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Single guys who think they are special, why?
July 28 2019
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RHP User
6 years ago
They don't think they re special..who will? Hugs Q
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
There are some genuine, honest single men on here who are good men and quite special in my eyes. If these men are messaging you, there must be something special about you they like. I would be flattered but asking them to explain themselves is kinda not cool. If they are not what you are looking for, just ignore and move on. Here is a recent forum topic that maybe of interest to you, https://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/What-do-we-like-about-men-on-RHP-59713. Happy reading and best if luck. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
...either a self-assessment nor a disregard for your choices but rather something born out of pure frustration? The cost of membership begins to balance with the odds of a single guy "scoring" on sites like this quite low and more often than not, a single digit percentile...so they go fishing. Presumably and maybe they will get lucky? Who knows and hopefully you can screen them very simply with a keystroke. Hey, too...maybe it's even a compliment and in reality quite harmless. Now then, Barnaby Joyce, the MP who earns about $211,000 a year, says he's turning the heater off at night, killing his own meat, not going out for dinner and buying cheap groceries. No wonder he's keen to see job-seekers get more help from the government. Now that...is worth a shout out! Best....... ʗɱ
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RHP User
6 years ago
I’m curious why it is you think you can control anything other than your response to other people’s actions?? Sure they shouldn’t approach you if you’ve mentioned it in your profile...but how exactly does being equally pretentious aim at changing their minds??
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RHP User
6 years ago
There are some very special single guys on here. Every week I receive flirts and messages from couples, even though Im not looking for couples. Be flattered that they like your profile. We put pics up to attract people, so have to expect attention from all areas.
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SpicyKale
6 years ago
Ok, we'll get the disclaimer out of the way first... we search for single bi / curious guys, this isn't a single guy bash. No, people don't read profiles. If we're looking for a single guy, we're looking for a bi / curious, non smoker. 90% of messages / flirts we get miss on one or the other. We don't get too worried about it, have a quick perv at the pics and move on😊 To the OPs other question... we might be wrong about this, but wouldn't a single guy need to over ride the search function to couple looking for couple from male looking for...... to even search for them? That's deliberately going out of your way to find someone that has no interest in you
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RHP User
6 years ago
Most it would seem can read and are respectful. We get loads of views but only a handful of flirts from them. Obviously those ones didn't read the profile and the consequences.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Is it them thinking they're special, or you? I do understand that you are clear you're not looking for men, as I am about wanting younger men. The difference however, is that you do interact with men as well as women, they find you attractive (which you clearly are) and try their luck. Sifting through messages can be time consuming yes, but provided they're not creepy or way outside your age limit, I don't see the harm. Couples seem to have an elitist attitude, top of the heap
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RHP User
6 years ago
well if you don.t ask you don.t get no point on been shy too many single guys on here so we need to hunt all over the place singles and married
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Sawadee
6 years ago
So many posts lately regarding men and what couples and women expect from them.. Stop and think ? There are heaps of good men here who unfairly suffer the backlash every time you complain. When Its the selfish few who make it bad for everyone. ... My tip is to just ignore those you dont like . and accept the fact that they ' ( the selfish ) are not representitive of the majority of us.. Tarring every man with the same brush is just plain wrong. I have a single profile atm and i know how damnwell respectful i am of others.. l dont have a ready made answer to how to stop the idiots and i dont think anyone else does either.. Apart from putting couples and women in cotton wool in a room of their own it won't happen. Rant over...
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RHP User
6 years ago
Sick of the man bashing on here lately. If some of you dont like the messages your getting. Become members and do your searthing and sending of messages yourselfs. And ignor all the rest. And if you still dont like it then piss off
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RHP User
6 years ago
MrNorti... Do you not acknowledge that by contacting those profiles that request exclusion of certain categories that you fall into, that you are making a contribution to threads like this ?? And then seemingly you dismiss any level of personal integrity in favour of the desire to satisfy your egotistical “hunt” with such a reply??
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RHP User
6 years ago
That people’s and profiles that make a big fuss about single guys get hit on just for sport. 😜
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RHP User
6 years ago
Seems to Me this is a bit of catch 22 We are damned if we do damned if we don't, either it be a case of "grow some balls don't be shy" or on the other end of the scale "don't talk to me you aren't what I want so I'm not giving you the time of day" Now I can understand why she would be fed up as I can imagine more then a fair share of guys will come across horrendously... Partly because they aren't actually serious about getting your attention and the other being they actually are seriously creepy.. Which kills it's for the 1% of genuine guys trying to make an effort and be respectful about approaching someone like this.... It's a grey area but I feel as if You find attraction to someone or their profile and they aren't looking for you.. Let them know but do it right and if they don't want to give you the time of day or even bother to reply with a kind thanks but no thanks then I believe that's the receivers issue.. Not the sender.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Special? No Dumb enough to contact a profile which aggressively demands no contact from men..... Yeah. In here, absolutely
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RHP User
6 years ago
Inkedexplorer... How much clearer does one need to be if it’s in their profile??? Why would you honestly then think it’s the receivers problem that they are frustrated because someone has messaged them that clearly states that they’re not looking for them?? At what point do you draw the line?? How even do you messsge it? “Hi there, I know your profile says that you’re not looking for single guys, and I realise that I’m a single guy, but I’m smart, funny, etc...” Yeah...that screams rocket scientist doesn’t it? Lol
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RHP User
6 years ago
Sawadee.... If you don’t partake in said behaviours, why would you take this thread so seemingly personal to reply like that?? Would you not automatically exclude yourself from the attention it’s drawing a light to? 🤔
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Sawadee
6 years ago
Seems like you feel a little uncomfortable , not me..
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LetsFrolic
6 years ago
Agree with mango69er on this one.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Sawadee... How did you arrive at that assumption?
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
Couples who think they're so special, Why? 👎👎
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RHP User
6 years ago
Single females who think they are special, ??????
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RHP User
6 years ago
Why is that? Because they dont reply to your profile which has no photos, a load of lazy Ask Mes and no profile write up about yourself?
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RHP User
6 years ago
And straight away being question about my profile. I’m private about my private life, how i choose too introduce myself via these formulated bracketed responses is I believe part of being a individual. Must i follow the masses, ? In what area did i state that im unhappy with not being contacted ref my profile ? Is that making me unprofessional also ?
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RHP User
6 years ago
You complain about women thinking they are special. Then reply that your private life is no one elses business? You are here to meet people therefore should let them know something about yourself to pique their interest. Profiles like yours always make me think " attached". Im not into guesssing games when it comes to profiles but maybe others are.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Guessing. Too early in the morning....
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RHP User
6 years ago
You really want answer? Why not meet those men and find out your self? ps. Also have a think that maybe your experience is biased. Many men might have looked at your profile and not contact you, but you wouldn't know because you are not contacted. You will only experience the ones that message you- thus led you to think 'All men don't read profile'...have a think about that.
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RHP User
6 years ago
mango69er👏👏👏 Its war out there ladies and gentlemen. I feel beaten up just reading the banter. Any straight out tips or wisdom to get thing off on the right footing. Asking the Rhp Elders to guide the young Rhp punks (as myself😂). I know I have totally freaked people out just from understand these darn acronyms, btm bottom top, get this wrong clearly doesn't work. And still trying to workout why😂😂😂 Meet more awesome people than Not... Once face to face everything seems to flow either feel it or don't feel it. 🤔 Any chance of some Clif notes for current day messaging educate . Hell I know I need it. Made some halirious blews.
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Localtradie
6 years ago
If the couples profile says No single guys I respect it and I won’t msg them
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RHP User
6 years ago
Their profile, their rules. They ask not to be contacted by certain people, then don’t bloody contact them. What’s so complicated about this? Respect people’s boundaries and send your copy paste generic messages to some other unlucky profile. We do talk to single men, there are some great people here, single or not, however because of the insane ratio of single men contacting us, we don’t get to meet some of the people we have been talking for months. We don’t have the luxury of having every weekend to ourselves so the amount of people we can meet is limited, in the end some couples like us ends up with a regular third guy or girl and prefers to maintain what they have instead of meeting new people all the time. We are open to single guys but as we tell everyone, life gets in the way. Don’t get offended if we don’t respond to you or we don’t get to meet you as quick as you expect. Still, if we do find them to meet someone new, it won’t be some average profile with no self summary or photos, and profile that doesn’t match what we are looking for. Someone above mentioned contacting people anyway regardless of them not wanting to get contacted. You are just ruining it for others. Yes couples are usually picky and selective, guess what? We are in a relationship and we have to be careful who we let into our lives, who we get sexual with. You don’t. You just need a means to your end. We don’t have the same level of sexual frustration or unsatisfied urges as owners of the “hi, dis is ma dick, look how big it gets when it’s hard” messages. Mrs once said she doesn’t care much about dicks, nowhere near as much as those attached to those dicks, respect and courtesy goes a long way. When you don’t read a profile you shoot yourself in the foot even if they are happy to talk to single men. If they don’t want to, don’t contact them.
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Mask_007
6 years ago
Hi OP. I think is a very interesting subject, taking in consideration that everyone think is something you can do better and deserves some kind of credit. That does not mean we are special, maybe is just our own perception. I don't think be better than anyone but i definitely can do some different things. Is optional to "you" try and find out or not.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'LetsFrolic' Agree with mango69er on this one. Yes i too agree with mango69er. Quite a bit of man bashing here, but it comes with the territory and it allows some to vent their frustrations in a partially anonymous environmentTo the OP, I did check out your profile to see what was special about your profile. You both have very good looking bodies, and congratulations on that, and feel that this may be contributing to your influx of unwanted male attention. One thing that I noticed that you could remove from your profile that may be attracting lots of guys is that you list "Sugar Dating" as one of your looking "for" qualities.I am not sure what you are expecting from this quality but it does seem like that you could be up for some other benefits from this perhaps. There are a lot of guys on here that may put up the cash to have a session with you both, so please consider that this may be part of the problem.My suggestion would be start there and remove this from your profile, and like some others have advised on here, male attention is something that happens as people want to test their luck given that there is 1001 guys to every girl or couple on here (looking at it from a guys perspective).....be honoured that you are getting the attention, message back and say "thanks for the attention we appreciated it, but you are not what I am looking for", as this would be the most appropriate way of handling the message or flirt.Move to the next message that will be more along the lines of what you are seeking and you may find a great experience.........Remember that what goes around comes around and karma can reward you or penalise you.I prefer to be rewarded by Karma.....
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RHP User
6 years ago
GEEZ people get over it, the OP Couple have the right to express their wants and needs in this forum, and they should be shown some respect by these single guys by not annoying them like they do, and any single man that does message someone who is not looking for a single man is a complete and utter disrespectful asshole. Man Bashing, what a bloody joke.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Some songle men can be creepy not all read profiles and not all profiles are completely filled out 100pc. I see the frustration with unwanted emails we just look and block who we dont want further contact from. Couples do have the luxury of choices we can get all types of scenarios in play .. But i do agree single men should read wants of couples and ir singles profiles thoroughly before emailing saves heart aches in a no reply
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LustAndLoveXoX
6 years ago
Hi, the first reason is that I have received plenty of messages from couples that are saying they are not looking for single men. Should I give up about those couples and ask why they feel so special? The second reason is that this app, like every other dating app, is absolutely dominated by the females. I would love for once to have a female using a "standard (not a fitness model to be intended) male profile a note down what is the response rate. If you are genuinely asking if males read the profiles,I think they do, until their eyes are exhausted after a day of reading thousands of profile and getting responses only from females looking for "sugar daddies". I am not sure when this all happened, but it was not like that 10 years ago ...
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RHP User
6 years ago
In response to a request for tips. Here you go mate> How about starting by not turning into a stalker. 7 messages? And if you were as you state in your profile, born in Australia (if you were you must have emigrated to Asia one week later), learn to speak English. What exactly did this mean "I HAS BLOOD HELPED HEAPS." That was a full sentence. And just weird with the overkill of smileys all over every message, manic almost. Too much, WAY too much. It took this to get rid of you ME: "Your profile makes you sound pushy and selfish, I use my instinct to weed guys like you out, messages confirmed it. Piss off mate. I'm not interested. Think of it this way, it will be less of your time wasted 😏" That was after 5 messages that made no sense or asking me if I was a morning girl etc Then you sent another two messages after that very clear rejection from me. Mate seriously, you need help, but not from us
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RHP User
6 years ago
profile stated didn't want time wasters, since edited out. There's a red flag to start with You know guys, if it sounds like we complain a lot about men, how many women would behave like complete imbeciles like that, practically forcing themselves on to you?
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RHP User
6 years ago
Probably why there single guys and not a couple can’t read the signs
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