M41
Site etiquette
July 19 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nothing really wrong with your profile, though it doesn't stand out from the hundreds of others I've seen. Not sure what you mean by "being too honest"? Your problem might be your messages. Writing things like "I have to see you" and "call me" won't really have women falling at your feet. A little more effort would be great. Good luck!
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RHP User
12 years ago
You keep using the word random? Seems to me you want to meet with any woman just for a root and nothing else? Any woman will do? Women are not hookers, most of us want more than some random guy turning up for a poke in the whiskers. Maybe you can word it a little better. I know it's weird, woman have very sexual photos up, they are often say they want sex and fun, etc on their profiles but..... They still want quality and decent guys not any random dude. You need to treat women on here like you would treat a pretty woman you met in the street and for God's sake don't mention sex.... Or EVER use the word random!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are you sick? Computer and phone broken? Two posters got in before you on this one. Lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Out of the blue they will come and yes word your profile better
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JessicaRabbit
12 years ago
As a woman on here, the messages can flood in, so your message may be 1 of 50 she has received that day - I'm not even exaggerating. There's so many reasons she might not respond: your message is generic or unappealing, your profile doesn't match what she's looking for, she's really busy at the moment or even that she's having a bad day. The truth is that a message I receive on one day I might reply to, whereas on the next day the same message might get ignored. Most women don't have the time to send negative replies to every piece of mail they receive and I don't think we should feel obligated to, unless the person had sent a genuinely thoughtful personalised message. Just keep doing whatever is `you.` Jess xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' You keep using the word random? Seems to me you want to meet with any woman just for a root and nothing else? Any woman will do? Women are not hookers, most of us want more than some random guy turning up for a poke in the whiskers. Maybe you can word it a little better. I know it's weird, woman have very sexual photos up, they are often say they want sex and fun, etc on their profiles but..... They still want quality and decent guys not any random dude. You need to treat women on here like you would treat a pretty woman you met in the street and for God's sake don't mention sex.... Or EVER use the word random!! Agree...its just too...random
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am not really reading his use of the word random as a bad thing, more as an expression of how he percieves his own personality? As in, spur of the moment decisions, impulsive, etc? I may be wrong but hey, each to our own...But as far as why you aren't getting replies, try putting up a face pic and expanding on your profile a little would def help :)At the moment your profile is very generic, torso pic (albeit with the nice abs, lol) and nothing stand out in the wording of your profile. If i got a message from you with your profile how it is currently, i probably wouldnt bother replying. Or, if i was in a good mood i would reply telling you thanks but no thanks and to work on your profile!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your profile looks "fine" just be patient. It does take a little while on this site to settle in and get the hang of things!! Unless your profile is outstanding. Commenting on the forums with intelligent input will get u noticed!! Good Luck Gypsy💋- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks for ur thoughts.. *rookie error- Posted from rhpmobile
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Bambi_Peeks
12 years ago
I must admit, I am guilty of lacking in the responding department, however I did take the time to write a list of what I do not want - if they can not be bothered reading what it is my profile, why should I waste my time replying back to their message? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey I do use the word random as a term for off the cuff, spontaneous, no plans, lets do it ect.. Point taken however, I too was guilty of not completely reading profiles 😁- Posted from rhpmobile
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JessicaRabbit
12 years ago
= a big no no. Takes a couple of minutes max. If it's clear to me you haven't read my profile, why should I bother reading your message, let alone responding? Completely agree with Bambi - if you don't match what I want I often won't even open your message, or if I do I won't reply. Ain't nobody got time for that. Jess xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'TongueCramps' Are you sick? Computer and phone broken? Two posters got in before you on this one. Lol Thank you for your ongoing attention....I obviously pose a challenge to you. But while Im flattered, Im just not at all interested. DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Jimmy scratching his head (and other places perhaps) wondering how DG is getting all this attention without showing the abs... Well, he probably won't bother with that profile much, but hone his skills in the Forums instead ;-)Bosch Sparks
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RHP User
12 years ago
Howdy ladies and gentlemen, I'm about as fresh to the net dating as a jam and cream finger roll on an early Sunday morning down at your local bakery, please I may need some advice although am I correct in saying if you have the best ingredients the best formula? Which would be honesty, respect, love, desire, trust your profile should be like a bottle of wine let it sit be patient and when one night you finally celebrate with a fine lady who has embraced your fine fine wine, it is then when we can all enjoy the fruits of our labour, be true to yourself first of all for the truth shall never be rancid. ?? Now in a years time If i still have no replies I suppose I got it wrong.!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't worry about it ,dose not matter what you say,women tend to be stand offish till they read forums post or chat to you in Chat rooms. Then they block you If you are really luck you will get the standard RHP response from women that goes ....."Your not what i am looking for" .....So best advice i can give you,is you will have more chance at your local ,buying women drinks until you look good to them!As can be seen i don't take this place to seriously !I might go to the pub this weekend !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Messages that are witty without being pretentious. Can't stand grovelling messages or ones that sound like I am waaaay up here and he's waaaay down there- seriously - would that ever turn someone on! Having a standard letter is so obvious and puts me off everytime (it's all about me or nothing!) oh and I hate getting a huge introductory letter! One because I feel the need to reply after all that effort and two, I reply with a "good luck with your search"- because this is RHP not fukkin eharmony! As most messages blend in with the one prior. A nice profile pic will always catch my eye - Jimmmeeee xxxx. Loving your chest and shoulders... And that may lead me to check out your profile! I think the best way for guys to get noticed though, is to be seen! And therefore be recognised when your name pops up in our inbox! These forums are perfect... You can show intelligence, sexiness, humour, empathy in a manner that can never be put across in an email. Don't forget the chat rooms! The popular guys in there generally have a cam on while they are at the computer but also might be doing something silly or be playing wicked tunes that encourage the girls to sit on their cam. Of course, same rules apply.. Be witty, respectful, not sleazy and things will happen! (Cock cam is acceptable - you just don't want that to be all you are known for!) Have fun! Anna X
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm wondering why things aren't working for you??? (Scratches head). From what I've seen, you only get blocked in chat if you are aggravating someone consistently. If someone was impeaching on my time in the chat and wrecking my experience - then yep - Block! Let us know how you go at the pub👍
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi, I' haven been in a chat room yet? Only on phone.. I'm getting that sorted thou. Ty for ur tips
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