Single guys find it harder?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I understand where you are coming from, it's definitely hard being a single male trying to explore new things when generally single males are looked down on. First of all I haven't been to any events yet but I'm hoping to soon, but I think the best way for you to get anywhere is to firstly find someone like-minded enough to join you/partner up. Also ask as many questions on the forums as you need to. Maybe just look at couples profiles as well if your wanting some experience in that Regards as there are plenty of couples also wanting threesomes. By the way the WA forums are very very slow would have been better off posting in the main ones.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  ..and I agree with Deepdarkwoods, this forum although aimed at the Perth Scene is somewhat universal in the questions that you ask so in the main forums it would have attracted more comment.. …the Perth forums tend to be a little slow – we are too busy making money for the mining companies to post…- but anyway It’s fantastic that you are up for exploring your desires, but do not think that this site is here to especially cater for the experiences that you mention – yes you will find some profiles on here of which you will have common sexual interests, but please do note there are other sites that will cater especially for what you are seeking. Also note that the scene here in Perth – is still very underground (for want of a better word) and also that some of your desires (gangbangs, orgies etc) are still frowned upon by some (not being judgemental) …a lot to do with the whole safe sex thing being of one concern for many The first thing you need to do is express your desire to find “a partner in crime”- I’ve checked out your profile and its terrific but you may need to tweak it a little to reflect that you would like to find a likeminded soul to travel this path with you…….Now reality check - in Perth you will struggle…Men on this site far outweigh women (so in cyberland Women rule – different story in real life) but even more so here in the West – you have massive competition, so you need to market yourself accordingly (although like I said, your profile is pretty good) ….start posting in the forums ( a great way to meet a new circle of friends) …do register to go to Events (and actually go) – check the Event sections, go along to the occasional club by yourself, be patient and preserve…and go to the meet and greets – be open to peoples of all ages, possibilities etc…you will find a mentor (for want of another better word) if you put it out there. I met a great guy once thru ageing to be his mentor (he came on here seeking exactly what you were) so even by posting im sure you will get a whole hep more hits I’ve been in the scene for most of my life, the past four years being in Perth and I’m heavily involved in the burlesque scene here…although I have withdrawn a little from the swing scene for my own reasons so there’s not much I don’t know…(I say this without arrogance – just it is what it is) If you have any specific questions please feel free to private message me…..sorry I’m a tight ass guest now so I can’t message you… Good Luck with it all !!! Gee ...I just reread this..I sound like Obi Wan Kenobi... witha bit of Yoda thrown in !!!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  What shinasbabe said!! She's full of good advice :)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Haha thanks Shinasbabe27 and Hotdiggettydamn for the replies, I can completely relate on all points ... Right, well I'd better start by tweeking my profile =)Si

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