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Single guys. The lepers of the swinging scene.
July 01 2018
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
:) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Have leprosy ?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
To me swinging is about couples swinging swapping partners Single guys I don’t classify as swingers as single guys wil shag a whole in a wall lol Your not a leper you just don’t appear on my radar after a string of disappointments lies no effort rudeness no shows did I mention lies again! Oh and single guys lie
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well sounds like all single men are not put into the same colony as you may think Paul213. There are other colonies that desire single men Single guys play a massive part in the swinger scene. Some are needed and desired by single women and couples.
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Rlee552
8 years ago
P.M.S.L
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RHP User
8 years ago
I know some amazing guys and a few of them regularly meet with couples. It comes down to the kind of man he is. Someone who has on his profile "My fantasy is to fuck other guys wives" wont get much of a look in. A guys reputation goes a long way, if he is genuine and respectful then he wont be short of company. Again, some men think by signing up to RHP that they will have unlimited sexual encounters with singles, couples and groups.
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
that don't know how to hold a conversation or be sociable.
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RHP User
8 years ago
A suit and a perm trying to “out class” everyone. Use your fucking mouth you twat. It’s for talking first and foremost Not all guys should be pidgeon holed though. Haha Freaky. Meerkats..... they pop up when you least expect it 🤦♂️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
They throw their dicks at the females and while she fucks herself he grows another one lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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LetsFrolic
8 years ago
Its kind of disrespectful that single guys are left out .. I love 3 some and swinging! I'd love to meet a woman that does as well and have a good relationship. But with all the assumptions that makes it basically impossible - Posted from rhpmobile
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BungCpl
8 years ago
We have meet a couple of great single guys but the overwhelming majority on here dont seem to get how to communicate in a way that doesn't make them look and sound like creeps that are just interested in fucking anything and everything they can. And then there's the seagulls that hang in the dark corners at parties, not talking, just trying to play with all ladies that are there. Sadly, far too many experiences like that makes us wary of all single males so whilst we do talk and play with them, it is very filtered - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I guess sweetjen sums up the issue. “Single guys lie.” Unless she’s met them all I’m going to assume that’s a generalisation. I personally don’t lie to people I’m in any kind of relationship with. It gets too messy and it’s disrespectful. Anyway, just wondering what other people thought. Continue 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
that single guys, in the swinging scene , are not swingers but opportunists. That said, we have met a few really nice single men. It just takes time to filter out the good from the not so good . - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
Very much an over generalisation. It only takes the few to fuck it up for the rest. There are many, many good guys on here that are far from opportunists.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Why is there no outrage at the mischaracterisation of actual lepers? :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It is only a myth that bits of lepers fall off. Hanson's disease is essentially a curable skin and nerve condition. They cannot actually play footsies with someone 12 feet away from them under the table... :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Pleased to see some encouraging and supportive posts. As to countrytouch, I’m assuming that was an attempt at humour? If so, ha ha 😂🤣 Well done! - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
Time you explained yourself further. 😁 Why are YOU interested in the swinging scene?
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curiousnhorny05
8 years ago
Single guys are easier... only fucked single guys. Looking for more variety - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dirtyandfriendly
8 years ago
To a swingers party, I was invited and for some reason I cleaned up, showered and shaved and wore some respectable attire. That was about it though, more sausage than pie and I was severely over dressed a few guys rocked up in boardies and like they just came from work. They pretty much just jerked off while the porn was on and it was the most uncomfortable experience of my life. I realised what woman would want to show up to something like that? and they didn't either!!! The best description is that they are opportunists, they rock up in the hopes of getting some and reek of desperation. If I ever go again it will be a partnered event or couples and single women. I have a completely different view of how I'd want a swingers party to go.
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RHP User
8 years ago
My experiences with single guys are unreliable most of them want sexting, nude photo e.t.c but when come to meeting they all went silent. I am guessing they all married and don’t have spare time but they all lie are single and can be available. I dont and won’t waste anymore time with single guys. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hi, I quess theres two sides I see , one my age is a turn off so most guys at the meetups I attended would not talk with me a few singles seem to not be able to talk I don't understand why as I,m very social do public relations work for our groups been interviewed and given talks to large groups I,m very chatty yet some single guys would not utter 6 words, Pretty much I,m just ignored like I,m not there, in fact when I look back not one guy bothered to even say Hi was allways myself first in speaking so is there something I,m completely missing , total number of people at all those meetups I attended just over 500 people . quess I need to go back to school and learn how to communicate with people. ..noeleena...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Again Melbvic, just like sweetjen, you’re generalising. You use the word ‘all’ a lot. Unless you have literally met EVERY single guy on the planet, it would be more realistic to say it’s the ones you’ve met. I can assure you, we’re not ALL like that 😊 Have a lovely day everyone! - Posted from rhpmobile
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egr2please69
8 years ago
Some couples here must not try very hard to find us decent fellas who can string a few sentences together. As Meander said, 'maybe your vetting process could do with improving'. As a single guy here i understand the stigma placed on us by those that are either lazy, creepy or opportunistic. Maybe i'm the exception to the generalisations but of those people that bother to reply to my messages and then actually have either spoken to or met with me have all resulted in either some serious play time or an ongoing friendship. Its not hard to make a little effort, be genuine and make a half decent conversation. Those that can't get found out, are unreliable and get blocked. My only advice to you Paul123 is to be yourself, respectful, patient and understanding. Sometimes it can take time for you to go through someones filtering process but if you are a nice guy you will get found eventually. As Freaky said, 'there are many many god guys here', it just may take some time for you to be found. Enjoy the ride 😄😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nice to have balanced support for males in relation to this site from an intelligent lady. Not all men do this type of thing and perhaps those that do either lack finesse or adopt the approach out of frustration and use the burling approach when going out to fish....., ie put it all out there initially and maybe I'll catch a fish if one is around and receptive. From discussions I've had with males over time (and perhaps it is a male trait) who have used sites such as this, the general consensus is one of frustration. Spending money and a very considerable amount of time in interacting with either females or couples with little to show for it and I'm not speaking about your yobbo type. Understandably, women seek ideally men with good looks and credibility and by nature enjoy the buildup to a possible engagement with a man, whereas men in the main seek women predominately for their good looks and want to leap into bed asap. Sites like RHP are essentially a market place or exchange where people can transact for sex or in relation to some other interest they may have. There is bound to be a myriad of approaches used and using the fishing analogy you have to use the right bait and approach to catch the fish you want. Not knowing or seeing the person on the other end suggests an initially cautious approach should be taken until both parties get to know one another better.Some men I know have taken to attending swingers parties or clubs where single men are permitted and transact for sex within that environment. It is interesting to search this site on the basis of: Women looking for men. There you will find a long list (including myself) who are male subscribers to RHP at varying tiers and that to some degree is indicative of their sexual wants or needs which may to some extent explain abhorrent behaviour by some not that I condone that type of behaviour. It is a competitive market out there if you are a male.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just a case of different things for different people.. Txx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The guy in the couple would be if they were single male not in a mf couple. Would they have pull, if they themselves were single male not part of a mf couple. Interesting question.....
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AKAHunk
8 years ago
I couldn't disagree more OP. Single guys aren't necessarily what people are looking for here in the first place, but there's plenty that are. And many men just assume that because a single woman or a couple are on here looking for a single man that they're in. I message plenty of women/couples I believe I'd suit and don't hear back from them, I'm not everyone's cup of tea, nor will anyone else be. In saying that I occasionally get messages from people whose parameters I don't fit, they just see something that sparks their interest. It's all down to the individual! - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
8 years ago
Quoting 'swingalingson' The guy in the couple would be if they were single male not in a mf couple. Would they have pull, if they themselves were single male not part of a mf couple. Interesting question.....In who's group was this interesting question derived with such in-depth, complicated and multi dimensional faceted array of wisdoms ? MadoMado Tara xx
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madotara69
8 years ago
Quoting 'Dallas1975' I couldn't disagree more OP. Single guys aren't necessarily what people are looking for here in the first place, but there's plenty that are. And many men just assume that because a single woman or a couple are on here looking for a single man that they're in. I message plenty of women/couples I believe I'd suit and don't hear back from them, I'm not everyone's cup of tea, nor will anyone else be. In saying that I occasionally get messages from people whose parameters I don't fit, they just see something that sparks their interest. It's all down to the individual! - Posted from rhpmobile G'day Dallas, perhaps from our perspective a little light over and into the shadow's so humbly put. Fair ? Maybe, but whether you are our cup of tea or not is neither for disappointment nor wasted time by message, you might be an angel* instead of a cup of tea. *meaning We once read and responded to all messages, after a while the excitement wore thin and unless we recognised the messenger (play friend or forum folk), we used the message system for intensions. In other words when we are toey, feel like playing up and look to our messages, it makes all the differance than if we not feeling so inclined. In saying that e.g. you may have sent us a message, it may have sat un-answered for no other reason than we have not been to seek a guy to play with and we might read and respond to your message, possibly a little spontaneous if Tara shows a little sparkle in her smiling eyes and further begins to get fizzy and bumps into the furniture and other signs of insatiable qualities alike. Just us. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
Who is this OP person? Scuse my ignorance... I’m new here 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AKAHunk
8 years ago
Quoting 'Melbvic16' My experiences with single guys are unreliable most of them want sexting, nude photo e.t.c but when come to meeting they all went silent. I am guessing they all married and don’t have spare time but they all lie are single and can be available. I dont and won’t waste anymore time with single guys. - Posted from rhpmobile I tend to do the same on here as I do for regular dates.....chat briefly until it's clear there's an attraction, then meet in person asap. People can pretend to be whoever they want online, meeting sooner rather than later will save you a hell of a lot of time and energy. If they keep making excuses to avoid meeting up, move on!
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AKAHunk
8 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Quoting 'Dallas1975' I couldn't disagree more OP. Single guys aren't necessarily what people are looking for here in the first place, but there's plenty that are. And many men just assume that because a single woman or a couple are on here looking for a single man that they're in. I message plenty of women/couples I believe I'd suit and don't hear back from them, I'm not everyone's cup of tea, nor will anyone else be. In saying that I occasionally get messages from people whose parameters I don't fit, they just see something that sparks their interest. It's all down to the individual! - Posted from rhpmobile G'day Dallas, perhaps from our perspective a little light over and into the shadow's so humbly put. Fair ? Maybe, but whether you are our cup of tea or not is neither for disappointment nor wasted time by message, you might be an angel* instead of a cup of tea. *meaning We once read and responded to all messages, after a while the excitement wore thin and unless we recognised the messenger (play friend or forum folk), we used the message system for intensions. In other words when we are toey, feel like playing up and look to our messages, it makes all the differance than if we not feeling so inclined. In saying that e.g. you may have sent us a message, it may have sat un-answered for no other reason than we have not been to seek a guy to play with and we might read and respond to your message, possibly a little spontaneous if Tara shows a little sparkle in her smiling eyes and further begins to get fizzy and bumps into the furniture and other signs of insatiable qualities alike. Just us. Mado Mado Tara xx QUE??
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WishingWell
8 years ago
It just seems that too many of you guys have unfortunately ruined the rhp experience for some of the other decent ones. But don't dismay, not everyone stereo types genders and some have a good filter system to find exactly what they're looking for. Following each negative incident on here (and in life as well), you get a little smarter and stronger with your boundaries and limits.. I myself have predominately searched for single males on here and have had some amazing experiences with vey respectful, genuine and generous men. Yes there are some guys on here that have an air of entitlement and are very selfish, but lucky for us women there's a smorgasbord to choose from. I have made some awesome connections and friendships with some gorgeous men through rhp and absolutely have no regrets ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks Meander, that makes sense now although I’ll have to go back and check if I neglected to reply to anyone. Sorry if I did. Although with a name like Paul, how much time do they save?🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The guy that posted this looks like a Weirdo - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Peachy, taking notes...
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RHP User
8 years ago
ie, the person who started the thread. I think WishingWell hits the nail on the head: there are just *so many* guys on here (or any dating site, really) that many well intentioned approaches are doomed to disappear into the ether. Put yourself into the shoes of the people you're approaching. They probably have hundreds, literally, of messages to get through, many of them frankly off-putting, before they even start to look beyond their own inbox. How will YOU stand out? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Be patient and don't get bitter. Nothing kills chemistry like bitterness. Have fun! 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Have to agree with a few posts on here that have commented about 'single'guys lying. Much prefer to play with an honest couple than a dishonest single - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
we are looking for single decent hung guys, sometimes hes part of a couple sometimes hes not. any gold coast guys who are able to meet reliably with no last minute excuses contact us for drinks
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McNuggett
8 years ago
Regardless of our make or model we should all be nothing but respectful. Treat people the way you wish to be treated. Due to the few I am tarred with the same brush before anyone even says hello. 🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just a point of clarification, I really meant to put a question mark at the end of the heading. It was more curiosity about how everyone felt rather than a ‘poor me’ post. Thought it might be an interesting discussion! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Superman, this as in your post or mine? Unnecessarily nasty if it’s the latter!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
As a couple and now single. When my ex and I first started I won’t lie I thought I’d be living out all my fantasies 🤣 you soon realise the girls run the show the girls get what they want first and foremost. Also as lot of the girls here are bi they have twice as much too choose from and often would prefer having the best of both worlds ie; a couple not a single guy. And to that all the ripped jacked guys you’ve got on here and well who would you choose ? We are second class citizens in this world but I still enjoy the ride. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Actually we have more single guy and single girl friends from rhp than couples and if they aren’t part of the scene then I guess nor are we. And that’s fine with us. We’ll happily take our bat and ball and go play with people who don’t put themselves at the top of an imaginary pyramid of influence and power in a make-believe world.
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RHP User
8 years ago
And I've seen her inbox after 2 months of not logging in. It is hard to spend time going through every message so you're glancing for something to stand out. In that regard a single guy is just a number and has to have something unique in a username / photo / opening line to actually be read. Maybe that helps in someway? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I agree with most posts here that most males do wreck it for the rest of us who actually have and show respect for couples and single women about their needs and desires when looking for a potential long term playmate. I’ve had some incredible experiences with couples I’ve met through rhp and have developed many great bonds with them that I can confidently consider them good and close friends. I understand that specifics for single males are generally centred around incredible looks and experience and that’s something I wholeheartedly respect, it’s unfortunate that about 95% of men on here would rather exhibit rude behaviour and have a superiority complex which makes them believe they can talk to women and couples like shit and berate them when they don’t get what they want. Have faith in knowing that there are some wonderful single males who want for nothing more than to connect and fulfil fantasies for couples and women and learn more about their sexual preferences and enjoyments along the way. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Some interesting comments here. I am glad that I attended my first party before I read the thread though. I've been interested in trying new things for a while now and a good friend told me about RHP and told me about the party that I went too. I went along thinking that it would just be an opportunity to meet some people and have a few drinks. Everyone was friendly and welcoming and I met a few couples and chatted to them, met a few singles and chatted and danced with them and made a few new friends on the night. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We opened our search up to single guys for about a month and I (Mr) dutifully started replying to all flirts and messages but by day 3-4 this was becoming a full time job!! We asked for a message with more than one line and I’d say only 5% bothered to do so. So if someone either doesn’t read the profile or put the effort in to scribe a reasonable message it doesn’t give you any confidence that they will put any effort in progressing forward. Luckily we found a few we are interested in taking further and removed the M from our search criteria. I really appreciate the single girl plight online now from that experience, I’d say if you get a reply from a single lass put your A game on because if you’ve shone through the millions, it’s yours too lose!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
...and expose a tiny prejudicial intellect that reveals a bigot for all too see. Paul123, I wouldnt be too concerned about the generalisations sweetjen made. Being unfairly judgemental and superior seems to be her shtick. I think she thinks RHP should be like eHarmony. Most people here are here for sex and adventure, others are here to give their ego a boost. You decide which category sweetjen falls into. Single guys shouldnt be tarred with the same brush but it’s a “sellers market” here and gals can afford to pick and choose. Paul, you need to make sure your profile is terrific —particularly pics. As they say, “the eyes are the window to the soul” —joe - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
...take the glasses off and take some fresh pics?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Obviously a site like this will attract all sorts of deviants, but don’t tar everyone with the same brush. On the flip side some of the couples, in particular the married women have been equally as obnoxious and vile as you describe single men, for some reason believing if you’re single you’re supposed to be grateful for some burnt out old lady wanting your ass while some decrepit bloke wanks in the corner. People will behave as they please with anonymity but if you can’t pick that sooner then you are the idiot. As for wanting to stick my dick in anything that moves, another total misconception, I’m pretty particular about who I share my bed with and who’s bed I get into. Don’t put everyone in a category because you’ve had a bad personal experience, blame the individual not the group. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Swingingnudist
8 years ago
Sarah Hansen Young would love some of the comments on here to go with her quotes of all men are rapists and women bashers...( tv interview June 18) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I go to swingers as a single lady and love the smorgasbord of single guys there.. I have found surprisingly some ladies are happy to fuck another but, shock horror, don’t want to share their man much... had this happen at last swingers, hubby keen to play but wifey pulled him away... and gave me a look “hands off”.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Added a new pic for y’all!! Don’t worry, I’ll take it back down once we’ve all had a laugh 😋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not on there yet. It’ll be 4 of 4 when it is... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi I’m the male half here. We have met a number of single guys on rhp as well as couples. As soon as my wife looks for a single male to join us the world’s her oyster. The amount of choice a woman has when engaging a single male is quite large. Due to this a woman can largely have her pick. What this means is that you have to be able to stand out from the pack otherwise they’ll just choose someone who does. It’s not that single males are lepers but rather the breadth of choice available. Try to change the profile pic to something more alluring. Cheers Brett - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wow, so many people here telling me I’m ugly... 😉😋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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SandeGiny
7 years ago
I actually had a little rant about this subject the other day and yes, there are lots of single guys out there who make it blatantly obvious to everyone WHY they are still single. It's hilarious and frustrating all at once. I just want to say this though: as a single female, I walk into a swingers party a welcome invite, and I feel like I'm intruding. There is no man reigning me in, controlling my behaviour. Or to protect me from being treated like shit. I have been used and thrown away innumerable times by couples who have trash talked single men for their behaviour only to turn around and do exactly the same thing. A person's STATUS and gender is NOT the problem. Their BEHAVIOUR is, regardless whether they are an individual or a couple. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'd chose a good uncomplicated horny single guy every time over a couple. In my experience dealing with couples is a prolonged and exhausting affair that doesn't seem worth the effort. Single guys are not into politics, they're overjoyed to have your attention, hardly ever let you down and above all they're usually not selfish and just want to please you. If single guys are all lepers, then I'm going to get it for sure.
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bonefide
7 years ago
Great opened mind comments Meander, Freaky, Dallas1975,Valerie, egr2please69, and Cointreaugirl.
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RHP User
7 years ago
In our not inconsiderable experience, finding a single man that is honest, can host, is somewhat attractive - can be very difficult. We don’t play with men that have significant others that aren’t aware of their antics. Because let’s face it if their partner can’t trust them, what the hell would make us any different? That said there are many single men and gangbang groups on here that are the genuine article... - Posted from rhpmobile
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rustler
7 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Quoting 'swingalingson' The guy in the couple would be if they were single male not in a mf couple. Would they have pull, if they themselves were single male not part of a mf couple. Interesting question.....In who's group was this interesting question derived with such in-depth, complicated and multi dimensional faceted array of wisdoms ? MadoMado Tara xx
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hotdelights
7 years ago
would a mature older guys get some attention at swingers clubs from single girls
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'PeachyPearL'Reverse Psychology Peachy, taking notes...
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RHP User
7 years ago
and it could be fun to play spot the difference? I'm back with MsJonesy wondering why? Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm a single man and be aware! Very dangerous kind we are 😂 lol Single guys, don't have the victim mentality. There are plenty of ladies out there just keep looking 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Its surely bilge to describe anybody male or female as a leper...though if the cave scene from the original Ben Hur is transposed there are some parallels...we have found that some single men like many of the other cyber folk here talk a big game but deliver little except disappointment
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'ultra82' Obviously a site like this will attract all sorts of deviants, but don’t tar everyone with the same brush. On the flip side some of the couples, in particular the married women have been equally as obnoxious and vile as you describe single men, for some reason believing if you’re single you’re supposed to be grateful for some burnt out old lady wanting your ass while some decrepit bloke wanks in the corner. People will behave as they please with anonymity but if you can’t pick that sooner then you are the idiot. As for wanting to stick my dick in anything that moves, another total misconception, I’m pretty particular about who I share my bed with and who’s bed I get into. Don’t put everyone in a category because you’ve had a bad personal experience, blame the individual not the group. - Posted from rhpmobIf you are saying people who have tabs on themselves, don't appear to own a mirror and are basically delusional egomaniacs are unpleasant and unattractive that applies across all ages...just be aware not all people older than 36 are burnt out or decrepit any more than all buff young men are all incapable of speaking without making crass generalisations and we suspect most have more imagination than your scenario allows for...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Depends how charming you are and definitely helps if you are fit and dressed to impress. I have come across a gentleman not sure how old (60?) who had sex with women in their 20s, 30s, and 40s all on one night. But his wife was really lovely and also encouraged it all - so perhaps that helped.
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RHP User
7 years ago
A leper is the wrong analogy, men don't have a sickness. It's more about numbers/ratio's and the simple fact that unless one stands out he will just be another of the 90percent members that are male. It's not personal that men get the short end of the stick just logical/factual. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
A lot of single guys don't take the time to read profiles properly. If you meet what people are looking for make contact. If you don't, dont. Single guys are the worst for this - Posted from rhpmobile
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sexysouth
7 years ago
Well we don’t agree as we’ve met some great single guys on RHP and at RHP events. These days we actually prefer them to couples as over the years we’ve found a lot of couples way too much hassle as usually one half (usually the male half!) is much keener than the other and petty jealousies seem to come in. Also we find single guys much more reliable than most couples we’ve communicated with. Anyway that’s just our opinion.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
There are seagulls, meerkats and creeps at many events. Easy to spot, its great when you find those great single guys that a able to converse, respect and pleasure, that remind many of us that there are great single guys about, and they will be recommended. I myself like a surplus of cock. While i think leper is a bit harsh, there are usually a few opportunists simply dying to get a guernsey, but maybe we should reflect on why they are in surplus and the assumption that the opposite gender are seen as unicorns in rarity. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quote Freaky_fun There are many, many good guys on here that are far from opportunists. I agree.... a lot of nice single guys on here but a few may stuff it up. I wish I wasn’t so shy when it came to meeting an couple. I may seem rude but I’m just being a chicken. I know it will all be fine as we meet etc etc but it’s quite a high step for a single guy who’s trying to be nice and tell no lies and be straight up. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
We still see the 3 single guys we've met through here and they are delicious BBC's indeed and have given me quite the sweet tooth and addiction for the dark meat 💋 We prefer single guys because they bring no drama or potential jealous partner and they are very easy to plan with as they dont have their partners cycle to plan around either. I dont consider single guys 'lepers' i consider them very VERY tempting !!! 💋💋💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sometimes singles are needed but that’s not called swinging. It is just group or threesome. Many couples insist on a swap, so no one misses out. Single men at a swingers party might be sidelined because it is impossible for them to swing. That can cause frustration for them which leads to them becoming pushy or just annoying - ie hovering around you while you’re playing - stroking their (usually unimpressive) dicks. What a turn-off. For this reason I avoid parties that cater for both swingers and singles. However I know some great single guys who get invited to swingers parties. These are guys who have been swingers and understand the swinging mentality. If you are a single guy and never been swinging I suggest you do the hard yards first - take your next gf swinging then you will learn a lot. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Depends entirely on individual behaviour. I myself am respectful, show up, make the focus is on the female and bring no expectations to the party. By enlarge I have had a great time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hottie1
7 years ago
Single men can be swingers but it’s not their relationship status but the general behaviour of a lot of single men (and single women) at times that causes most issues. It’s the entitlement that is often associated with the lecherous loitering that some single men engage in that is infuriating. I’m finding it harder and harder to find polite ways to say ‘no thanks’ ... In most cases, I attend as a couple, I too have to pay to enter swingers functions as do single men. It’s not an automatic that I’m going to find the Adonis and Aphrodite I’m after to engage in this amazing sexual experience. Similarly, others may refuse my advances but I’ll flirt and engage with those I’m interested in and hopefully we all have a good time. I don’t pay to be harassed either by stealth (or so some think they’re being discrete) or by direct approaches such as coming at me with a ‘hard on wrapped in a condom’ ... at no stage have I given a clue, other than being upright, breathing and have tits that I’m remotely interested in sex. Or my all time favourite ... ‘I’m next’ whilst I’m with someone ... this isn’t a fucking deli line here lol 😂 you’re next if I’ve asked you specifically. I met my BF as a single guy at a swingers party and he was an absolute gentleman. I’ve had FBs I’ve gone to parties with, once again, true gentlemen. Married men and women can in fact be just as disrespectful as any one else but it’s often common sense (which isn’t that common) that is lacking. Observe, read signs or ask politely ... keep your manners nd expectations in check regardless of your relationship status :) Mary xx
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KindredPleasures
7 years ago
As a single guy a few years ago, I found it tough to crack until I made effort to talk. The chat rooms were so much busier back then and made it easier to have a natural conversation without getting lost in the pack. Once I made some friends, it was a matter of who you knew and who they knew as reputation as a nice guy with a great tongue got around. I cam back to it about 2 years ago and aside from one lovely lady I had one night with, it was a bit of a drought. The chat rooms had dried up and making an impression was quite difficult. Ive never been one to have chiselled abs or arms and dont fall into the "big dick" category either so trying to get noticed by message is hit and miss. Now I'm on the other side of the fence, I can see why its so hard. Single women really are the "apex predator" (for lack of a better term 😂) who get pick of the litter because they are in such high demand. Everyone wants a unicorn right? Couples are everywhere and a lot aren't looking for men but its also a case of two parties having to agree on bringing in outsiders. Single men are plentiful and those that are particularly successful either have the body of a greek god, extremely well hung or are lucky enough to be noticed and given a chance to show off that theyre a nice enough guy to get to know - and there in lies the rub. Its a hell of a lot easier to let a pic be your opener than trying to craft the perfect opening message and hope that it gets noticed enough to be replied to. Single men aren't "lepers", they just have their work cut out for them. Having seen both sides of the fence now, Ive seen just how many flirts/view/messages couples and single females get. Its overwhelming and at times confronting. And lets not get started on those who don't read profiles or take heed of age preferences or take a hint! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
As with most couples I'm friends with or have spoken to, would rather a single of either gender than another couple for the fact that couples are hard work. Not my words, theirs but definitely appears that way. Because the male half of a couple would never be rude or disrespectful 🙄
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twowithnolimits
7 years ago
You are so often right, it is harder to find two people who match exactly with two other people than one eager to please and easily fitted in with both :-)
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AKAHunk
7 years ago
Very well put! - Posted from rhpmobile
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joanne1991
7 years ago
I'm a unicorn so can't comment on this one
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RHP User
7 years ago
*shudder* Don't want want one of them stabbing me in the back. I do prefer my horns to be of the male variety... Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
I must say this forum thread has been quite interesting to read. The variety of insights and contributions from both couples and single males wether based on actual experiences or opinions is superb. I enjoyed the scene immensely with my former wife for years and now indulge as a single male..... Apples and oranges. Chalk and cheese. The perspective from one side couldn’t be any more different than the other. What has enabled me the most as a single participant was those great years as a swinging couple! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Half caste bull... ready to fuck... dominant straight.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Welcome to Oz No sheep here... Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
I like single guys. Most of the single guys we have met from here are lovely. They can hold a conversation and are respectful. I hate when they only show dick picks, but usually I don't talk to those types of people anyway. I think it depends on who you chose to talk to. Also there are so many single guys compared to couples and singles Ladies competition is tough so you have to out your best foot forward straight away. Mrs B - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Haha leppers ov swinging???😀 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wouldn't say that but.... Could we go on and on. The majority of msgs we receive from single guys clearly indicate they haven't read our profile and so often msg asking about our w/end or some other lame thing and then make some other equally lame comment. Do they really expect a reply? Just today received this: Hi hope you guys had a great weekend, perfect weather. Kind regards. Why send that and with no name. Where do these guys expect a return msg to go that is if they get reply at all. Why would anyone reply to that. The number of those sort of msgs received certainly dosen't help single guys on the popularity charts.
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