Singles as couples. OK or False advertising?

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  MsSuperFoxy

  10 months ago

  One word...DODGY! Risky and not reliable RUN FOREST, RUN! Ms Foxy

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  TwoPlusOneIsFun

  10 months ago

  OMG! I was seriously just about to start a topic on this.. We have a couples profile and we are looking for the elusive unicorn.. The search has been maddening! There are a ton of “single women” profiles that say they are looking for couples but when you read the profile, most of them say “I am married and my partner will come to the first meet” or “my partner and I play together” and all the variations in between.. If you are married or attached in any way, you should mention (and have) a couples profile or at the very least don’t put that your status is “single” and then not mention you have a partner till the very end..

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  Blueflamingo

  10 months ago

  How about reciving a message from a casual couple, who also plays solo. I share my face picture and I get a message back saying the female part didnt find me attractive. Fair enough, I wish them good luck. Then a week later (today) I receive the same opening message... 😂 I respond with what happened last week and he said he dont remember the conversation.. talking about dodging a bullet 😆 "Couples" are so not easy territory to navigate.. NEXT!

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  Brian_Breynolds

  10 months ago

  I think profiles should just reflect how people are looking to connect. If you’re a couple and want to connect with others as a couple, then have a couple’s profile. Even if you’re just a FWB couple and want to connect with others it’s fine to have a couple's profile. If you’re a couple and want to connect with others individually, then have single’s profiles. I don’t see an issue with that at all.

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  Felicitous

  10 months ago

  I think as long as it's in their profile somewhere, they are being upfront about it.. even if they perhaps didn't start the profile correctly. No one is engaging (I assume) without actually reading the profile so they'll find that they're a couple in that process. Then can decide to engage or not. We started as a couple profile - I then stepped away from the scene... hubby changed that into his 'single profile' (with my blessing) and stated our situation as he would come up as a couple . There were validations that assisted in people knowing he was genuine. Once it became clear I didn't want to partake as a 'couple' we deleted that one and started individual single profiles. I guess some may have similar reasons for being under the incorrect 'lable'... it's not always nefarious ..might seem like the next logical step. It probably doesn't work in anyone's best interest to be a 'single' as a couple. Would become annoying to those actually searching for a single at best. Worse case they'll be assumed to be disingenuous. However as was said above if nothing is mentioned until actually messages start - that's a massive waste of time and such a red flag. I don't think it's cool - then again people can get desperate and guise themselves in many ways to elicit attention.. it's just a rather tasteless piece of the pie. V

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  TwoPlusOneIsFun

  10 months ago

  We would really like to find a genuine Unicorn but these mixed message profiles make it really difficult.

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  Flirty2020

  10 months ago

  We have come across many single “female” profiles (that have initiated contact by sending us a massage) that then go on to say that “she” will always be joined by “her” man. And then when the time comes to meet up, “she “ is unable to attend but has given her man her blessing to play without her. We have experienced the same with many “couples” profiles that appear to also be mainly a male, masquerading as a couple, or a male playing solo allegedly with his partners “blessing” Rarely have we come across (received a message from) what we thought was a single male profile that ended up being a couple. Perhaps the reason is that males are in the vast majority on here, and seem to be the main “drivers” of this site / the swinging scene ? It does makes one rather mistrustful of it all, and gives one a “jaded opinion”.

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  TwoPlusOneIsFun

  10 months ago

  We’ve also found a lot of profiles that match with us but then when you read the bio they say “only after sugar dating” WTF is that about 🤷‍♀️

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