RHP

RHP User

F64

Smokers

August 24 2014

I would be interested to know what goes through a mans head, when I have no married men and no smokers written in my profile,why they contact me. Or even worse wait until you meet and say "oh i see you had do not contact me if you smoke, I smoke" Don't you think a non smoke is not going to smell that revolting smell of old smoke on you. Please respect whats on peoples profiles.

Comments

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    11 years ago

    the ones that have they are a non smoker on their profile and they actually are a smoker really shit me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Does ANYONE actually ever read profiles? I (Mrs) am a profile stalker of sorts and enjoy reading other people's profiles. We have recently taken a break from the actual "meeting" aspect of the site and have clearly stated that as an update in the first line of our profile and yet continue to receive messages and flirts on a daily basis. It's just ignorant of people to blatantly disregard what you have written on your profile and shows to us if they can't follow those basic guidelines then they probably wouldn't suit us as play mates. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    11 years ago

    It's the smell of stale smoke, on their clothing and bodies. I am male, I enjoy giving oral sex. I enjoy the smell and taste of a woman, and smoking changes that taste. Some light smokers with good personal hygiene and occasional smokers can get away with it, most of the time I can tell.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I can think of a lot worse things than smoking..But do continue with this consistent complaint.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have had a few and made me heave. The sperms tastes is horrible, and from my experience they do not rise to the occasion nor have the puff to go the distance. After all it does affect your circulation and respiration. But smokers will argue differently and that's fine I just do not want to be intimate with a smoker,except one if my female friends I play with as she is mind full of that and does not smoke a day before play and shampoos her hair etc.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Just taking a stab in the dark here.... but you wouldn't happen to be a smoker by any chance?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    @JerseyGirl...... My vote is that he is😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If i have one personal deal breaker, it is smoking. Its nasty and the one time i did kiss a man who smoked i felt like his breath affected my lungs.

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    11 years ago

    Interesting post tonyerotic. Ignorance is Bliss.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Old Gandalf never got laid?. Obi1

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes, there are things worse than smoking. However, smoking is still awful for the people who don't choose to do it but can't avoid it being done to them by others - eg passive smoking, the stench in spaces and on clothes, smoker's breath, foul oral because the smoke permeates ... well ... everything. Pointing out that there are worse things than smoking doesn't negate all that's awful about smoking. The persistent complaint is a valid one. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The gap of couples and singles has widened due to smokers and nonIf I had a good lover or was in love it would not bother me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What you've written is quite chev,?i think there's a flaw in your logic. You're saying that you're prepared to turn a blind eye to a persons smoking, to have sex with them..... before you find out they're a good lover? Or they become your partner? But if they're s crap shag and a smoker.... it's a problem? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • usnow

    usnow

    11 years ago

    Tonyerotic The shamed smoker , fills in every part of his profile except the smoking bit , they cant bring themselves to say it so they go for the old " ask me " . Are you that embarrassed to own up ? Swingnew .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Number one.....actually read through the profile and take in what is being said. If a non-smoker says they won't accept a smoker and you smoke, move along and don't contact them.It's not hard. Sometimes I think people just can't read. It's very annoying.And for the people that are not honest about their smoking status and then suddenly reveal on a first date that they smoke? That's just a complete disregard for the non-smoker! Rudeness at it's best!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Aromatic roll your own tobacco, with menthol filters, mmmmmmmmmmm like a breath of fresh air and smells delicious. Not those terrible tailor made smokes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Has anyone made a smoked pork joke yet? :p

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    11 years ago

    Most people it seems don't read the whole profiles, we get the same in regards to smokers (note: anyone who answers the smoker question with 'Ask Me' to us is a smoker cos it's a simple yes or no question) and also we specifically say if people don't practice safe sex or indicate 'If Required' in their profiles then we aren't interested...but still they try.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have allergies and cannot go near cigarette smoke and many other things. Occasionally I can get away with occasional clean smokers. I have come across profiles that say ask me. So I ask and they may admit to the occasional pot or cigar. I get annoyed when they say non smoking and they show up reeking of stale smoke etc. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yep, I am a smoker, one of those heathens, destroyer of small fluffy bunnies ... But I am honest about it, it is there on my profile, hell I think I even have a photo in my public gallery with me holding a cigarette! So why have I been contacted by (last count) three women on here, two of which stated categorically in their profile those immortal words "NO SMOKERS, YOU WILL BE BLOCKED" - the other was a little more kinder in her terminology but just as matter-of-fact. In all three instances, curiosity got the better of me so I answered their msgs and enquired why did they contact me, since I am a smoker. All three said the same thing - they smoke but don't put it down on their profile and actually emphasis the no smoking bit as they know it will enhance their chances, especially with women and couples. Their thought process (what little there was of said process) worked on the assumption that they were women, they were willing to put out, everything else will be forgiven! Seems the power of the pussy trumps all! And I have lost count of the number of women I have met on here, and vanilla sites that have stated they aren't smokers in their profile, yet the first thing they do when meeting them is either light up one of their own, or worse, ask for one of my precious cigarettes lol Mooka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We can have big beautiful women. But smokers are all disgusting. But hey, every forum loves a dog to kick.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Non smoker. But it's still legal isn't if. Lol. It wouldn't be a deal breaker. Although does make me sneeze - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What if a person loves anchovies or cabbage or asparagus or garlic.... They all have pretty detectable aroma's & taste. Are they deal breakers too. I can understand the dishonest part but there's other things apart from smoking that turn people off. Would it ever occur that some people smoke but not necessarily foul smelling mass produced tobacco! Each to there own but yeah the dishonest road is not a good way to go. So if you don't smoke......especially after sex! Maybe your not doing it right! Please don't tell other people how they should live or die. It is up to each individual......to be fair! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'd like to see a profile option for the "occasional smoker" because, as a grizzled old sea dog, I do like to have the occasional puff on my old pipe with some cherry tobacco in it. Has a scented, woody smell to it and have been told (by some women) that it actually smells quite nice. It also comforts me on those long, dark, wet, wind-swept nights at the helm in a gale force 9 sea. Having said that however, there is a time and place for such things. Accordingly, I can take or leave smoking (depending on present company) much the same as I can take or leave drinking or farting. If my present company does not like those things, then I simply don't do them in their company. (except for farting perhaps). Obi1

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I do smoke.On and off. It's an on going thing..Because I've only actually met a handful of people from here in a decade, I'ts relatively unimportant..That is to say I cannot pollute you from here. You're safe...from me anyway.

  • imupinthesky2

    imupinthesky2

    11 years ago

    as per SunshineSunshines post ... how many peoplle does it take to read a profile ... to some it is offensiveothers tolerate it with the company they keepif your little old granny was a smoker would you not see her because she smoked ???no, you would choose to go to another room while she puffed away ahhh leave poor Tonysmokerotic out of it - he is happywe all have our vicessome like to smokesome like to eat red metsome like ... no cant write thatwhatever it is, if you do it - STAND up for ityou are the one making the "choice" to do it so be proud - that is if your doing something that your not proud of (just saying) but having said that, as a NON smoker I think those that are smokers its great - kills off the weak people !!!

  • Plain280

    Plain280

    11 years ago

    Not much because all he is thinking about is the conquest, they are turned on by the possibilities and not the actual eventuality of it happening. Plus there is that old chestnut you have to ask 100 and you might get a reply that could go anywhere thats why? Think of it as a gamble in reverse, that they think you might be interested, the same with the married bit, forever trying to gain a conquest and they dont care how, its called an ego or the narcissistic male syndrome.Me I dont smoke dont drink and I am attached and all on my profile.Oh and that smell, even as a teenager never liked the smell, alcohol and cigarettes mixed together made me crook, mind you I think many a potential relationship was ruined by the line, have you got a match or lighter Im dying for a ciggy.