So very, very green

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  seekandplay

  4 months ago

  We’ve all had first time nerves, so you’re not alone! I can’t speak for that venue specifically, but generally you turn up in something nice that makes you feel comfortable, perhaps a little sexy. Some venues have strict dress code, so check what it is at the one you’re going to. Probably ‘dress to impress’ I would imagine. Some venues you’ll go in and they give you a key to a locker, plus some towels. I found the men there tend to strip right off immediately and wrap the towel around them in the more social area (bar and pool table) and I just wore some lingerie that made me feel comfortable. Other women were fully naked - it’s truly whatever people were comfortable with. Other venues, you have to be dressed in certain areas but ‘dress down’ to head into the play areas. They will not let you in play areas fully clothed. For men, this could be as simple as a nice pair of briefs and a nice lingerie set for women. Remember, you don’t have to do anything you’re not comfortable doing and unless it’s a themed dress up event, you don’t need to wear anything in particular - just whatever makes you feel good. The thing that I’ve loved the most about venues i’ve been to is every single body type and size is there. No one judging, everyone just walking around feeling great about themselves. It’s extremely liberating! Good luck, let us know how you go!

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  misslily

  4 months ago

  Yeah not sure on that venue, the places we’ve been provide towels for when you dress down.

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  seekandplay

  4 months ago

  Any update?!

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