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So... How Saucy Is Sydney?

December 04 2009

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Hi All, We are new to Sydney having recently stepped off the boat (so to speak) and plan to be in town for a while, as such, we are interested to know what "Swinging in Sydney" is like. We are a young married couple, intelligent and educated, well travelled and we like to think we are a lot of fun... we laugh a lot anyhow - at each other an awful lot of the time. We are living close to the centre of Sydney, and have spent recent times getting to know the city, by walking about, reading guides, talking to people. It seems like a simmering hotpot to be honest? Is this an accurate perception? We have played before - many times actually, normally with single girls (yes - the holy grail) - more by luck than planning - as we have met some very lovely and liberal friends in the last 4 years that we have been together. We have played with a few couples - normally soft swap, but they aren't necessarily our preference. This could very much be down to us only really meeting older couples in the places that we have frequented, rather than us not liking couples... We have been to some crazy hedonistic club nights, some great young swingers parties, some dodgy backstreet wet clubs, some verging on fetish clubs in the suburbs of Berlin. We have poured champagne off some beatiful bodies and we want more... in Sydney this time - and it is completely alien to us. But where do you look for it and what can you find in Sydney... As the parts of town that we have walked around seem to cater for the G/L/B/TV communities, I think that we just need to open our eyes a little more to see the bit that we are interested in? Any tips? Places to head in the direction of? Are single girls more liberal than other parts of the world? Is swinging socially more socially acceptable as Sydney thus far seems very liberal (minded rather than political) What are we looking for? Erotic encounters with like-minded people - be that drinks and flirting at a Burlesque club, or anything that might sound fun. I did think about the beaches - but its not something that we have done before, and am not too keen after hearing the comments on the beach play thread on here. We look forward to hearing about the underground life! Absolutemmm

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I kept bumping into people at parties, couple's clubs, and other sex on premises joints and there seemed to be one thing in common with the sexy sluts we are or aspire to... all of them have attended or do attend the Hellfire Club every third Friday of the month. Google Hellfire Sydney.   Also, the events listings on this website are genuine.   Hugs and welcome Gazza

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sydneysiders..... please please please reply to Absolutemmm... purely for my own selfish reasons, mind you, as I'll be in Sydney soon...yay!.... and my questions are the same as theirs!!! lol :P

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    There is a god....

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  • Bubbaj

    Bubbaj

    16 years ago

    swinging in sydney....to actually find hot and sexy people....   most nites I find it random to find a hot sexy someone to have fun with in swingers clubs such as sinsity (surryhills-mainly men). There is also lotus lounge which is good for couples in general as it is spacious and open. Arrows is good if you like 100 men running after u in the rooms upstairs! Me personally loved Clubrub but thats because it was so friendly but the crowd is random as in there were more men there and 1 female bi :P   Hellfire is a great place to meet other people with a bit of kink! What I dont like about it is no sex on site....oh all the plays i missed out on!   I am up for a drinks nite! LETS GOOO! lol

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hands off Daytona3 - I got sophie first ;-)   sorry - could not resist

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lmfao Sophie... are you coming to Sydney?  I know why didn't you tell me!! hehe. I know why... you want to be able to leave the airport terminal... never mind hon, I'm only 15 minutes from the airport so you can catch a cab... or its only 10mins on the bike :p... call me when you get there and I'll pick you up! :p Wear something that the air can catch so teh wind swishes up your thighs and gives all the cagers a thrill as we pass them. :p   Bubbaj.. lolz you sexy fukr. I haven't seen you at Aarows! You must be that one girl who occupies the cage room and generates such a crowd of men that I can't get to see who's in there! I haven't been there in a few months though,  lol. There's also "The Couple's Club" in Surry Hills.... have you been there yet?    Oh and for the BDSM crowd there's Cherry's BDSM party over in Clovelly. http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Event/G2Ku-BDSM-KINKY-Christmas-Bash-12516 ........... I haven't been to it yet but I've bumped uglies with people who attend.   Obviously there are lots of private party groups..... something on every night of the week if you look around.   Hugs Gazza

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Lotus lounge for couples and single girls.......   Couples club , same single girls and couples only   Numerous strip clubs...... sleazy and a like pure platinum is a little more upper class will take all commers and cuuuuuuuummers ahhhhhhhh!   Arrows ....... (pls correct me Gaz if wrong) single boys and couples (this we havent been to! (No really)   Hell fire ............ I am with Gaz my favourite! Hellfire rocks! hellfire is more out there and I dont think is for everyone.... and that exactly what makes it great! Leather , fetish and all the trimmings whips chains and naked boys and girls. Almost everything goes there EXCEPT aghhhhhhh no play!!! Bubajj I am with you I have sat very very sore and sorry watching the girls touch, play and have a "generally good time" whilst my sword stays in its scabbard. The rule is no exposed genitals! walking around with a kilt no underwear and a cock ring on can do that as well ....... but thats another forum I am sure!   Also Uber service ....... very out there people who will help you explore all you fetish interests! BTW very nice , very welcoming!   There are of course several dungeons ...... which come with or without a Dom or Sub! >>>>>>> are you starting to get a theme from us ??? naaaaaaaaa   Several dance parties like hot Kandy etc but again no play so to speak. But sexy looking people!!!     mmmmmm now what else ....................... of course there are numerous sex shops , with or with out video booths and cinemas where " there are no rules" we are reliably told by many shop assistants!!!!!!!   and a partridge in a pear tree!!!     OK ok thats enough......... We really are just a shy and completely innocent couple from Sydney who sit at home on a sat night and knit!! no really we do!     SOPH!!!!!! tsh tsh tsh you didnt tell us you were comming to Sydney! Well mmmm if you like kniting or scrabble we are happy to have you over! ;-p   GAZ I am going to beat you to the airport on my bike!!! broom broooooooom!   Peace and goodwill to all sexy swingers!   Brae

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  • Bubbaj

    Bubbaj

    16 years ago

    Gaz u silly bugger! lol!! Ive been to arrows like twice...the first time i went with anuda couple coz they wanted to see....got to cold inside the place...the 2nd time i went wit spanky...lol we ran through that second floor and about 10+ guys ran after us! SOOO FUNNY! we locked ourselves in the swing room and laffed at the men peekin under the door! And i will see you gaz at cherrys clubrub if ur there for the 17th!Couples club i will try out next weekend! Im hoping that it is soooo good that i get more friends with extra happy benefits! (too greedy?! oh come on!!!)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Aarows.... mostly gay, bi and curious men... a handful of couples at best.... and usually a dozen or so cross dressers and transexuals. I've met some wonderful couples there but that's just a case of dumb luck. I haven't been in a while. They were doing a lesbian show every Friday night earlier in the year. The Long string of pearls tucked away and later fished out was very entertaining. :) hugs Gaz

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Just a quick message to say thanks for the replies - will go and have a peruse through Google and see if there is anything of interest! :-) Thanks Again.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You guys really have your fingers on the pulse.... but where else have those naughty fingers been? :P Didn't say anything, lovers, didn't want to scare you ;)   Daytona & Niceguy... ;)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sister Sophie not Scarey! Awwwhh brave sister Sophie. Saucy. Yep. Sydney is about to get a whole lot of saucy.... Saucy Sister Sophie's coming to town. Come sit on my knee and tell Gazzy all about what you'd like for Christmas. hehe. Hugs Gaz

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    WE will be picking Sophie up and after she's negotiated the curves of Mrs Pup with a little helping hand from Mr Pup then we'll give her the RHP tour of Sydney...who's first?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You are so very cheeky! and you know why!!   I am Sister Soph assuming your acceptance of the below!   Now all commers and cummers I have a solution to the developing concern about who will pick up Sophie from the Airport!   I think we need to make this very Australian and very Sydney! SO the plan!   Think surf carnival sprint race. Sophie is the flag!    *A cut out of Sophies profile pick is to be popped at the end of Bondi beach standing at ALONE (no Gaz you need to line    up as well you cant hold her hand!)   * All couples and single boys are to line up on the opposing end of Bondi ( 100 metres away )   * HOWEVER! theres a catch in true BDSM fashion all couples and single boys and girls must be chained at the ankles to    another participant (think 3 legged race).Remember our Miss Sophie is a devine "thinking mans" sub!   * You must be dressed in either a wicked weasel swimming costume or leather chapp's or g-string to enter!   * first to Sophies cut out gets to pick sophie up at the airport! Yes you need to crash tackle the cut out just like a surf race for a flag!   I am happy to be the starter , I am a lover not a fighter! ( Gaz I am happy for you to be chained to Mrs looking to enter the race. It also gives me a  chance as well)   Pups you will need to start training get in the sand and start sprinting is my suggestion.   Daytona & Niceguy I have organised this so you can enter together.   Absolutemmm, time to embrace yourselves in Sydney culture your free to enter as well!   Now tell me is this NOT a great new thing to see or do in Sydney!!! First ever RHP sand sprint championship!Who would want to see some crazy RHPers running partially naked down Bondi Beach in G-string and Chains ....... oh it would be the crack of the starters whip , not a gun , to start the race of course.   What do you all think have i stumbled from the original forum post toooooooo far???????   Hugs , and tickles to all sexy swingers!   B

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lol Brae. I am not a runner... least, I dont run in leather chaps.. nope... can cause a nasty heat rash, you know. hehe.. I can swim like a fish though. :p  but let's face it... we don't want a bunch of kinky RHP fukrs making an episode of Bondi Rescue... hehe.   Nope. I'm going make use of a membership at the Qantas Club and start an overnight vigil at the international airport, until Sophie gets here. I am of course, writing this post from the Qantas Club and I'm prepared to wait here for as many days as it takes until Sophie's sexy arrival.. lol..... (where there just happen to be lots of very attractive stewards and stewardesses... Sophie)  :p .. oh except Tuesday Night.. Im going to Fleetwood Mac concert! hehe. Sorry Soph.   Hugs Gaz

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I am the guy on the computer next to you!   ;-)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'gazpacho41'Nope. I'm going make use of a membership at the Qantas Club and start an overnight vigil at the international airport, until Sophie gets here. I am of course, writing this post from the Qantas Club and I'm prepared to wait here for as many days as it takes until Sophie's sexy arrival.. lol..... (where there just happen to be lots of very attractive stewards and stewardesses... Sophie)  :p Gazza, I feel i should come clean... that wasn't a real steward... just a disguise. I figured I ought to take advantage of the situation. (Brae, thats an awesome idea... only trouble is, if I get my ankles shackled to the owners of ankles i'd like to be shackled too.. I won't be getting much running done  )

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lol Brae... NExt to me? Llet's just have a wrestling match, nude of course... and Sophie can catch a cab. :p Soz Babes... You know how I am with armpits. :p   Hugs Gazza

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hi guys ,We will send you a note (and you too Sophie)There are a few underground groups that run private nights etc you should look into for the sorts of things you mentionedKisses ..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yeah Lustbirds.. I really have to wonder about the exclusive groups that are simply too exclusive to share the contact details in public, well... on RHP.  It's just not my scene Im afraid... they couldn't be real sluts. :p   Hugs Gazza

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Ok Gaz you very sexy fukr!!!!!! I am chaining you to syd  boy , who's leash I shall be holding ....... then my my armpits are yours!!!!!!!!!   Soph Miss Sarah will pick you up! I am sure you will find a way to keep each other entertained!     Lustbird who btw in our humble opinion are possibly some of the sexiest folk around!!!!!!!!! (thier PG is so hot it comes with a warning.) We are hoping you are going to send us your fabulous list, our inquisitive-minds can never get enough! Will we ever get to meet you?   Sunny days and warm armpits to all sexy swingers!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Gaz .. please dont misunderstand our post. Maybe I wrote it a bit hastily. Didnt mean to imply what you inferred.By 'exclusive groups' we dont really mean 'formal groups' in and of themselves. There are groups of friends around the scene in Melbourne & Sydney & elsewhere who have all found common interests and likes/dislikes (and I don't necessarily mean just physical likes in others) who hang together and organise nights out. Many of these are more than slutty enough for you, trust me.To break in to these kinds of circles you need to be invited - this means someone who goes regularly has to ask you along and as everyone who goes wants to maintain some sort of balance everyone tends to be fairly careful about who gets asked along.Also, a lot of 'these' type of nights are often in people's homes or in venues that are a little away from mainstream .. you cant simply post details and open them up to everyone without some sort of controls or you would certainly not be able to ensure your privacy. These events/evenings aren't run for profit.Public contact details are find for anyone running commercial type enterprises but in this scene a group of 20 or 30 friends who all love the same sort of nights tend to 'recruit' a little more privately .. I am sure you could come along lol .. real sluts are usually always welcomed.Looking2try .. Thx guys :) .. I am not sure the compliments are merited but they are always appreciated )Will send you a note ..Kisses all ..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well we have begun to explore - and we never expected it to be quite as it is!!! Kings Cross is a bit lively isn't it??? Any suggestions where we can go for a fun night at a (female? are there mixed ones?) strip club as a couple. Platinum was mentioned earlier by looking2try3 are there any more that get the thumbs up? Other Stuff Couples Club - where is this? Have you got a link? Lotus Lounge - we will sample in the future We are more for FMF or FFM rather than single blokes. Thanks. xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sorry to dissapoint not saucy according to the swingers on this site they can't even reply.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sent you a message guysCouples Club is in Surry Hills. At CC and Lotus you wont find single guys ..Strip clubs .. Mink is ok.If you want to try a stress free MFM thing go to Bodyrotic.. web search will find it

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well good to see your out enjoying yourselves. Did you miss Hellfire????? Naughty people you will need to be spanked!   YES the cross a little interesting ............. Lustbird, those saucy sexy twosome, are dead right. No single boys at lotus or couples club. Both have websites. You may find your ffm or fmf ( we must admit to being confused on the difference ). Dont be wall flowers or you will get no where!!!!!! Get out tell people what your looking for at the clubs.   Now Miss Sophie .................... have you found anything to do on your trip to Sydney? We hope you have had some reasonable experiences.......... good meals , reasonable service ? Found yourself anyone to entertain you? If not and worse comes to worse... by all means scrape the barrell and give us a call.   Merry christmas to all and wink wink to all a good night!

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  • usm79

    usm79

    16 years ago

    Sydney can be a little gold mine for fun and games.   Lotus and CC are fun, friendly and safe.   We are always on the look out for new and interesting people to play with ;-)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    @4nicake - I simply don't understand your message - it doesn't make sense. Are you trying to say that Syndey isn't saucy on here because couples don't reply to your messages as a single guy? If so - hard lines - but there is nothing that we can do to help you there... @LustBirds - No message from you I am afraid. Thanks about CC & Lotus Lounge - we will look them both up in the new year. Mink - we will peruse the net for that one! ;-) @Looking2Try3: We have been rather busy since the start of December - I am sure that we will be suitably reprimanded at some later date ;-) FFM - Girls Play, Man Plays with own partner FMF - Everyone plays with everyone @USM79 - oh do behave ;-)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We went to other RHP forum junkies to ask about the fmf ffm thing !!! and we all didn't understand (idiot idiot idiot they scream as slaping their own foreheads - lol )!!!!! oppps sorry for that little outburst- yes you will be spanked for not coming to hellfire absolute! please please ....... say please!   Now usm79 you messaged our other profile apartyof3, being a guest profile we cant see your photos!!!! We can now! ohhhhhhh dear!!!!! YUP hold the phone Batman we have a live one! YUM!   A good old spanking to all sexy swingers!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I much prefer fffmfff ;-) oh and looking2try3 we were going to message you, but... we were "told off" by the RHP system! "Attention. Guests can only message Platinum Members if the Guest matches what the Platinum Member is seeking, looking2try3 is not looking for: Your Gender Group Your Relationship Group" LOL am curious to learn more about Hellfire... it isn't what we would normally look for at all, but, I like your profile a lot (its like ours was on SDC before we came here) and will talk about coming to this January party... :-)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Absolute .. the message is in our sent folder here. Will resend it now.Looking2try3 .. we are headed up your way in a couple of weeks. Watch out! lol

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