M36
So my girlfriend wants a 3some...
November 20 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well what type are you after mmf or ffm? If it's girls then ur gonna have a hard time if she's anything like my ex. If it's guys then I don't think u will have any trouble getting a guy to fuck ur hot gf.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Your profile says you are single!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
i agree..sometimes they are best left as fantasy...if she is wanting the threesome..let it be in her time and of her choosing..maybe suggest someone you know that she may like ...have a meet and greet ..and if it happens let it happen..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Im a woman & I would say she wants to please you! But if shes not wanting to join you in trying to find a woman! I say she is not 100 percent! I have been there! & trust me the woman needs to pick the woman if its going to work! Its not worth the drama if yous have a great relationship! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Funloving: That MAYBE a bit harsh there *smiles* I am single in EVERY sence of the word, BUT, I do have close women who I do OTHER things with.. SOME I have sex with, SOME I dont. SOME I repairs their cars and houses, and do a lot of stuff with... However, I still have at least one who I call "My girlfriend" She knows I am on here, and is fine with it.. she has her own "Man" who knows about me.. and whilst he isnot fine about it, has learnt to LIVE WITH IT, or deal with it. "Youngcas" MAYBE in the same postion, and his "Girlfriend" maybe a woman or girl who he is experimenting with.. OR.. he maybe another one that lies :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Take your time dude, the more you push, the more shell slip away. One thing you need, is to have patience with this. Give her time, flirt with the idea when you go out together.. ask her "Who in the room she finds attractive" (Guy or girl) play a little game called "Fuck, Marry, Kill". Who out of the girls in the room would Fuck, Marry or Kill. Tell her how much it would turn you on to see her with another girl etc. Make it FUN. Just dont PUSH.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Youngcas is only 20 so I suppose his girl is about the same age. I think they both sound a bit immature. Maybe she is still coming to terms with her sexuality and he is not sure about his commitment to her, hence the single tag. Give it time Youngcas and things will find their natural order.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well I was having threesomes when I was 20, and they all ssemed to eventuate in similar circumstances. 3 horny and curious people...add a lot of alcohol...start playing 'truth or dare' or 'spin the bottle'...and viola! Instant threesome! Otherwise, like someone else suggested, open a couples profile and have fun flirting with girls together online first.Mrs NTN
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RHP User
15 years ago
Put up a couples profile with a view to finding a couple who are interested in: No full swap. Girls play. Then back to own partners. Be precise. We have met quite a few who are looking for this. But yeah she needs to choose the couple. I mean you get imput but at the end of the day it needs to be a woman who she has chemistry with & is attracted to. And I agree...As a couple there is no way we would have been able to handle this back when we were 20. It takes time to develop trust & communication that works. However there do seem to be heaps of younger couples on here...so it really depends on your selves ;-) Mrs H xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
does she want a guy or a girl ? would you be happy to have a guy involved with you both ? you have to ask eachother if you are both bi curious or straight ? then let her make the choice and find the guy or girl . then u can go for it and have heaps of fun !
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' I had my first threesome (well kinda) when i was 19.........my best friend invited me in with her and her boyfriend at the time and the second he got all hot and heated over me, she freaked out. Got jealous, insecure and left the room leaving me with her horny boyfriend. Thankfully we're still friends today which we possibly wouldn't be if i had shagged him when she left the room. That situation is so common it just isn't funny! it's always one or other of the partners that discovers that they feel insecure when their lover gets turned on by the situation. I think it is usuallty by reason of a failure to appreciate that their lover is not so hotted up just because of the other person's technique or physical attributes or something... it's simply because they are in a situation (of more than one lover) paying them all that attention that overloads their gushing dopamine laden body. It's because there are three, not because the other person is so much better at it than you are. Once you wrap your minds around that, you can relax, feel less insecure and enjoy!HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'DETONATOR' OK cool its hard to get her to open up and she is comfortable in her home setting with you and is shy.Organize a late afternoon with her and have a few drinks ,talk to her and tell her we should have a few people over for a get together.Then you could have your boys come over and want to have a couple at the local club ,one of your friends has to be back early as he is your trust ticket for going.She wants you home!She should be cool with it,but tell her you want her, and BE home early as you can.Now if you got cool mates that can turn it on and you have a party attitude you will attract attention.Keep it cool dude and dont go crazy but girls and guys with hot girls you should tell your having a party back at your place.Mate look you have to plan it and have all the things you need to have a good time ready so she dosnt have to do a thing just enjoy herself.Now when you go home shoot off first warn her of all the new people and friends that are coming ,and blame it on your mates ,but assure her it will be fun.Do everything for her.DONT MENTION THE BI GIRL THING YET.OK shes cool and is ok with kicking back and is happy with your effort and help.NOW the party is kicking and people that you met in groups are coming in and friends friends its an after party party and its cranking.This is a place now for her to meet a young lady as you can now both look and tell each other what turns you on about a certain girl.She may meet one in your own lounge room.Dont get too excited if she meets a girl ,give them time to like eachother and click.It might take off slow to start ,as she "your girl" is shy but let the girls know your cool and BE COOL.THey will let you know DONT PUSH IT!Once your there its a mine field of emotion ,take notice and make sure you give your girl plenty of attention as one mistaken move could end it all if its you and your girls first time .She might not know what she wants and could discover she hates seeing you with another girl or only wants to play with a girl by her self.Are you cool with that, cause you will have to be.No point in giving her a complex you will only drive a wedge between you.Could be a great thing and you get a cool 3rd but its a mine feild for the new.Be cool, if she wants it, it can happen dont try to dry fuck her and try and force it.Lubricate it and keep it smooth lad. GO for it and good luck lad. DETONATOR. Step carefully, remember its a MINEFEILD. HaHaHa Please do not follow this advice it is horrible and manipulative, if you really want to have a threesome with your girlfriend you have to TALK to HER. Do not try and create some sort of ridiculous scenario. She is a person with her own feelings, not a pawn to maneuvered into position.Mrs NTN
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RHP User
15 years ago
If his girlfriend was happy with the plan then I would be all for it. But the fact that you were suggesting he "not mention the bi girl thing' and 'step carefully, remember it's a minefield' really suggests that you are advising him to manipulate his girl into a situation she has not agreed to. That is sooo wrong.Oooops feeding the troll...Mrs NTN
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RHP User
15 years ago
Heya I am moving to Darwin next year wanna have some drinks and play spin the bottle or truth or dare with me hahahaha
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RHP User
15 years ago
We only play with females or couples, so find yourself an enthusiastic girl and join us for a foursome Mrs NTNP.S. My apologies to youngcas that this thread seems to have gone a little off-topic
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