RHP

RHP User

M62 F57

Single guys.....have some understanding!

December 29 2010

Ok, this has probably been discussed ad nauseum but here goes......we received a message the other day from a guy wanting to hook up, he looked nice but we are just so busy, booked out etc, we messaged back and said "thanks for your interest but things are pretty crazy at the moment, just no time available but maybe in the future....."His reply - "well why are you on here then, why not just say you are not interested and stop mucking people around!"Then he blocked us!We have met some great single guys on here but for the rest of you who think couples can drop everything to fit in with your schedule, well it just doesn't work that way! Some of us are busy with family commitments at this time of year and arrangements have to be made well in advance for meetings to be accomplished. We were honest with this bloke and got a spray for our trouble.Ok, got it off my chest, would love to hear what other couples and single guys have to say on this!Happy new year everyone, party time is coming! xx

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Wow what a sucker, you guys are hot and well worth a small wait or even a long wait ( I still got a smile on my dial from a month ago). Keep me in mind for next time you want a play.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Considering your profile says you are looking for women and couples...see I actually read the preferances and the text as well he did pretty well to get a very nice maybe :) It takes all types some polite some just rude and a lot inbetween...what a fool blocking you and sending a message like that...I would have taken the message as being on a good thing and exchanged a few more messages. Then i do tend to make an effort to charm every one :) LC

  • AsingleguySEQ

    AsingleguySEQ

    15 years ago

    Have to agree with everything said here. We have also had one user who - despite polite replies saying thank you but no thankyou - insisted on mailing and flirting - so we blocked him. Then get another mail from a different user using the same mails ... so we have blocked that too.It's a shame as there are some pleasant, articulate people out there (of both genders) - just a few idiots that ruin it for all! Life's too short to waste with the idiot timewasters ... we just move on and keep smiling :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    So true, if I was a guy looking for a couple to play with, I wouldn't be slamming the door before it opens lol.I wasn't really angry...just a bit annoyed I guess at the selfishness of some out there. Having said all that, this sort of thing hasn't happened often to us, the vast majority of people we contact and vice versa, are genuine, well mannered and polite, no matter the outcome - we have had a blast on this site!We are really looking forward to meeting more sexy people and making some new friends in twenty eleven!xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We all get those. What I do not like and find very off putting are the guys (single or not) who think that it is all about sex. The ones that never really come right out and say so but the whole tone of thier messages are about how soon can they meet and jump your bones. They never seem to considerthe fact that I may not want to have sex with a complete stranger....I may want to get to know someone....just a little.....first. My profile does say meet first...play later.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well personally i dont understand his attitude, after all are we not all adults on here and as such we should behave as adults and show respect to others? One needs to be accomdating and understandable to others commitments and life of potential friends and play mates. Personally, and i can only speak for myself, it is a priverlige and honour to be invited to have fun with a couple or single lady. Gentlemen or the use of the word is maybe overused these days, true gentlemen (but tigers at fun time) need to be mindfull of others i am sure we all have a life other than RHP and single guys need to understand it. Respect & politness all the way!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    we sometimes add man to our list of "wanted" and even after carefully wording some HINTS and general requirements We still get..."hey...what r u don 2nite...wanna play?" no pics and they're in woop woop? or winks with "you are just what iam looking for" again ...guests...with no pics and the worst of all profile words....ask me everywhere?? zzzzzz. we do meet a few guys...but its always MEET 1st...low key drink...and maybe play another time.. Alot of guys seem to thing "i have a big cock...iam ready to play now" double zzzz Bernie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    SO SO true of guys that just don't have any respect for people.. Good things take time and don't need to be rushed just to get your end away... I think it takes planning and respect for couples and people with family etc Happy New Years every one