RHP

RHP User

F53

Single & looking for love.

September 09 2014

I love the sight of lightning, Beach waves upon the shore. The taste of spicy Thai food, A good movie, drives galore. Alone, I watch the stars at night, Walk barefoot in the sand. Food for one holds no appeal Car music holds my hand. I'm forthright, yet not open . I speak my mind it's true. Love fun times and laughter, So just tell me, "Who are YOU" It all depends on what you seek, Is it glamour or the chase. A bit of fun, some revelry, One true love, a pretty face? I wont be someone's 'maybe', Someone's "She's OK for now" 'Cause I'm clever, and I'm worth it, To your feet, I'll never bow. I want to know your inner self, Your past, your hopes, your views. I want to share the good rimes, And the bad, life pays it's dues. Till then, my legs are open, Just sex, without a cause It helps to pass the lonely nights We fuck with no remourse. (My question is this.... If you are single, dating & seeking love..Or are in a loveless relationshi, how does it feel for you? What thoughts run through your mind? What are you hoping for? What are your dreams, desires, hopes for love? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    11 years ago

    I' m looking for that will complement, excite, dimple my skin, nourish my soul, see my heart, feel my pain, revel in my accomplishments, burn in my arms while calculating my mind LoVe!❤️ But hey who isn't?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Lonely Lust Love Forever. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    to find a person in my case a male which I would fall in love with. Yes I would like it very much. The thought of having a person in my life with whom I can have meaningful sex and a meaningful relationship is such a great adventure and the last one I would think I would have. I come to the conclusion, that I cant wait or search for it anymore, it will present itself or not, somehow I can not be miserable because it is not here yet. Will I ever find a person, to have a partnership with which is free and without conditions towards each other, I hope so. I am open to all, we get so set in our little ways and quirks and the other person too it would be a big challenge to live again with someone and share everyday life. Still I am a goer and I can adapt, so what ever is out there for me, I will embrace it with all I have. So I say please LOVE SHOW YOUR BEAUTIFUL HEAD.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    Am I looking to "be in love or fall in love"??? I have no freaking idea as I've never "been in love, LOVE", so I don't know what it feels like. All I know is love is suppose to be kind not hurt like a bitch! Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's a relief to see someone else who is in the same boat as me. I've had several relationships, one of which was a 10 year marriage and I still can't say that I've ever been really in love. Not that head over heels, can't imagine life without them kind of love. I don't know if it's just me or if I haven't met the right person, maybe I'll never know.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Not looking for LOVE, don't think it is something that can be searched for. Not waiting for love, as without effort nothing ever happens. Not desperate for love, as it would be to easy to hold onto something not real. Not adverse to love, I know its fuzzy warm glow does wonders for the soul. Not regretting love, it has made me what I am. It will happen, and as before it will come from an unexpected place and at an unpredictable time, till then I will love my self so that I am able to be someone that can be loved.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's a huge difference,in love childhood sweetheart ,still think of her from time to time! Would embrace that feeling again is special,some never get or have it! I presume a lot on here are mainly in lust,it's not a scrabble site after all!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have recently gotten back with my b/f, yet I am doubting the relationship. Yes, he is srxy, handsome & a good lover, but I doubt tthat we are truly in love. I feel the the r/ship will end when he finds someone prettier & sexier than me. Maybe its self doubt, skewered intuition. I DONT KNOW..!! So thank you all for ur honest, open & thoughtful comments. It has helped me to reach some conclusions. I deserve to be treated with more respect, kindness, honesty & love than he gives me. True love is possible, &iI hope we all find the love we seek & deserve.... I hope more people comment, as I over analyze & sometimes make poor choices for myself....Cheers all - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'SpanglishFun' I have recently gotten back with my b/f, yet I am doubting the relationship. Yes, he is srxy, handsome & a good lover, but I doubt tthat we are truly in love. I feel the the r/ship will end when he finds someone prettier & sexier than me. Maybe its self doubt, skewered intuition. I DONT KNOW..!! So thank you all for ur honest, open & thoughtful comments. It has helped me to reach some conclusions. I deserve to be treated with more respect, kindness, honesty & love than he gives me. True love is possible, &iI hope we all find the love we seek & deserve.... I hope more people comment, as I over analyze & sometimes make poor choices for myself....Cheers all - Posted from rhpmobile and he came back. Take comfort in that :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But I have more important things to concern myself with than whether or not I'm lonely or why it is I'm single.... Facts are:- - I'm single - I have a job - I have the love of my 3 daughters - I'm alive. The more emphasis you put on partnerships making you happy; the more important they are to sustain your happiness. Essentially it's mind over matter.....I don't mind and it doesn't matter. :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Blindman67' Not looking for LOVE, don't think it is something that can be searched for. Not waiting for love, as without effort nothing ever happens. Not desperate for love, as it would be to easy to hold onto something not real. Not adverse to love, I know its fuzzy warm glow does wonders for the soul. Not regretting love, it has made me what I am. It will happen, and as before it will come from an unexpected place and at an unpredictable time, till then I will love my self so that I am able to be someone that can be loved. Foxy Good to see you posting Blindman...Good God! I've missed that sexy bum! xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Blindmans big brain. good to see you back again, I gather a break from your studies? You must havea PHD in every thing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    a conundrum even....this looking for love.. Some say we look in all the wrong places.....Some say love will find us when we cease to look...Some say to be worthy of love we first need to love ourselves.. Me,I say to all of that PIFFLE love is all around us we just have to open our hearts and minds and look Qxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    At least be able to find someone that feels and acts with this as a basic respect for one another. “So she thoroughly taught him that one cannot take pleasure without giving pleasure, and that every gesture, every caress, every touch, every glance, every last bit of the body has its secret, which brings happiness to the person who knows how to wake it. She taught him that after a celebration of love the lovers should not part without admiring each other, without being conquered or having conquered, so that neither is bleak or glutted or has the bad feeling of being used or misused.”― Hermann Hesse, Siddhartha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We all have a past,sometimes it can define us ,sometimes it's a curse! Very hard to let anyone back for if there were problems,they inevitably will re surface! Is the complete package still attainable? Love and embrace life ,don't judge,respect,karma is on your side! S_s summed it up enjoy what you have in life !be positive life's a blessing xxx