RHP

RHP User

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Single guys Guests no picture?????

September 05 2019

I know wht RHP want guys to join but honestly no pic and guests and send the flirts!!!So annoying. We dont even reply to them as its giving us nothing to go off. Profile isnt filled out no pic and guests arrrggggh.Am i being to hard?Hxxx

Comments

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    6 years ago

    Couples are just as guilty on this one sweetsensual... Or maybe one generic pic and no written blurb. It's like trying to draw blood out of a stone at times. We're a bit more easygoing on new members with no pics if they've gone to the trouble of filling out a profile and are a bit nervous about pics. People join not really having any idea what the site or the lifestyle is about, so we can sort of understand it to a point. The "Damn you're hot! What do you think of me" flirt is sort of weird from a profile without a pic. Sort of flattering, but a little bit like getting wolf whistled at while you're walking down the street 😐

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    You're not being too hard. Annoying and creepy. These sites should all make it mandatory to have pictures. Clogs up the site and IMO allows creepy or criminal activity ie stalking and catfishing, people cheating on their partners and putting up singles profiles. Just block them. Block every single generic profile. Fuck the creepers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Alot of woman profiles are the same. Get over it. Talk about sweating the little things in life.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    It's not just the single guys, there are a lot of single woman guest profiles with no information or picture on them as well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I don’t reply to flirts or messages from paid members without photo either. As a guest I also cannot see restricted profile photos. Since I cannot see them, are they the explicit ones e.g. dick pic for your profile pic? If yes, I’m glad I’m a guest. No one wants to get a flirt from a cock-head.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I don’t think you’re being too hard at all...people (singles or couples) can’t have their cake and eat it as well. You either want to put yourself out there or you don’t... That said, I’m not too invested into my experiences here or anywhere else to really let this kinda stuff get to me....the reality really is you can’t change how others present themselves to you, you can only really choose whether you take their offer up or leave it....

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    Not harsh at all. Couldnt agree more. Annoying as all shit.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I tend not to reply either for the exact same reasons. I've also noticed that a couple of them have the exact same description definitely avoid those as it smells of catfishing to me.

  • ReyandJean

    ReyandJean

    6 years ago

    We don't pay attention to no photo minimal profile flirts. Always skeptical of "couples" profiles with one picture of a woman sans head. Too lazy to reverse search the image. We just assume fake until the couple shows up at a party.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I don't care what you say your job is, there is no reason not to have pics on RHP. If you are so concerned about your Mum or Boss seeing you on a "dating" site, put them in one of the free private albums.

  • thecatsmeowaus

    thecatsmeowaus

    6 years ago

    Ignore, delete and move on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Not just single gys. Just as many single women with no pics. And couples. I just looked at my "who viewed me list" theres 30 views in a row and only two profiles have pics. All 28 profiles say no photo! I dont think anyone is putting pics up anymore. Only pg pics that noone wants to share really.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    We get plenty of flirts and messages from profiles like that. When bored, I reply! One we often get is; “I think you are hot, what do you think of me?” No photos. So I reply; “I think you are, empty.” Then I get a grumpy response that makes me laugh : )

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    For not displaying my face here. In real life ' i have a public profile and protecting that is more important to me than pleasing the few who ill never meet anyway ? However ' l do have pic's in my Private Gallery which i do release to those i want to release it to. If that reduces my chances of meeting someone who insists on pic's up front ? Then so be it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    No pic, no details and no message - no reply.

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    6 years ago

    justjess99, the exact same

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    6 years ago

    *description comes from using the auto fill when they're setting their profiles up. Not catfishing, but definitely a whole new thread on its own!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Male, female, couple or otherwise... I don't like to discriminate... 🍑

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    So no-one has bothered to explain they rated your profile picture as hot in the Hot or What? feature on the amateur pics page and that's the flirt sent if the box is ticked? LMAO. Hilarious. 🍑

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Are far more capable than same same write ups which has been explained above. We've had people with multiple profiles with different pics of different people, all verified and they only got busted because they posted that there was a person like that, they just didn't explain they were talking about themselves at the time. Busted, and busted several times since. People can be nasty as fuck. 🍑

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    A lot of people post that we have to have a pic no matter what but in this PC age, it's also dobbers you have to worry about. Careers and reputations can be ruined in this oh so PC age we're moving ever deeper into. We have read of these sorts of effects in the forums. Discretion is a thing for a reason. I wouldn't answer the flirts if they don't provide enough to go in their profile. But I'd have written that proviso in my profile too and consider then that if they haven't read it I can in all good conscience ignore.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I'm on another site where it's a whole lot worse than here. Only about 10% of male profiles have pictures and those that do only ever have one bad dark main pic. Lots of scrolling last night because their search filters aren't as good either, had me give it up as a bad joke. I don't usually search but thought I would give it a whirl. Waste of time. So other sites aren't any better

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Or the couples who message ask for pics and can’t show one lol Honestly lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Think what you like, cast all the nasturtiums you want, it’s my call how I use any site I like. I’m on one site looking for a specialty, I don’t need a shotgun profile. I could just as easily rip anyone a new one over the way they use this site and all the others their on under different guises if I was a mean cunt, but I’m not so each to their own. And before you suggest it Fetlife is a dead end. I’ve used a lot of dating sites over the last decade and some of my best experiences have come from photo free profiles. A road less travelled. So stick your judgment up your arse and lick your fingers.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Quoting 'usebi' Think what you like, cast all the nasturtiums you want, it’s my call how I use any site I like. I’m on one site looking for a specialty, I don’t need a shotgun profile. I could just as easily rip anyone a new one over the way they use this site and all the others their on under different guises if I was a mean cunt, but I’m not so each to their own. And before you suggest it Fetlife is a dead end. I’ve used a lot of dating sites over the last decade and some of my best experiences have come from photo free profiles. A road less travelled. So stick your judgment up your arse and lick your fingers. Charming

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    A snapshot of my last 30 visitors to my profile ( the section directly under your profile box on the full site). Of the 30, 21 had no profile pic. Of these, 2 couples and 19 males. Not sure what that means really, maybe a shitload of people wasting a shitload of their time and ours.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Being viewed by someone a few times with no.pic....click on their profiles and youre either blocked or they have the profile on " hidden" mode.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    9 couples, 6 women, 5 men, all photographed. And the stand out repeat visitor is not a forum poster and is nothing like what I’m looking for, at least on the surface. Go figure. 🤔

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    You were 1 of the single males on said list. Go figure.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Won’t happen again. 😃