuring that we are not inconvenienced by the “ no shows “ . It has worked well for us as those that have gone to the effort have, more than often, turned out to be compatible people. :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  DynamicCouple36

  7 years ago

  The above applies to someone who has contacted us and shown an interest in meeting us. If we initiate contact with someone that we want to meet, we will naturally meet them at a venue of their choice if they prefer, but only after we have verified that they are real. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I tried with the ex in the past. I think definitely if you could a video call. I have had people have photos that are ten years old and barely realised its the same people were going to meet. Its seems that allot of couples that are heavier than their photos.

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