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Sleep sex... !

November 29 2013

Hi'ya! Hub's & I regularly have sex in our sleep! (By regular, I mean AT LEAST once a week) Waking in the morning with only vague memories, or even no recollection of it at all... Except for the 'evidence' !! We first became aware of it happening pretty early on in our relationship, & were a little weirded out to begin with...but now, more then 10 years on, waking up to...uh hmm..signs of 'sexy time' has just become the norm! Apart from family politely choosing to stay in motels on their next visit..lol. It's not created any problems for us. We are just wondering how many other couples & people, engage in 'slumber sex'.. & if its a fairly regular occurrence for you/them also. JoeNshellbell

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Haven't heard of that before OP, although I know some men have a sleeping beauty fetish.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    You should hook up a video camera and see if it was a good session !

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Have always wondered if this was a rare or common occurrence with others... many is the time I've woken next to my partner of the night only to find we have been busy in our sleep and both of us thought it was just an erotic dream. What is a worry is when you wake in the morning with claw and bite marks... and her hair so tangled in your hand it takes a good 5 minutes to free yourself. SG

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I think it's just normal, i guess wet dreams is the reason that's happening. probably your imagining different person while having sex :-) , but it's just me maybe yours is different case

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    *** Amicus75 *** So this happen's with you also?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    We use to do it. But ever since our son came along it doesn't seem to happen as much due to him crawling into bed with us at night. Have to say never really worried about it happening, just went with the flow. Love it when it happen every now and then tho. Its normally very erotic and we talk about it when we wake. I think its normal, even if it wasn't cant say that we would really care, we enjoy it when it happens.Take it in ya stride and enjoy it. Take about it when ya wake up, that's always fun.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    It's sounds like you are very lucky to be so in tune with each other that even subliminally you are connected. I don't believe that it is weird or unnatural, but rare and very special to have such a deep connection between you - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    We have actually done that several times over the year's. At first, just to see what was truly going on, if we REALLY were 'gettin it on'... Or if it was just extremely restless, wet dreams, we were both experiencing... Or even if it was perhaps, as Meeka mentioned, maybe a 'sleeping beauty scenario' type thing. Since I (Ms shellbell) Never had (& still to this day, rarely ever do) ANY recollection of it AT ALL, while MrJoe most times has very hazy, dream like memories.. We figured he must've been the instigator! But NOPE...! It's me. And EVERYTIME we've captured it on film, its always started the same way... With me either backing up to him & grinding my arse against him.. Or just climbing on top & rubbing myself furiously on him... Which obviously leads to us having sex. But believe it or not, it actually ISN'T arousing to watch. Although it IS just 'normal' for us now, & we always have a laugh over it. It feels a pretty strange to watch yourself doing things that you have absolutely no memory of!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Yep, that's pretty much the conclusion we've come to as well. Because in our efforts to try & capture our 'naughty sleep time antic's' on camera, We've been able to see some of the other things we do whilst sleeping. Such as... Holding hands, giving each other little kisses, saying "love you", having mumbled conversations, & even laughing! We also discovered that we intertwine our feet ALL night!

  • jenniecruising

    jenniecruising

    12 years ago

    Cruising has on several occasions taken me in his sleep He has woken up mid effort a couple of times, otherwise he is oblivious to doing anything the next day. Jennie

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I've always done it . But my most recent Ex didn't like it because she was offended that I never remembered it :( She wanted every time to be a memorable experience . She also didn't like me having a wank , probably because I may have fantasised about someone else . God , what a Prude ! And I was with her for 9 years ! I can see why we spent the last 2 years of our Relationship without Sex (we would have had more Sex if Sleep Sex was allowed)... Anyways , I live & I learn . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    12 years ago

    Waking up in the mooring to memories of a life like dream. Sex during sleep is good, and probably a good sign about your relationship, Falling asleep during sex is not so good...

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Fascinating. Never heard of this before. Love it :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Lots of the time Hub's has dream like memories of it, although sometimes not until later in the day. I'll usually get a txt msg from him saying.. "I had this dream......" And I instantly get THAT excited feeling in the Pitt of my stomach (like you get when your still dating!) But it makes the day go painfully slow! Especially since we work together, & I have to remain professional, which is SO damn hard bcz he's sexy as f#ck! Ahh.. But I do love those days! Generally we do 'get it on' most mornings, but the mornings when we're laying in each other's arm's, & he say's... "So.. Do you remember last night?" He tells me what he remembers, & we might have a bit of a giggle.. But the sex we have on those mornings is a little more passionate. Ahh..yes..I love those mornings too!!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I've noticed it in a few different relationships but only very early on in the relationship and then as things progress it seems to stop as that initial 'honeymoon' period wears off. Always entertaining waking up with hazy memories wondering 'did we or didn't we?'

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    on so many occassions before, i get woken up being ravished and eaten alive :P by my partner in between sleeps followed by hot sex.. come morning time, he says he had no idea of what has happened overnight! -- happened so many times! sometimes, he said he's dreamt it!! i just think it's so cool how it translated into reality - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    We've been together almost 14 year's, & still feel we are in the honeymoon stage. Our kid's are forever telling us to 'get a room' !! Lol Has anyone ever told you that you look like Tom Cruise, in his 'Risky Business' days ???? Mmm! Hehe

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    That sounds amazing ......your bodies must really be in love with each other. I remember hearing of clinical cases where a partner would be violent during sleep (strange but apparently it's absolutely uncontrollable also) but this must be the opposite and a lot more satisfying :). Hey if it feels good in the morning ....why worry?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Happened countless times with my ex. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    We AREN'T worried!! We were just interested in knowing how many other people/couples engage in sleep-sex ;)

  • rootratandlady

    rootratandlady

    12 years ago

    We tease each other the next morning trying to figure out who started it.

  • Playful2looking

    Playful2looking

    12 years ago

    After Fourteens years thats so cool good onya. Its a change from hearing from married couples that say their partner isn't intrested in sex anymore. Maybe we should get you guys cloned and send the negative nellies to the salt mines

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I love when the 'night man' comes to visit me!

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    12 years ago

    Well, I think at least one of you is asleep and perhaps the other is very convincing! That's a very common circumstance. :p Hugs Gazpacho

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I complained to the hospital, but they said that doctor does it as part of the service. I still think he should not have charged for the gap! Lost my virginity and my appendix at the same time!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I know the answer so you figure it out.I am just about to split my sides laughing.Also your under 40 and only one day a weekso at 50 is it one day a month.